My last gf put me off dating! How do I get back into it?
Q. I'm 37, single, i've tried a singles site in the past but could never get the hang of it! My last g/friend went a bit nutty and put me off dating for a while, now i can't seem to get back into the swing of things, any advice on how to get started ...
A. 17 September 2006: Hi Galymyde
I'm with you there, I'm also single and most of my friends are all coupled up/married (hey where do you live ;-) lol - just playing!)
I've not tried the online option, though I know people who have met online and it has worked. My ... (read in full...)
She likes me more than I like her... And she's like Jekyll and Hyde!
Q. Well last night i went to this gig. My gf went abit weird had some kind of weird turn where she kept crying and stuff. (partly alcohol's fault even though she had the tinest amount) One minute she was laughing the next screaming and shouting. I ...
A. 17 September 2006: Hi Kat,
It sounds like your gf has her own issues to deal with - it could be that she's under pressure or feeling that life is difficult and therefore is more emotional than normal. Alcohol never helps anyone when you're feeling low - it just tur... (read in full...)
Whenever we meet this guy, my gf makes jokes about blowing him again! It's embarrassing. Should Itell her to stop?
Q. My girlfriend got a vibrator for her birthday. Some bloke stuck it in his jeans,then asked my girlfriend for a blowjob. she started deep throating it! Now whenever we meet this bloke with her mates she makes jokes about blowing him again. Its an ...
A. 17 September 2006: Am sure it was amusing at the time, but sounds like it's a bit old now. I'd gently take her to one side and just say to her that whilst it was funny, the joke is wearing thin and it's getting a bit embarassing for all concerned.
If she is using... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is pressuring me into getting his name tattooed on me!
Q. my boyfriend of 4 years is pressurising me a lot to get his name tattooed on my breasts or butts. he insists that this is a definite way of expressing my love for him. i am not sure of social and/or clinical affects of this. i love him deeply ...
A. 13 September 2006: NO NO NO don't do this!!
I agree with all other posters - it's just so WRONG!
If you actually want a tattoo per se, then perhaps you go together and chose something YOU like, such as the japansese symbol for "love" or something, so th... (read in full...)
He cheated and said it was because he was young and I didnt pay him enough attention!!!
Q. Me and boyfriend are young i'm 19 and he is 18. We have been together for just over 2 years. We also have an 8 month baby. And i found out since february that he was cheating on me. Reasoning is being young and also the lack of attention i payed to ...
A. 13 September 2006: Sounds like he has alot of growing up to do! If he was mature enough to decide to be a father, then he should be maturee enough to treat you with respect and make a go of your relationship.
Leopards CAN change their spots,so it's hard to condemn ... (read in full...)
7 yrs younger - is he just after sex??
Q. This guy I'm seeing is 7 years younger them me How do i know he really wants to be with me for me and not for sex? help...
A. 13 September 2006: Just because he's 7 years younger doesn't mean he is automatically after sex!
Hard to answer this without knowing more about your relationship - how old are you? how big an issue is the age gap to you?
x... (read in full...)
I love the fantasy idea of my girl with another bloke, but dont think in reality I can stomach, what is all this ??
Q. Please someone sort me out!! I'm with a beautiful woman whom I love very much. We've been together for almost 4 years now and we are soon to wed. We have a great sex life and I am never left feeling unfulfilled. But for some crazy, insane reaso...
A. 13 September 2006: Fantasies are healthy - but sometimes they are best left as just that.
Many women fantasise about being with another woman, but in reality they wouldn't want to carry this out - our fantasies enable us to think about things that in our minds ar... (read in full...)
He's Insatiable!!! Help!
Q. i'm losing my sex drive and i have no idea why. It's also getting to the point where my boyfriend is asking me questions as to what is going on and i have no real answer for him, we have discussed it and he told me that he would ideally like to ...
A. 13 September 2006: Hi chick,
I don't think there is any abnormal about either of you - it's just that you both have different needs and somehow need to reach a compromise so that you're both getting what you need from the relationship.
Sex twice a day to me soun... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I'm depressed...
Q. hi im a 15 year old girl and sometimes i feel depressed and i duno y i personally think its just my hormones or is it sometinhg else? theres nothing upsetting me!...
