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writes: I have what may be a problem.I like two guys. When one takes interest I lose interest and when they play a bit more hard to get I think it's exciting not knowing what could happen. They both live far away from one another, one lives near me.I was in a four relationship last year and split it up after my boyfriend betrayed me. I was devastated as I never thought someone I have cared for so much could do such a thing to hurt me. We got back together but it was never the same so I ended it last August.I am not normally like this I normally like to be with someone. I have also started staying out all night some nights - not necessarily with one of these guys on the agenda, just my friends. Is it wrong to behave like this,I am 26? I am having fun tho and have never had so many friends around me.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): It is not wrong to behave like this. You seem to be playing around before finding the right guy for you and settling down. As for the guy problem choose which one you think is better to have a relationship. If you are finding this hard why don't you write down the for and against points of going out with each guy. Then look at all four lists (two for lists and two against) and decide which looks better for a lasting relationship.
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reader, Big boy +, writes (20 March 2007):
 like you said your just having fun... keep having fun it is normal to behave they way your behaving... when your ready for a guy... you will take him Seriously, till then get having fun... you will know when the time comes trust me...
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