No intimacy in marriage for nearly 5 months!
Q. My DH and I have now been married for 6 1/2 yrs but together for 9. For the past 4 1/2 months there has been zero intimacy and I'm going crazy. He won't talk to me about it. He just keeps saying that he misses me in that way and loves me so ...
A. 19 January 2011: Something is WRONG. It is either he has someone on the side or has an STD. No normal man can go for months without having sex with his wife, a good percentage of married men masterbate too.
So if I were you I would get tested and hire a private ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to come back to her married life, do I allow this to happen?
Q. i am 33 yrs young man living in copenhagen and married 10 yrs ago and have got one 3yrs daughter and my wife has cheated on me for 2 times since last year and she told me she had 8 times sex with her lover ,,,,,,,,,,,but still she is in love with ...
A. 16 January 2011: It sounds that you are willing to take her back with the condition that she won't cheat on you anymore. If that is the case, I would take her back but make her sign a document that she would be out of your life if she does it again. The statement ... (read in full...)
He's constantly hunting down women for sex
Q. I am seeing this 54 year old man. Our relationship is a no frills relationship. We occassionally get together to have sex. (Both divorced) Lately he's been bringing up the subject of having threesomes and group sex. And then he sent me this ...
A. 16 January 2011: Could it be that he is showing you the profile of the would be participant of your threesome?
Do you think or suspect that he has bi-tendency?
It does not sound that he gets enough sex and maybe that is the reason that he is hunting women fo... (read in full...)
My friends say I never should have opened and read the email from my ex
Q. i was dating a guy which i fell in love with deeply who broke it off with me cause he was being deported back overseas the next day and was married with a kid, and he loves her husband, since then i have gotten over him after many tubs of ice cream ...
A. 16 January 2011: How is going to come back if he got deported? Illegally? You might be in trouble if you take him back if he gets back into the country illegally?
Listen to your heart and give him another chance, but make sure that this relationship is going so... (read in full...)
After hacking into my husband's facebook account, my gut tells me not to trust him anymore
Q. My husband and I have been married for a little over a year and he is a deployed contractor. Everything was going fine from what I can tell, but then I read one of his emails from his phone that he left behind asking if he "hooked up w/ the chick" ...
A. 15 January 2011: Have you been to Dubai yourself?
I fly to Dubai once every 6 months or so and I can tell you that it is easy to get a girl there, they come to hotel lobbies and sit, flirt and wait until they get picked up. There are too many beautiful Russian,... (read in full...)
Cheated under bizarre circumstances while drunk, don't want to hurt my girlfriend.....
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. This is my first relationship, I’ve known that she was the one since I first laid eyes on her, and I plan to propose after we finish college. Last night, I cheated on her. I went over to a friend’s (w...
A. 14 January 2011: I think you should tell her, otherwsie you will guilty for the rest of your life. You already told your mom and it is not a secret anymore. Did your mom suggest that you tell her?
Does she know your friend and his gf? What if they tell her?
... (read in full...)
What do I do? Boyfriend dating other girls even my friends!
Q. i'm 24 years old. i have a boyfriend,J, who love me so much ! we've been dating for 4 years. my 2 years with him is so great. i knew him when we studied together in university. so we spent so much time together. but after 2 years, he's changed. i ...
A. 14 January 2011: You will show more respect for yourself if you leave him and not go back to him no matter what he does. Also you will be more careful in the future as to what kind of bf and female friends you will have when you decide to have them. Well, wou... (read in full...)
I never imagined my affair would leave his wife!
Q. I met this man whilst he was away for 5 months on work and we were instantly drawn to each other without really speaking. When we did talk it turned out he was married with kids, although my moral stance as always been very strong on this sort of ...
A. 13 January 2011: I read all the comments ...
It is not your fault that he left his wife, he was married and should know better not to get involved with anyone else. If he did love his wife he would not have done that either.
the point is you need to really t... (read in full...)
What do I do? Boyfriend dating other girls even my friends!
Q. i'm 24 years old. i have a boyfriend,J, who love me so much ! we've been dating for 4 years. my 2 years with him is so great. i knew him when we studied together in university. so we spent so much time together. but after 2 years, he's changed. i ...
A. 13 January 2011: Once a cheater always a cheater. Do you think you can live with a cheater for the rest of your life? I think you should dump this boyfriend of yours as well as your best female friends. They all cheated you and that is your basis for cutting off ... (read in full...)
Mutual attraction with brother in law that never seems to go away.....
Q. I have been married for just 2 years and I am absolutely in love with my husband. He is the most important person in the world to me. He still turns me on, makes me laugh, spoils me, and looks at me like I am the only thing in the world. He has been ...
A. 10 January 2011: I know how you feel ... let me ask you some questions if you do not mind:
How do you feel when you know you are going to see him?
How do you feel when you know that something came up and you can't see him?
The reason I asked the above questi... (read in full...)