A. 12 September 2006: Aww bless you honey
I can remember being 15 and at times it completely sucks! There's raging hormones, pressure about studying and picking the right subjects, pressure about the future and your career/uni plans..never ending. AND there's the peer... (read in full...)
We have been together for 3 years, he gets all the home comforts at his mums, he wont move in together as he says he needs back up money ?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3yrs, I live in my home with my 5yr old son from my previous relationship and he comes and stays with me every night and weekends but has all his stuff and eats at his parents. I am 25yrs and he is 34yrs old. ...
A. 12 September 2006: It does sound like he likes his home comforts, but either way this guy has to face up to the responsibilities of both you and his unborn child. I imagine the news of a child will have sent him into a bit of a blind panic if he's clinging on to the ... (read in full...)
My crush doesn't flirt with me anymore!
Q. Dear Cupid, Lately, it seems like my crush is flirting with everyone but me. He used to flirt with me, like, all the time when I was in seventh grade and he was in eighth (I've posted about him at least a million times...lol), but now, he never do...
A. 12 September 2006: Perhaps he thinks that all his flirting isn't getting him anywhere and he doesn't think you're interested and so is taking time out?
I think gracie lou is right - make sure he is in no doubt about how you feel, ask him out!! Be prepared he may j... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her that I wont leave her, shes so jealous and insecure!!
Q. I have been engaged for a few months now and my fiancee's jealousy is becoming worse. I have never given her any reason to be suspicious of me, although I do speak to female friends on MSN. She knew my password and would sometimes go on my account ...
A. 12 September 2006: It does sound like you have a very very insecure fiance, and I don't think you can solely solve this problem for her, as it may be more deep-rooted than be about your relationship alone?
You can reassure her all you like, but it sounds like she... (read in full...)
He ignores me in front of his mates...Should I leave him???
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend have only been dating 2 1/2 months i love him but he just ignores me infront of his mates it started not to long ago after he came bacck from malta with his parents i think he might of fallen out of love with me because were ...
A. 12 September 2006: Hi Chely
I think you need to confront him about how he feels - it could be that he's withdrawing from you hoping that your relationship will just naturally fizzle out - or it could just be a misunderstanding.
Perhaps his mates have been compla... (read in full...)
Is my teacher coming on to me???
Q. This problem has been niggling at me for ages i really need to talk about it. There is this teacher at my school who is REALLY strict he never laughs or smiles and always tells people off except when hes around me. He always smiles (winks alot too), ...
A. 12 September 2006: Hi there
It could be a possibility, or perhaps you're a good student that he just likes.
All I'd suggest is that you try not to encourage him to much, just be polite and act normally - perhaps you could tell someone just in case he later ov... (read in full...)
How wrong is it to be with your brothers ex wife ?
Q. just how wrong is it for someone to be in a 10 year relationship with their brothers ex-wive,they were devoriced befor the relationship started,and do love each other very much to last 10 years....
A. 11 September 2006: Still confused about what the issue is - are you just generally having problems with your relationship with her?
Her daughter (I assume your brother's daughter) is right to say she is from a broken home if you are not her father as her parents ... (read in full...)
Why wont my work guy leave his girlfriend ??
Q. I am in my twenties and have been seeing a guy from work for almost a year. He has been with his girlfriend for nearly 3 years and although i have never asked him, he has made it clear that he will not leave her. They do not see each other regularly ...
A. 11 September 2006: Sadly I think the poster above is spot on, this guy has everything he wants at his fingertips, 2 women; and whilst you carry on accepting this then he will carry on enjoying the luxury of 2 women that want him and pander to his ego.
He's made it ... (read in full...)
I feel like its gone from girlfriend to friend, should I move on now ?
Q. i have been dating a man for a few months now, we live quite far apart but try to meet up a couple of times a week. he calls me his girlfriend, But lately i feels like it's more of a friendship than boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. in his texts to ...
A. 11 September 2006: Hey there,
I agree with CRS, it does sound like he's drifting away and isn't as focused on your relationship as you want and need him to be.
It sounds like he's almost waiting for the relationship to come to a natural end rather than make... (read in full...)
