Sometimes I wake up and for a while my world feels like it's tumbling into Hell.
Q. Sometimes I wake up and for a while my world feels like it's tumbling into Hell. I cannot explain this because I can find happiness in friends, the arts, nature...but for some reason I have mornings where I wake up and feel "Oh God this life is ...
A. 31 May 2007: You sound stressed out, all I can say is just to relax your self and do things one at a time to suite you, in it terms of your most important needs first. Life is to be lived with fun, although everyone has ups and downs... you need to derive ... (read in full...)
His friends say he really like someone else now and that I should finish with him!
Q. me and my boyfriend are having a bit of a problem at the moment so i thought i would ask :) well about october time there was rumours flying around that he kissed another girl, so i got upset and then got over it, but then around a month ago when i ...
A. 20 March 2007: Yep... get rid of him ASAP... just make sure there is another person first before jumping into conclusion... tell it to his face... see his reaction if you like... it’s an unhealthy relationship... especially for you...... (read in full...)
I like two guys!!
Q. I have what may be a problem. I like two guys. When one takes interest I lose interest and when they play a bit more hard to get I think it's exciting not knowing what could happen. They both live far away from one another, one lives near me. I w...
A. 20 March 2007: like you said your just having fun... keep having fun it is normal to behave they way your behaving... when your ready for a guy... you will take him Seriously, till then get having fun... you will know when the time comes trust me... ... (read in full...)
He said he wants to date again but has not arranged anything!!
Q. I was seeing a guy for a few months and he said he would like to go out on a date again and he is the one which brought it up. He has not arranged anything though and it has been weeks since he said this! I have seen him and he is not ignoring me ...
A. 20 March 2007: All I can say is, dress you ass and look nice...then see if he takes any notice he most like you to arrange to go out with you... relax your self... look good all the time and talk to him as if your where just friends that never had any interest in ... (read in full...)
I really want her to reconsider and give us another go!! We are still close, should I see how things go or ask her ?
Q. Hi, I really need someone to give me an outsiders opinion on the situation im in at the moment, if you would, please read, ill try to explain things to the point. Everything started last year, the end of may, where i worked came under new ma...
A. 20 March 2007: Am sorry mate, she has gone back to her ex boyfriend, her coming round yours is just because she missed you and your company, you seem to be a nice guy but, I can grantee you that all the time she was around you she still loved her ex... ask your ... (read in full...)
Why do I ruin my chances of a relationship??
Q. i dont know whats up with me. I get really really obsessed with guys. Ill tel you the general pattern..we both really like each other, i get really attatched, i either pretend i don't like them or text them constantly and if they dont text me often ...
A. 20 March 2007: you are insecure, just relax you most be attractive for all this guys coming to you, anyways when you get the next guy just relax and try not to push him away... another thing you can do is to go to one of the other guys that you really like and ... (read in full...)
Since we are in an LDR I don't want to pressure him!!
Q. I moved to another town and met this guy on line, we shared mails for 2 weeks, then we talked on the phone for a week, then we decided te meet up. We fell for each other right away (we both removed our profile from the site). We had a great re...
A. 20 March 2007: You must really love this guy, well it’s clear that he has feelings for you, whatever it is may be love or not he has got some sort of feelings for you, judging by his actions, just feel free with your self and see how things flow don’t pressure ... (read in full...)
He bit my head off and isn't talking to me! Why is he being like this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend split up in August last year. Stayed in constant contact and recently got back together. I have just been diagnosed with low self-esteem, lack of confidence and having a feeling of 2nd best when an old friend of mine - Michelle - ...
A. 20 March 2007: It’s not him, sound like you expect him or people to act in a certain way and if they don’t you feel a bit disappointed, just relax and try not to worry on people’s actions... if it does not turn out the right way just relax and see how it flows ... (read in full...)
I dont know what to do? date my ex(we have history) or continue with the new guy that I click so well with ?
