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*-gurl704
writes:A few days ago my ex called me from his freinds phone anyway we talked for about 5mins. then he gave me his new cell number... The whole time me and him have been broken up..I have wished he would call me, but now that he has, everything is so confusing to me, he told me on the phone that he still loves me and I told him the same because I do, but I am involved with someone else at the momment.The new guy lives in another city about 2hrs away....I mean I like them both...I have history with my ex, but the new guy is so cool...I don't want to choose...I want to go back to my ex, but I know history probably will repeat itself...we didn't have the most healthy realtionship the first time around...but still I don't want to choose the new guy over my ex...it just seems wrong, even though me and the new guy get along so well...we can talk about anything. we click ....then you know the old saying....don't leave the one you love for the one you like....thats how I feel about this situation...wat do you think???
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reader, clairebear  +, writes (21 March 2007):
 i think this may be a case of "familiarity" with your ex. so where has the ex been since you split up? is it not hes found out bout your new great relationship and decided if he cant have you no-one can? (i have an ex like that) you say 'history will repeat itself' so why are you even worrying yourself about it. get on with your new life with your new fab man.....and see if hes got a brother for me!! haha
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reader, Big boy +, writes (20 March 2007):
 Tight situation you got there, but hey all you can do is to follow your heart just close your eyes and ask yourself what do you really want from a guy and what really makes you happy... or right a list of the things that you dislike from both guys and see the longest then pick the one with less problems. for all you know, you think you love your ex, I think you just miss his company... take your time and think, you can’t be leading one... its not right if they did it to you how would you feel....
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