I want to make friends but don't know where to start!
Q. This sounds weird but how can I make friends? I've never been one to be popular or have many friends, but I had about 5 close friends from high school. I ended up loosing touch with them because 2 of them moved and the other 3 went off to coll...
A. 8 September 2015: My son is in the same boat. He has a few friends but not many. He is actually looking for a girlfriend. He is 22 and has not had a girlfriend yet. He is good looking but a little shy. I told him to look for groups with the same hobby he has. If you ... (read in full...)
How do I bring up how unreliable, unfaithful, neglectful and awful he has been to me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is unreliable, never makes time for me, he has been unfaithful, he ignors me, and just treats me so terrible. But as hard as i try, i cannot stop loving him. Is there any right way to brong this ...
A. 13 January 2012: I know from experience let him go. He does not deserve you. You could do so much better. Daniele... (read in full...)
Should I stay in my unhappy marriage? Or get a divorce and be with husband's friend whom I am cheating with
Q. Hi, I am married for 8 years now,24 years old I had my first child, I have 2 kids, my mum was neglecting me and she has this attitude problem i could'nt bare,so i runaway from home by marrying a man who is a wonderful trusted husband that I don't ...
A. 13 January 2012: I am surprised your husband would still want to be with you after you told him that. Anyway why be unhappy. You telling your husband of your indesgretion signifys the first step. The second step would be to file for divorce. You need to fair to ... (read in full...)
I don't look like I used to. Does that bother men?
Q. So my boyfriend says he wants to try new things but I am a mother of three and do not look like I used to...does that bother men as much as it bothers women? ...
A. 13 January 2012: I don't think so but you need to feel good about yourself so do something about it. If it doesn't bother you men don't care sex is sex to them. Love is a big part of that. Daniele... (read in full...)
Do I tell my ex's family how abusive he was to me?
Q. After 5 years of being in a very emotionally abusive relationship with some physical abuse, I got out! Its been 2 months and counting, of absolutely no contact. The problem I'm having, is with his family. They always made me feel like apart of th...
A. 13 January 2012: I would send a card. His family probably knows how he is since you have said they liked you from the start. I would not say anything to them. I don't think they could do anything anyway. It might make you feel better but them feel worse. Good ... (read in full...)
Clingy one night stand
Q. Okay so the first time i ever dated/kissed/had sex someone happen over the summer, it was a two week thing before we both went off to college. Well it hit me pretty hard and she moved on pretty easily. So i was looking for somewhat of a rebound girl ...
A. 13 January 2012: She is seven years older than you she should know better. You should have told her from the start that it was just a one time thing. Sounds like she is immature and can't handle rejection. You should stop talking to her. Eventually she will ... (read in full...)
I chatted online with a nice guy but gave him false info and then broke things off. Should I tell him the truth now?
Q. so I've made a major mistake and I'm not asking for reassurance from anyone or for anyone to try make me feel better because I know I have done wrong. well basically last year I was left hurt by a guy after he treated me really badly and dumped...
A. 13 January 2012: I would not say anthything let it go. I understand why you lied and he might be understanding too but what if he is not. If there is no contact between either of you now let it go. Just remember to explain to the next person you meet online look ... (read in full...)
Too many issues and she thinks its all me, please help. I believe shes the one.
Q. hey guys, ill try not to do a novel :) this will be a question that may need some agony aunt devotion . i will appreciate answers to my full extent, i promise. so.. my girlfriend of over 2 years now hates me, here are our issues: my gf says i ...
A. 16 December 2011: Sounds like she had issues before she met you. It is not good to start off a relationship that way. To have you leave so she could cook another guy dinner oh no that would not fly. That says to me she doesn't care about how you feel.... (read in full...)
I'm insecure now because my boyfriend said I needed to "tone up" to go from being an 80 to 100!
Q. I am obsessed with becoming thinner than I am. Although I know that the way I am made, it is impossible for me to be tall and thin, I want to be thinner. I am 130 pounds and 5'5 so my height places me at a disadvantage, but even though I'm very ...
A. 16 December 2011: Your boyfriends a jerk for that comment. I used to be 130 thought I was fat but now I am 98lb lost weight due to a stomach condition called Gastroparesis now I wish I was 130 I am too skinny. I have curves and there is nothing wrong with it. I ... (read in full...)
I keep falling for him and it's driving me crazy. What to do when I know he'll never love me back?
Q. This year i took drama and when i walked into my class there sat the boy who I haven't been able to put my feelings straight for more than a week. He's cute and nice. We both share unique views on life but he is way more popular than me. He isn...
A. 16 December 2011: Just be friends. Sound like you are youg and let me tell you when I had my first real relationship at 15 I thought I was in love too. It lasted 6 months and then he broke it off. I was hearbroken but got over it once I realized I would fall in ... (read in full...)
Just curious or bisexual?
Q. Hi, I'm having some trouble dealing with something that happened with a work friend. We went out with the rest of work for our Christmas do and I ended up kissing a boy from work called 'Ryan'. We were really drunk but when we were at the tabl...
