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writes:me and my boyfriend are having a bit of a problem at the moment so i thought i would ask :) well about october time there was rumours flying around that he kissed another girl, so i got upset and then got over it, but then around a month ago when i was having an abortion at quite alate stage i found out the he had been going out with her and friends while i was away getting this done, i was again anoyd but tryed not to let this spoil us, but now i found our from his best friend and my very close friend that he was bin saying that he is seriously likeing someone else, my friends say to finish with him but i cant, what would you do please help me!!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Sorry to have to say this, but, YES YOU CAN finish with him, and you probably should!
You were having an abortion and instead of sticking by you, he is telling your friends that he seriously likes, and has been seeing someone else!
Its not a question of YOU "trying not to spoil us." The truth is HE has ALREADY spoiled things!
Nice type. Not. He obviously feels no loyalty toward you, and you owe him......precisely NOTHING. Dump him!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (20 March 2007):
 This guy sounds like a jerk. If you're having an abortion he should be with you and not out cavorting with other girls...
Listen to your friends (and right now, I'm one of them) and finish with him! It'll be hard, but you deserve and can find much better.
xxIndia
P.S. Like everyone else said, I'd double check those rumors.
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reader, Big boy +, writes (20 March 2007):
 Yep... get rid of him ASAP... just make sure there is another person first before jumping into conclusion... tell it to his face... see his reaction if you like... it’s an unhealthy relationship... especially for you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): It'll will be hard to hear this but he doesn't sound like a good guy, he should have been there for you through that abortion. It things like that, that show who people are he wasn't there for you. These rumors could be hearsay, but your yound its not the end of the world it'll happen again and maybe the next guy will be better for you.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (20 March 2007):
 You need to get rid of the this guy. You were going through something as bad as an abortion and he wasn't there to support you and was messing about with all your friends? Get rid of him and start working on your own happiness again.
Make sure these aren't just rumours though, you must know it's the truth before you take action.
Good luck
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