Will the "No Contact Rule" work ?
Q. The No Contact Rule My wife recently separated from me. I still love her and would love her to come back to me, but she says that she can't be friends anymore, as she knows no other separated couples that are friends. It has been suggested t...
A. 11 September 2006: Sorry to hear you're seperated, especially as your ex doesn't want to be friends either at the moment. I do think it's possible to be friends, but probably not until you have both accepted that the relationship is over.
I think no contact ... (read in full...)
I broke up with because I was no longer in love with him, hes hurting and wont let go, and this in turn is killing me!
Q. Hi please help me if u hav any ideas on what i can do, iv split up with my boyfriend about a week and half ago after being together for a year, and although i love him, im no longer 'in love' with him. we argued and fought a lot which is the reason ...
A. 11 September 2006: Hi Anon
I don't think there is an easy way to help him due to his strong feelings for you, sadly a bit of distance is what may be needed while he comes to terms with the fact that you and he are not going to be partners, and who knows, in time you... (read in full...)
My partner gets upset when she hears about her ex husbands partner, im now feeling hurt!!
Q. My partner and I met very shortly after her husband left her. It has only been about two years, but she still gets very hurt whenever she hears about his new girlfrind and how much he loves her. Now, I find that I am feeling hurt when she reacts ...
A. 10 September 2006: I think you need to go easy on her, a failed relationship is like a bereavement and it's always going to be hard to hear that an ex has moved on and has this "roses round the door" life that he couldn't have with her. It doesn't mean she loves you ... (read in full...)
How wrong is it to be with your brothers ex wife ?
Q. just how wrong is it for someone to be in a 10 year relationship with their brothers ex-wive,they were devoriced befor the relationship started,and do love each other very much to last 10 years....
A. 10 September 2006: After ten years I can really understand what the issue is and why the question?
I guess the family and everyone else are used to it by now, so can't see why it would be wrong or an issue at all?
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Can she really be certain this early on that she is pregnant ?
Q. I stupidly had unprotected sex with my neighbour 7 days ago. And again 3 days ago. We are both single and at first I thought she was really nice. After the second time she told me she had missed her pill that morning. She has now been causing ...
A. 10 September 2006: I'd be VERY surprised if she'd know for sure that she is pregnant so soon after having sex with you - I don't even think a pregnancy test would show it yet let alone there being any physical symptoms?!
I guess it's a possibility that her period i... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex to love me ???
Q. I love and miss my exboyfriend,,,, he loves other people now ... but how can i get him to love me .... dont say its over, because its not . how can i get him to dream about me ? ...
A. 10 September 2006: Not sure what you want people to say honey - you say it's not over, but he IS you EX? If you really do still care about him, a good starting point would be to tell him that you miss him and how you feel? Have you tried this?
What do you mean tha... (read in full...)
My girlfriend started acting differently, or am I over reacting ?
Q. My girlfriend has been acting slightly different lately, im not sure if its just me. However we were going out with a number of other people for a meal, for one of her friends birthdays. She seemed too take it too seriously and talk about what too ...
A. 10 September 2006: Hello Anon
It sounds like she was just a little stressed out at organising the night out and focused on making sure everything happened according to her "time plan" lol - I wouldn't worry, it was just one night that she was a bit distract... (read in full...)
Called my girlfriend my ex's name ..help!
Q. Hi, well recently i had my girlfriend over, we watched some tv and then went up to bed, and i accidentaly called her my ex-gf's name, which i found odd becasue the girl whos name i called her we didnt even have a good relationship with, let alone a ...
A. 10 September 2006: Ditto to the previous answer, just carry on as normal, but be prepared to apologise if she does bring it up again.
Whilst I'd be a bit mortified if a guy did that to me, I'd also see the funny side at some point and just push it to the back of ... (read in full...)
Lost without her
Q. my girl stopped the relation because of her parents , i feel lost without her , do i have to call her back ? or if she wants will find the way to me ? or if she wants she will wait till i call for her ?...
A. 10 September 2006: Hi Aims
Maybe you could write her a nice letter, telling her how you feel and that you miss her, and that you'll always be there for her if she changes her mind or needs you? Then it's time to move on and see what happens sadly.