A. 16 December 2011: If this guy was bi or gay or whatever would you really want to be with someone as messed up as he sounds maybee for a one night stand but not a serious relationship. He can't even tell the truth to his friends let alone you. ... (read in full...)
Do her actions show that she might be receptive to dating me?
Q. Am a guy who is reserved and stern.there is this girl whom i normally chat with.she too is reserved and naive not easy to be asked on a date as does said by other guys who had tried dating her but couldn't succeed.sometimes when we are chatting she ...
A. 16 December 2011: Maybee she doesn't like showing affection in public. You need to ask her what it is all about. Sound like you are getting mixed signales.Good Luck to you.... (read in full...)
Does he know the pain I go through when I know he's looking at porn?
Q. Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and we have always had sex reguarly, its never been the same there was also something to spice it up everytime. But recently within the past few months maybe he would reject hav...
A. 16 December 2011: My husband is 42 and still looks at porn. Its what guys do especially younger guys. Have you tried to explore with him ask him questions about it. Maybee if you could be a little more open he might not do it as much. Good Luck... (read in full...)
Take a break? Or chase after the woman I love?
Q. history- me and my girlfriend(or ex), have been together for 2yrs plus.1st year was bumpy, a lot arguments, 2nd year was a bit better than usual, for the last months it was going great. problem, we had a slight argument and had big fight and br...
A. 10 February 2011: I would not wait too much longer. You are missing out on life and if you don't have much time for her like you said things will go back to the way they were. Before you know it you guys will be arguing again. I hope this helps. Daniele... (read in full...)
Why is he insisting on seeing me? He lied about having a girlfriend, which is why I stopped seeing him!
Q. What should I do with my ex? I dated this guy who is 9 years older than me. He kept playing mind games with me throughout the time of us being together. He lied to me about his girlfriend saying they weren't really together when they were. Long ...
A. 10 February 2011: It sounds like he wants what he can't have. It also sounds like he is feeding you lines don't buy it. Tell your current boyfriend this guy is harassing you. He sounds like a loser. Good Luck Daniele... (read in full...)
What do you think of this internet relationship?
Q. so. i've been in an online relationship with a girl. for a year and a half. i was looking for a gf online because i was in a car accident and couldn't leave the house enough to really look for anyone. and it was easy...so i just kept talking to her ...
A. 10 February 2011: Listen to your friends. This girl sounds bi-polar. You are better now move on. Join one of those internet dating sites. Thats the only way to meet a decent woman not a immature bi-polar girl. Good Luck Daniele... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he can't cum
Q. Ok im like sooo confused, ive been wit my boyfriend a while now and we recently became sexually active.. we do everything together but no matter wat i do he never comes.. ive asked him about it and he says its not me, its that he just cant come, he ...
A. 13 January 2011: I would recommend a doctor. Maybe its psychological. Anyway he should get some kind of help. Daniele... (read in full...)
Can I get some dating tips on how to have a chance with this girl?
Q. Ok so i'm a freshman in high school, and there's this girl. It turns out that i have a huge crush on her thats been going on for the past three months. I've never had a girlfriend before so i can't even talk to her without freaking out. The strange ...
A. 13 January 2011: find out what kind of music she likes and make her a mixed cd and give it to her. Daniele... (read in full...)
How do I know if my wife is telling the truth?
Q. I love my wife deeply, recently my wife diana of 11 years told that she has sex with 4 perosns before marriage..several times. I am amazed, when She told that twice she had Threesome, also....She tells that all story are true.. I have asked many ...
A. 13 January 2011: Has your wife ever been known to lie to you before. What brought the conversation up? Maybe she has been feelin guilty about it. Maybe she is giving you a hint. Good luck Daniele... (read in full...)
Drug, Sex and Rock and Roll
Q. My husband is suffering from major depression. He’s a drug addict (marijuana and any drugs that can relaxing him) and also he is an alcoholic. He hasn’t been working almost 2yrs now. His parent and I have been supporting him financially. Because ...
A. 13 January 2011: I was in a similar situation as you. The others are right. He is only using you. People (men) don't change! If you are supporting him you are only enabling him to support his drug habbit. I would not be ok with the other women and you should ... (read in full...)
I swallowed his cum but it burned my throat. Is this normal?
Q. Okay, the other day my boyfriend and I were having sex and he came inside of me, (Didn't use a condom-I'm on the shot.) and it burned really bad after. Then, I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and I swallowed and it burned my throat (its the first ...
A. 8 November 2010: He could have a std. You should have him get checked out. Daniele... (read in full...)
Expoding pain everytime I try to put anything in,down there
Q. I Dont know what to do. This is my problem..I cant use a tampon or have sex. Im 19 years old me and my boyfriend for 15 moths in counting are both very ready. But it hurts way to bad, and not the ordinary "pinch" then goes away pain,it the "oh my ...
A. 5 November 2010: I would go to another doctor. You could have a medical problem. I had a cyst once and only found out because during sex it was painful. I hope you figure it out. Take care Daniele... (read in full...)