Q. A few days ago my ex called me from his freinds phone anyway we talked for about 5mins. then he gave me his new cell number... The whole time me and him have been broken up..I have wished he would call me, but now that he has, everything is so ...
A. 20 March 2007: Tight situation you got there, but hey all you can do is to follow your heart just close your eyes and ask yourself what do you really want from a guy and what really makes you happy... or right a list of the things that you dislike from both guys ... (read in full...)
He wont let me finish with him, would he really end his life, or is this emotional blackmail ?
Q. I tried to break up with my fiance on Friday, and like always he tried to talk me out of it. He said he would call me later in the night and told me to answer my phone. I wanted to end it, so I didn't answer. He called and texted me so many times, ...
A. 20 March 2007: Just be honest with him... telling him that you don’t want to be in the relationship, if that’s what you really want... He loves you that’s why he says those things and does not want to lose you... It’s up to you for the decision you make... your ... (read in full...)
Not sure what to go into business doing... ?
Q. Im 20 years old and I work as a receptionist/ admin full time at a computer store, i have completed my high school and vce, and have completed cert 2 in retail, half of cert 4 in i.t and completed cert 3 in business and currently undertaking cert 4 ...
A. 15 January 2007: Reflect back at what you enjoy doing best, and see what opportunities lie there for you and what they would offer you in the long run. You need get a degree in business which would help broaden your knowledge about the industry. Then start of by ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me. Is he just trying to be nice?
Q. I know this is probably a stupid question...but iv been going out with this guy for less than two weeks and he already says he loves me, and he asks me if i love him...i mean yes i really like him, but dont love him as such yet, surly he isnt being ...
A. 15 January 2007: Well he must really like you, and sure does not want to lose you. He’s just doing a check if your feelings have gotten to that stage, when guys say do you love erm, I mean just say not yet but time will tell. When must guys meet a girl who the like ... (read in full...)
My bf and I have a business but we broke up. How do I cope now, that we work together?
Q. this ex of mine still wanting to have a business for a living with me inspite of our descision of breaking up for good, this is gonna be hard for me because i dont want to see him that much for i do still have a feelings for him,but he insisted that ...
A. 14 January 2007: You know that deep down in your self that frictions would happen one day, it could be sexually or lead back to you two dating again, it’s really up to you to decide if it’s just strictly business or if you can coupe with working with him and truly ... (read in full...)
I feel bad because I told him my true feelings and I didn't get any reaction back! What should I do now?
Q. hi, i have a huge problem, i kinda like this guy, who i think liked me, but before all of this i knew he liked someone else. But than he started calling me and stuff, and wanted to meet me, we meet, then we talked on the phone for about a week. It ...
A. 14 January 2007: The boy Cleary likes this other girl, so just let him go, and with time you find another guy who really likes you. So as it is just let him be, at least you told him how you felt about him, don’t feel down about him not calling. Probably does not ... (read in full...)
I get really clingy to men after the relationship has ended!
Q. heyyyyyyy why do i get so attatched to men? i meet lads then after its ended, i become really clingy.Thinking about it, im 19 and have been properly crazy and obbsessive over at least 5 men!I have no idea why i get like that!its so stupid.i...
A. 14 January 2007: It’s a natural thing for people to act that way, when you get into a new relationship it all stops gradually with out you even noticing it.... (read in full...)
He cheated on me, now we are having a baby together!
Q. my boyfriend cheated on me in switzerland when he was away on a sports trip, it was with the physiotherapist! i had just left hospital and was sick at home when he went away. when he came bak he went all weird and broke up with me but then i found ...
A. 14 January 2007: Hello, there’s only one thing you can do, leave him just stay away from him I know this is not what you want to hear but it’s all you can do, it would hurt and eat you in side you love him care for him but you just have to let go, if you two are ... (read in full...)
He spends a lot of time with his daughter and not us! What can I do to improve this situation?