No intimacy in marriage for nearly 5 months!
Q. My DH and I have now been married for 6 1/2 yrs but together for 9. For the past 4 1/2 months there has been zero intimacy and I'm going crazy. He won't talk to me about it. He just keeps saying that he misses me in that way and loves me so ...
A. 9 January 2011: There is more info missing here especially about your past and relationship and possible marriage issues. From your post yYou sound so innocent. Here are some questions I have: 1 - Does he get in bed with you and try to do things to please you se... (read in full...)
Virgin woman married to a man with erectile dysfunction
Q. I am a 35 year-old virgin. My 40 year-old husband has an erectile dysfunction which is preventing us from consummating our marriage. We've been married since one year, and are together since 4 years. We love each other, and are able to enjoy ...
A. 4 January 2011: Sorry to hear about your problem, it must be frustrating for both of you.
The only thing I can suggest is try different positions .. It could be that he is not comfortable with one position and it is not working out. Doggiestyle always works be... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my girlfriend's intimate scenes with her costars
Q. hey hi...my girlfriend are me are together for 5years...shes started modelling and doing tv serials from past two years...i dont mind her doing it but cant stand her doing intimate scenes with her costars..she says its a part of the job and cant ...
A. 25 December 2010: You should talk to her about it and after that decide what to do. If you end up breaking up with her, you need to know that she will be free and can be taken anytime after the breakup. ... (read in full...)
He said I was cheating but 2 years later he wants to try again
Q. When you've dated someone for a long time and broke up because he said you were cheating. Then he turns around and buy you a christmas present 2 years later does that mean he wants to get back with you and make a furture with you? because i still ...
A. 25 December 2010: Or he may just want to be friends with u ... but the question is if his reason for the breakup was true, do you think he can trust you again??? If it was not true, do you think he used that as an excuse to leave you and now he decided to come ... (read in full...)
Dating a man 20 years older I really can't see what I am getting out of this relationship
Q. I am 35 in a relationship (for 20 months now) with a man of 55. I love him, he wants to marry me, but i am hesitating. Sex is nearly absent (he has medical sexual problems), there is no financial security, and all issues that come with 20 years age ...
A. 25 December 2010: It is a big age gap indeed. I can't tell you what to do, but you need to think about 5 or 10 years from now and what your life will be like with him when he is 60 or 65 and you are still a young 45 year old female...
As for memories, most peo... (read in full...)
I have a suspicion he's being devious. How can I trust him again
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend off and on over 2 yrs,it usually only lasted 3 months at a time but this time we've been together for 7 months.I have trust issues because he has lots of girl friends and many of them he met on internet date ...
A. 25 December 2010: This does not sound good. I can tell you that you will find out that he is doing something with someone else .. So what will you do when you find out?
I can tell you are not happy and you are with someone you DON'T TRUST!!!! So why are you wast... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to make a move on her at this stage of the relationship?
Q. Hi everyone I have posted here before but now a different issue has shown up in the same matter. I am posting this here cause it has been spinning around in my mind for weeks now and I am not able to find any answers. I would like to know...
A. 25 December 2010: Thanks for the info.
How do you dress in front of each other? Do you intentionally dress less to show her more of you? Does she do any of that? Have you hugged her tight braless?
I guess you can take the tight hugs further by doing other thin... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to make a move on her at this stage of the relationship?
Q. Hi everyone I have posted here before but now a different issue has shown up in the same matter. I am posting this here cause it has been spinning around in my mind for weeks now and I am not able to find any answers. I would like to know...
A. 24 December 2010: There are missing info about you in order to kind of advise you what to do next. Info such as ... Are you open with her about your orientation? Does she know that you are bisexual? Have you given her compliments just how she gives them to you? How ... (read in full...)
Is he referring to oral sex?
Q. Hi, This is a question for the guys. If a guy says to a woman he wants to touch and lick you until you scream.Is he referring to oral sex? ...
A. 21 December 2010: There are 2 places where he can touch and as a result of him touching you, you would enjoy where he touches you and you end up screaming, lol. These two places have to do with oral sex.
I can't name them because you didn't ask about their na... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? Help me interpret the signs!
Q. Hi, I am very confused :) My boyfriend of 6 months has contradictory signs about whether he is gay or not. Well he is quite feminine and sensitive and I have accepted that about him. I have thought that this is because he grew up with women only ...
A. 11 December 2010: If we do a comparison between his bahavior and someone else's who is known to be bisexual or gay, then we will see similarities. No doubt that your boyfriend is either bisexual or has bisexual tendecies. It is not hard to figure out his orientation ... (read in full...)
Why all the fighting over Facebook??
Q. Here's my situation... I met a man online, through a dating site and we hit it off from the first date. Mutual attraction and chemistry, and it just felt so good at the beginning. We decided to get off of the dating site, but he wanted to be fri...