A letter is s... (read in full...)
Im confused about the girl at work and shes driving me crazy!!
Q. I am bring driven crazy by a girl at work!! We recently took a liking to each other, and have been on a couple of dates. I suggested, that for our next date, we could stay out in the city all night and get a hotel room. I promised to be on my ...
A. 10 September 2006: Does sound a bit strange - perhaps she just got cold feet and was flustered, or maybe the fact that she'd not felt well the day before meant she was still feeling a bit fragile and again got flustered at you arranging the night out.
It sounds l... (read in full...)
How to get over my ex even though I dumped him
Q. I finished with my lover about a month ago because things weren't working out and i was feeling frustrated.I deleted his txts and didn't answer his phone calls.Anyway,i thought i was over him until i saw him the other day in town,i was in my car so ...
A. 10 September 2006: Ask yourself again why you left him? Was it just a blip or sudden anxiety about the relationship? When you pictured leaving him what did the future look like? what were you hopes and dreams that you were thinking of that didn't include him? did he ... (read in full...)
Relationship turning sour because he says love cant be measured by sex!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years. Things used to be great, but just recently things have become torrid and i guess it started with the sex issue. He is of the opinion that we dont need to have sex all the time and that we ...
A. 10 September 2006: Hi Anon Well, I have to agree that a relationship in itself can't be measured by how many times you have sex with your partner, but it is a reflection on the relationship in terms of physical intimacy, feeling desirable and wanted - we all need th... (read in full...)
How to get over my ex even though I dumped him
Q. I finished with my lover about a month ago because things weren't working out and i was feeling frustrated.I deleted his txts and didn't answer his phone calls.Anyway,i thought i was over him until i saw him the other day in town,i was in my car so ...
A. 10 September 2006: Hi Anon
I'm not sure how long you were together, it doesn't sound like you lived together? anyway.... even if you make the decision that things aren't working it's NO less easier to come to terms with.
I split with my ex and I think it took me... (read in full...)
Yasmin pill advice, should I carry on with the next pack straight away and what happens if I do ?
Q. Hey, just a quick one.. I am on the pill currenly and have been on the pill (Yasmin) for like 6 months. I have a concern though. I've got 3 more pills before i have to take my 7 days "break". However, i am planning to skip my period this mont...
A. 9 September 2006: Hi Anon
I used to do that a fair bit when I was on the pill and never had any bad effects from it. I understand it does no harm, many people do it if they don't want their period on special occasions/holidays.
Maybe check out something like t... (read in full...)
The pregnancy tests were negative but no period in 40 days! Could it be stress or what??
Q. My period is very, very late. It's been 40 days since my last one. I've not had unprotected sex, and the condoms were tested after sex for keeping the semen in. We have always been careful- even overly careful. I have taken 4 pregnancy tests, a...
A. 8 September 2006: Hya
It sounds like it's stress causing it from everything you've said, you've had quite a bit to deal with lately. Sometimes periods can just be irregular, mine are anything from 28 to 45 days apart, which is a nightmare but I'm used to it as th... (read in full...)
We have an age gap, but I like him, but none of my friends do, what can I do?
Q. i'm 19 and theres this 29 yr old guy that likes me! we are slowly getting closer as friends! he is really kind and friendly and he is easy to chat to! but none of my friends seem to like him, also i dont know if the age gap is too big for us to have ...
A. 4 May 2006: I was 19 when I met my first serious bf, he was 30 - so only slightly older than your man. We were together over 6 years so age gaps don't necessarily mean that it won't work - but listen to your instinct and to your friends would be my advice.
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One day he talks to me, the next day he ignores me! I have no idea how to handle this...help!
Q. i am in love with a lad called danny but he is really messing me about. one minut he likes me the next he isnt talking to me. we have never gone out but we got close and it scared me so i stopped talking to him for a day or so then he just backed ...
A. 30 April 2006: It's really hard to care so strongly about someone when they don't seem to reciprocate - but unfortunately it does sound like this lad is just using you when you're around. Ask yourself, does he make you feel special? does he make you feel wanted? ... (read in full...)
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