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writes: heyyyyyyywhy do i get so attatched to men? i meet lads then after its ended, i become really clingy.Thinking about it, im 19 and have been properly crazy and obbsessive over at least 5 men!I have no idea why i get like that!its so stupid.im an intelligent woman, but have crushes??i mean my ex moved to america this time last year, i still think about him at least once a day and always look at his photographs!!i feel like a stalker..why am i like this?x x x x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2007): We all have been there, i often think about an ex and we finished over 6 years ago. Don't worry, its quite healthy just so long as it doesn't take over all of your life. You will think about them less in time.
Take care
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (15 January 2007):
It is ok to love people and keep them in your heart, what you need to let go of is the obsession of the desire to have them or be with them. Once you separate the difference between love that you feel for people and the desire to be with them, you will be able to keep the connection, but become less attached. It is something you will be able to develope in time.
Another thing which helps, is to focus on living your life in the reality of the NOW, to focus on your life as it is happening to you now, not to live in the fantasy of the PAST. Focus on the people who are in your life right now.
Hope this helps.
Good luck.
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reader, Big boy +, writes (14 January 2007):
 It’s a natural thing for people to act that way, when you get into a new relationship it all stops gradually with out you even noticing it.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (14 January 2007):
 It's okay to miss him, especially since you didn't have any control over the way your relationship ended. I think everyone is a bit like this. When you get a new boyfriend you'll find it easier to move on!!
CD
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