The only guy I trust is my friend. How can I trust my boyfriend?
Q. Im 15 and ive been dating my bf for 3 months and i have serious trust issues. Every guy ive dated has cheated on me more than once or left me for another girl then came back when he got tired of her. I dont trust my bf and i feel bad about it. I ...
A. 29 October 2010: Your only 15 and chances are if your boyfriend is 15 too he might not be serious. It is not you its the age. I don't believe guys at that age really want to settle down with one girl. This is from experience. Guys are typically still going ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to be friends with and build a relationship with the girl I love.
Q. There is this very beautiful girl in my computer class, we both go to church, but not the same one and we both love God with all our hearts. One night before bed I asked God "if she is the one, Lord, I ask that you shine a golden light down upon her ...
A. 29 October 2010: Invite her to your church. Or hold a bible study at your house and invite her and others. Maybee talk to one of her friends and not directly to her. Daniele... (read in full...)
How to get your bf back and to settle down with him
Q. I'm 19 and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and he Thinks he knows what I want and I told him I want to settle down He is always telling me I like to party but I don't how do I get him To believe me that I really want to settle do...
A. 29 October 2010: Do you live together if not suggest that you move into together. You could also read bridal magazines and leave them laying around. Paryting less would help. Also leave hints maybee about friends or family members settling down. Daniele... (read in full...)
Pregnant and no one knows but me
Q. Okay so I'm pregnant and the guy doesn't know It and neither do my parents. Help me please?!!...
A. 29 October 2010: I agree you should tell your parents. You have a lot of important decisions to make. You could tell your boyfriend but don't expect him to be ok with ithe might but chances are he might not. If he isn't he might leave and not help you at all. You ... (read in full...)
Hopelessly single! Should I call my long distance interest instead of texting him as I'm in his town?
Q. I live in a small town where dating is a bit of a challenge. The population of decent single men is pretty limited. So I decided to take a risk and try a popular online dating website. I began emailing a guy who is pretty great. We then exchanged ...
A. 27 October 2010: It sounds like he is not interested and he could be seeing someone else. I would forget about him. My guess is that he has a girlfriend and is on the internet when she is not home. I had a similar thing happen to me. I would talk to this guy ... (read in full...)
My life is a mess and I feel trapped! HELP!
Q. I'm 17, and I just can't DO this anymore. I don't know. I'm so bored, alone. Trapped in my city and I hate it so much. The only thing keeping me going is the promise of going to Univerisy next year, but that's stressing me out and I don't know. I'm ...
A. 9 October 2010: The only way you are going to find someone to love you is if you love yourself first. It sounds like you dont because you stuff your face with extra calories your body doesnt need. You need counseling to sort out all of these things you have going ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend think I give rubbish hand jobs?
Q. Right, I was giving my new boyfriend a handjob (the first time I've done it with him) and everytime I got into a rhythm he would grab my hand and change what I was doing, eg. make me go faster or squeeze harder. Does this mean he doesn't like what I ...
A. 9 October 2010: Guys know what feels good to them. He is guiding you. ... (read in full...)
Are her actions and remarks sarcastic?
Q. i have been close friends with a beautiful woman 29 yrs old for 2 years now. i let it slip because of a situation that came up, that i have been in love with her. all was fine till that moment. she said she felt very awkward and i think she is ...
A. 9 October 2010: Sounds like to me she was acting like you wernt on an official date like boyfriend and girlfriend. Even though you like her that way it sounds like she doesnt feel the same. Maybee she doesn't want to hurt your feelings so that is why she hasnt ... (read in full...)
I am close to getting married but feel I might be making a BIG mistake
Q. I thought things were settling down after a recent spate of arguments between us. Here is a bit of background: I've always had a problem with my time management. I try to get around this by just forcing myself to set my watch faster etc. This...
A. 9 October 2010: My husband is always late. It takes him longer to get ready than it takes me. I am always waiting for him when we are about to go out somewhere. I now it runs in the family. Sure my husband has things that irk me and I am sure I do things that ... (read in full...)
Partner lied about marital status and now I'm pregnant with his child
Q. I have been with my "fiance" for over a year now. When we met he informed me of his situation, that he was divorced with 3 children and that he wanted to be with me, marry me etc. Fast forward to now, I am now pregnant with his child and long s...
A. 9 October 2010: I feel for you. I would go to his and tell her. He is not being far to you her the unborn child, or his kids. I would defenetly not stay with him and I would take him to court for child support if you decide to keep the baby that is. He is not ... (read in full...)
I don't want to continue living with my mother-in-law
Q. Hi every body, I am tired of living with my mother in law at the same house ,and i don't know how to convince my husband to move and live alone. We just got married a few months ago and i moved from another country to usa,befor i come here he ask...
A. 14 April 2010: I am going through the same thing. I have been living with my mother in law since we had gotten married 2 years ago. My husband and I are in our fortys. He and his mom got a house together before I met him. He pays the monthly morgage and she ... (read in full...)
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