A. 11 December 2010: To me, what he feels for you is not LOVE. I think he is infatuated with you and having had what he wanted, he is feeling different now. The fact that he still has female friends and on top of that you 2 ARGUE / FIGHT over it, it means he does not ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my sister's plan and get away from him?
Q. Hi. I hope there is some advice you guys can offer me. Ive been with my boyfriend now for nearly 2 years. We were kind of set up at a party and one thing lead to another. We really began to like each other. After 3 months of meeting. He asked me ...
A. 10 December 2010: OMG, get away from this SOB. YES listen to your sister and do exactly what she suggested. You can report him to the police before he goes with his friends and have him arrested so he knows what it is like to be punished. Do not feel bad for him and ... (read in full...)
Far from my husband, thinking obsessively about a colleague who seems perfect for me!
Q. I'm recently married, but due to immigration controls i haven't seen my husband since September. I should mention I spend 3/4 of my life in one place and 1/4 in another; my husband is from the second place. I have had feelings for a guy in the firs...
A. 10 December 2010: You did not say alot about your relationship with your husband? Do you love him enough to wait for him?
You obviously know that it is wrong to be with someone else, and that is good. You are married should focus on your husband and try to help him... (read in full...)
Help! I'm in love with my brother-in-law
Q. Please let me explain in detail. I have been with my husband for 8 years, we have only been married for 3 years. We have two kids under 5. Our marriage has been on the rocks for about as long as we have been married because we had kids right away ...
A. 10 December 2010: I am sorry to tell you that there is no advice as to how to make your feelings go away, also I hate to disappoint you that your feelings might never go away, if any they will stay the same if not stronger.
I know of 2 similar situations that dea... (read in full...)
My husband likes for me to sleep with other men, I feel like I'm cheating!
Q. Hey, My husband likes me to sleep with other men. It turns him on and is his greatest fantasy. At first I thought it was really strange but I found I actually really enjoy it too. Only thing is that I generally meet these guys out in pubs and club...
A. 8 December 2010: I am just curious when you tell your husband? Do you do it when you see him or you give him details while having sex?... (read in full...)
I don't want to appear a slut but I crave a man! How do I meet older men that would appreciate me?
Q. I am in my early 20's and have had sex twice. I think about having sex almost all the time or at least my thoughts stray to it very often. I used to be overweight but lost 80 lbs. I missed my earlier years for the baby steps in sexual contact. I ...
A. 29 November 2010: I would classify your post as a hot letter and most likely you wrote it when you were horny :) ... It sure did have an affect on me.
If I were you, I would change jobs and would look for the kind of job tha is frequented by older men. You soun... (read in full...)
How can I contact him?
Q. Having just had a fabulous holiday in a smashing Hotel owned by a chain in the UK-I found myself very attracted to a younger man-much younger. He seemed interested although it was apparant he was going out with one of his work colleagues. He w...
A. 29 November 2010: You said he was seeing someone he works with, so that might be one of the reasons he can't email you or contact you through your friend. I think he must have like you, otherwise why was he eyeing you alot. It does not make sense. I am sure there are ... (read in full...)
Was it wrong of me to enjoy this sexual experience with my cousin?
Q. Here is the story: I went out of town to visit my aunt for Thanksgiving. I haven't seen my cousins for over five years. My aunt, who is my mother's half sister (BTW), had 10 kids--So I have a lot of cousins. This cousin in particular is the one ...
A. 29 November 2010: Most of the people I know have had sex with their cousins, I did it with one and came close to doing it with a different one but the ciircumstances did not allow it. Of course I come from a different cluture where you can marry your cousin.
I am ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to not want to walk into a situation where a man is dependent on me?
Q. met a guy this past summer, June. He and I share a mutual friend. My mutual friend told me about him and told me he'd like for me to meet him because he thought we'd be a perfect pair. Before I go on, my friend told me that his friend was from a ...
A. 23 November 2010: LOL, I am sorry but I could not stop laughing as I was picturing the whole thing. Your writting style is very creative, as I was reading your post, it made me feel as if I was there with both of you. WOW, great writting skills.
Anyway, I can't sa... (read in full...)
I'm a neglected wife and my neighbor wants to see and touch me!
Q. Hi, I am married women and my husband works in a different country and visits home only once in 3 years. Apparently I have a neighbour who is wel knwn to our family too keeps visiting our house and once over the dinner table he saw me braless over ...
A. 21 November 2010: Did u know that he was coming over and wore a thin dress and no bra? ... (read in full...)
A dream about him cheating on me made me feel more insecure than I ever was
Q. I know I shouldn't read into dreams, but last night I had a dream about my bf cheating on me. I saw him kissing another girl and we started to fight over it. I slapped him twice and yelled at him, asking if he left me for "something better". He said ...
A. 26 October 2010: I will tell u this; someone I personally know went on a business trip and after a long day he went back to his hotel room, called a massage parlor, they sent him a girl, she gave him a massage and and ended up having sex with her. His wife had a ... (read in full...)
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