Q. i dont know where to start, but i know im very depressed at the moment, i have 4 children 2 are disabled so i have quite alot on my plate, im also doing a full time college course in fitness training, so im juggling quite alot, the childrens dad ...
A. 13 January 2007: No you’re not put inside a box. Is just all in your head, it’s his daughter he can’t force her to do what he wants. I could sort of understand where he is coming from. Like you said you don’t want to lose your man, don’t put any pressure on him, ... (read in full...)
We broke up because he made promises to call me, but he didn't. Now he wants back--should I date him again?
Q. i have recently been in contact with my ex-boyfriend and we have met up a few times. We broke up because he always promised to call but never did. His previous girlfriendS had cheated on him. When we are together he is very affectionate and I ...
A. 13 January 2007: Follow your heart, always see where things are going too first before making any decision, find out if he is serious if he’s not then move on. There is no harm in waiting for a bit.... (read in full...)
We like each other but I think he's way too good for me! Should I go out with him?
Q. right thear is this boy who i like and he likes me but he is way 2 good 4 me and my best m8 likes him and has been out wiv him lotz she says shes ok with it but i no wen it comes to it she wont be wot do i do can eney 1 help ?????????...
A. 13 January 2007: Just let it go, all you can do is fancy him and that’s it. Things do happens you would have your fair share of fun in time to come with some on else. She’s your best mate, that’s not a nice thing to do. ... (read in full...)
We like each other a lot--nothing is happening though! What can I do?
Q. I'm in love with this boy...I have been for 3 years and I can't take it anymore...I know he likes me too and we are always flirting...but I don't know what to do cause he knows I like him and I know he likes me but nothing serious has ever ...
A. 13 January 2007: Let things un-fold it self, there’s no rush. Trust me they would. Time would do it, just carry on sending the right signals, not too much not too little.... (read in full...)
Could my wife's cheating be caused by her menopause?? Should I believe this?
Q. On 6th December 2006 i submitted a question as a result of having caught my wife on 4th July 2006 kissing and cuddling with another man. This had been going on for 18 months,after 28 years of marriage. Meetings were limited to 15 to 30 minutes a ...
A. 13 January 2007: That’s your wife you’re talking about and another man, if he respected you he would not have kissed her or started any flirtation of any sort. Am not saying to go and fight no, but just need to stand your grounds, she has told you that she loves ... (read in full...)
Married 21 years and now..he sleeps in a seperate bed from me! I feel so unloved-what can I do?
Q. me and husband been together 21 years did have sex then 6 years ago husband started sleeping in single bed said it was his nerves all things in his head always going to doctors doctor took him off list sick of him did have sex now and again then he ...
A. 13 January 2007: Tell him how you feel, that’s all you can do, 21years is a long time and fighting things together is what you two should do no matter what the problem is, try and come to a level of understanding. Try and approach the situation in a much calm mood ... (read in full...)
Mysterious calls have shown up on her phone--should I be worried?
Q. I was over at my girlfriend's house the other day and picked up her cellphone bill to look at it ... to see how much she was accruing in charges (being nosey). With that, I noticed that she was calling some numbers at 3-4am in the morning. Th...
A. 13 January 2007: Well if you’re that worried, get the number and call it your self under a private number, may be once or twice, if it’s a girl feel free, and if it’s a guy, just play it cool. Try and find out if she has any distance friend or relation before ... (read in full...)
I feel that I can never have a good relationship because of my poor body image! Any advice for me?
Q. Well, I suffer huge self confidence issues. I hate my body which I feel is not as slim as I would like it to be and what’s more is also scarred with hideous stretch marks after a fairly chubby me had lost weight when I entered high school and ...
A. 13 January 2007: Try and be comfortable in your own skin, never judge a book by its cover, your young the older you become the prettier you get; you have nothing to worry about. At least you know you don’t want to put on more weight, let your personality speak for ... (read in full...)
After introducing me to his parents, he still seems distant. Is he really serious about us?
Q. my boyfriend if 30 and i am 22 we have known each other for 4 years but have only been in a relationship for 5 months. it seems to me he is quite shy. i had to take the first step and say i had feelings for him. and did he want me the way i wanted ...
A. 12 January 2007: Sounds like a nice guy and he seem’s to be interested in the relationship, your worrying too much coz you’re scared of losing him; you won’t. Nothing to worry about, just make sure you’re sending him the right vibes and his yours; respect, trust and ... (read in full...)
I see another guy behind my husbands back! I love my husband so why do I do this?
Q. My husband andI have been married for 10 years and have 2 children. In our relationship my husband has had 3 affairs. I have stayed with him, however recently I had a short relationship with another man, my husband calls it an affair even though ...
A. 12 January 2007: If you love your husband why are not with him, all the affairs out side will not help you or him, you two need to sit down and talk, you don’t need to hurt him and he does not need to hurt too, just try and create a sense of respect for each other, ... (read in full...)
His gf caught us in bed and they broke up. Now, he tells me--he's not over her! What should I do?
Q. I'm in the most ridiculous situation me or any of the people I know have been in dealing with relationships ... Almost a year ago I randomly met a guy, through friends, who I instantly clicked with. We ended up sharing a kiss, and I was thrill...
A. 12 January 2007: Sticky situation indeed, all you can do is to speak to him and tell him how you feel about him. That’s all you need say to him, don’t go telling him that you feel that the idea of him getting back with his ex is a wrong idea and all that because you ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my wife I kissed the girl from work?
Q. I have got myself into a dilemma that is eating me up inside. I have been married for nearly 2 years and we are very happy together. we have been through a lot lately with house moves and both had problems at work, so we have been stressed but have ...
A. 12 January 2007: I tell you one thing, the moment you open your mouth to confess say goodbye to your wife, by this i mean that her personality, because she would become a totally different person learn from it, it's not nice, if your married your married treat and ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to go to the next level...because of my bikini line! Any product suggestions?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and want to take our reltionship to the "next level". I am definatly ready but I am really worried about my bikini line. I have tried using hair removing cream in the past but it just made my skin go ...
A. 12 January 2007: You don't need to be worried, he would not mind, his mind would not even be there, hey don't you think your to young for that... why not wait was the rush till your 18.. or something.. try and wait don't push it.. it's up to you tho still..... (read in full...)
After she told me she "can't even remember" the number of guys she's been with, I'm having doubts about us. Help!
Q. Hi everyone, Im 20 years old, and from calafornia,i have been going out with my girlfriend jane(20) for about a month, we were good friends (that slept together) before we decided to be a couple. I love spending time with her, we can talk about...
A. 12 January 2007: the past is the past.. what ever happened has happened...... (read in full...)
Was told she was 19 but she's really 17 and I'm feeling badly for being atttracted to her! Stop contact or just be friends with her?
Q. Hi, got a bit of an issue on my hands. I'm a 23 year old college guy. My uncle introduced me to a girl at a family party (no, hah, she's not related) and we hit it off pretty well. I specifically asked my uncle how old she was and he told me she w...
A. 12 January 2007: I don’t get this, you just answered the question, of course you going to ask her out on her birthday only if your still interested, I you feel on the sense that she just 17 and all that, yea but now she’s 18. Go for it man if she pretty and nice and ... (read in full...)
Should my ex gf tell her new, soon to be roomate that I will be over at their place, staying over?
Q. my ex girlfriend said to me on new year's new eve she's wanted her own place. so i offered to move in with her she said it was a good idea she told me it would make sense. to split the rent down the middle with someone she trusts. the w...
A. 12 January 2007: hmmm sounds sticky... lets see.. i tell you one thing you would get busted big time, may be get away with it for sometime but you would get busted... advantages sounds nice enough to go for it... Go for it. yeeep let them be together and you have ... (read in full...)
She's dating a friend but she confessed she really liked me...what should I do?
Q. ive got this friend and i sorta liked her but then we started treating each other like brother and sister and laughed at ppl who tried to get us together, then a couple weeks later she starts going out with one of my friends and im like thats ok( i ...
A. 12 January 2007: Ok fine she like's you or liked you.. what do you what to do? betray your friend, don’t be silly be happy at least you know she liked you, your fault for not seeing that one time, let it go and carry on being friends, with her and your mate. They ... (read in full...)
My friend is mad because we started a website...and she thinks we copied her bf's ideas! What should we do?
Q. after 30 years of friendship, my friend isnt speaking to be because we started a website after her boyfriend started one. they told us what he was doing we gave him tips and advice that was 6mths ago. we (in december) thought that we would do 1 ...
A. 12 January 2007: one word envy... don't let any body stand in your way, what a friend she is for acting that way, you gave her boyfriend advice in the 1st place so why is she mad. there millions of people doing the same site thing so why should yours bugg her so ... (read in full...)
We are both shy so how can I get him to kiss me?
Q. I really like this guy and i think he likes me back i having my 18th bday party soon any ideas on how i can either kiss him or have him kiss me as we both shy and he doesnt drink also. we cant play spin the bottle as almost everyone else is in a ...
A. 12 January 2007: Make sure he like's you, don't think make sure he likes you.. it's a thing you do together not one person pushing... let him do the work.. give him hint's that you like him, and if he likes you he would kiss you..... (read in full...)
I like them both but know they're no good. My family agrees. These feelings are brining me down!
Q. Dear Cupid. I'm 20 and have had a bit of a dodgy experience with blokes, one described me as being too open and loving for my own good, and sometimes it seems that way. Either way my niavity with men has got me into a lot of bother. I recently spl...
A. 12 January 2007: Your funny, remind me of a girl I used to know, I tell you one thing there are not a lot of good guys out there, you know these guys better than anyone, so you decide on who will make you feel better look after you love and care for you, no body is ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready for motherhood! Should I have an abortion or keep this baby?
Q. Hey there! I am about less than 2 months pregnant. I am devastated. I'm only 17 and this was obviously very unplanned. I wish I could turn back time and change the fact that I had unprotected sex. I'm stuck in the middle wondering if I should have ...
A. 12 January 2007: If you have the money, to support the kid comfortably without any problems fine you could considerer it, was in that situation once and no I did not keep the child. If you ask me I would say don’t keep it. Your 17 think carefully... your life has ... (read in full...)
He seemed to have more chemistry w/ the trashy ex who stole from him!
Q. I feel like I am totally screwing up my relationship with a man I truly love. A few years ago, I became acquainted with this gorgeous, sweet man but he was involved with another woman and totally devoted to her. The puzzling thing was, he is highl...
A. 12 January 2007: I feel that you should just tell him how you feel about him first, then tell him about your problems that’s it, he should be able to sort it out and he sounds like a nice guy, you can offer him a hole lot better than the ex all you need do is prove ... (read in full...)
I love my ex, but she doesn't know who she wants. Should I leave or stay?
Q. look me and my ex lashenia have been apart for 1 year and 6 months and i want her back we talk like every day but she tell me she want me back also after dumping me because she have feeling for someone else but she came back to me and we started to ...
A. 12 January 2007: She just wants the sex... it's up too you, the same way she comes to you is the same way she go's to the next man, if you are cool with that fine, if your are not well you know what to do...... (read in full...)
My bad depressing 2006 is spilling over into 2007...
Q. hi all, im not sure where to start, i had a real bad year last year , so far this year is not too bad.. but i cant seem to keep my head high and a smile on my face, ive been depressed before but it doesnt feel the same..just wishing something good ...
A. 8 January 2007: Life is all about living and being alive and making the best of your self, you don’t need to be depressed, because you have your family and people who really care about you, and they don’t like to see you un happy, be happy because you are able to ... (read in full...)
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