I don't know how to feel about him still talking to his ex.
Q. So this boy I have been talking to for two months now, I just found out he is still talking to one of his ex's. When we first started talking, we were, "together" but he broke up with me when he found out I cheated on him. So we actually stopped ...
A. 30 November 2010: Yeah, i agree. Ex's are ex's for a reason, I dnt understand why he wuld want to go back to the past. But I'm definetly going to say something about her if we get back together. I just hope that he'll be honest about it. ... (read in full...)
He got mad when I wanted to chill out with a male friend
Q. So I started talking to this guy on Facebook. And my homecoming was a week later, so I invited him to my college to see me for homecoming. He said he was coming, and surprisingly he did. My college is 5 hours away from where he lives, so I knew he ...
A. 22 October 2010: yeah maybe your right...thanks guys. 3 ... (read in full...)
He got mad when I wanted to chill out with a male friend
Q. So I started talking to this guy on Facebook. And my homecoming was a week later, so I invited him to my college to see me for homecoming. He said he was coming, and surprisingly he did. My college is 5 hours away from where he lives, so I knew he ...
A. 21 October 2010: I'm really torn. Part of me wants to keep trying but the other part says to just let it go. I have this tattoo on my finger that says "love" and he had told me that he was gunna get the same tattoo, and that would be our "signature" or sumthin..so ... (read in full...)
If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby?
Q. If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby? ...
A. 30 July 2010: Yeah, you guys are right. Thanks so much for your help.!
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If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby?
Q. If your not in love with somebody you're pregnant by, should you keep the baby? ...
A. 26 July 2010: The father is a total jerk. He wants me to have an abortion but I'm not sure if that's what I want. I considered adoption because I don't think I can keep a child right now. But I also don't know if I'm strong enough to go through a pregnancy & then ... (read in full...)
Why does my girlfriend always ask me to stop?
Q. when me and my girlfriend are fooling every time i can get her to the point where she wants to cry from pleasure. she tenses up very tightly and begs me to stop and makes me stop and i do. she says that she cant go any farther and when i ask why she ...
A. 11 July 2010: Yeah, I do it too. I never had a vaginal orgasm bcuz just like ur gf, I have to stop it. The pain for me is unbareable. I try to keep going and focus on having tha orgasm but its hard lol. But I'm glad yu wrote about it bcuz now I'm not the only one ... (read in full...)
Abortions, what do you think?
Q. *OP's Original Title* Hey aunt and uncles. I just wanted to know your opinions on abortion. About a year ago i went with my brother and his ex girlfriend for them to have an abortion. I know it wasn't me having an abortion but it really a...
A. 4 July 2010: I had an abortion two yrs ago. I still regret it to this day. I feel terrible about having sex unprotected knowing it causes consequences but wasn't woman enough to deal with them. Then again, I had all intentions on keeping it but the father was a ... (read in full...)
Missing my ex bf so badly... help!
Q. i really miss my ex. its been about a month since we really spoke. i mean i seem him twice since then, and he spoke to me, he even kissed me the other day, after telling me a month ago neva to speak to him again. so i havent hit him up and wasnt the ...
A. 22 November 2009: well he always said i played gamesz.. hes actually a lot older then me, im 18 and hes 31..well 32 now.. and we always argued so that last argument ended up with him sayin he didnt want to speak to me anymore. and yeah, i am tryin to read into his ... (read in full...)
In new relationship but still thinking about ex
Q. well i spoke about this boy before. me and my male best friend of two years just made it official yesterday. i really like him, hes my ideal bf. hes smart, funny, sweet, caring, and everything that this other guy isnt. i stoppd talking to this other ...
A. 18 November 2009: thanksz guys. and yeah, kliciouss, i know i should tell him now that we just got together. i definetly dont want to hurt him because hes a good guy. and just yesterday, i seen my ex, and he flirted a little with me, then kissed me. i was afraid ... (read in full...)
Am I expecting too much from my b/f?
Q. So i finally made it official with my best friend of two years. i really really care for him, he always makes me smile. he was a great friend, and i thought he would be an even better bf, but i guess as a bf, i have different expectations from him. ...
A. 18 November 2009: Exactly, I ask myself those same questions. Like, myself personally, dnt like relying on anyone to give me money if im physically and mentally able to do for myself. He gets money from his mom I guess. So the only time we can go out is when she ... (read in full...)
I always think about doing it with a girl. Am I a lesbian?
Q. for the past few years I have been masterbating and thinking of having sex with a girl but I have never done such a thing but it's always on my mind. I started having sex in early march at the age of 22 but long before I started having sex I always ...
A. 13 November 2009: i dont think your gay. i think your curious. as am i. i mean the two people who have given me oral did it GREAT. no complaints. and im not gay at all, but i have been thinking about how it would feel with a female doing it because of all the things ... (read in full...)
Have any other teens gone through this depression?
Q. I've been getting very depressed recently about stupid things and i want it to stop. i can go from feeling content to extremely depressed and just blank within a matter of minutes if i am left alone. its silly as there is nothing drastic in my li...
A. 13 November 2009: yes, im going through that right now. it seems like it started right after i broke up with my ex, who was also my first love. he was who i lost my virginity to and he broke my heart by telling me he didnt want a relationship but ended up with ... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to let go of a person who's not treating you right?
Q. im stuck in one of the worst situations ever. i think im in love with this man who doesnt care at all about me. all he wants is sex and because i care about him, i neva minded. but now im so hurt, to a point where i cant do anything but cry. i want ...
A. 10 November 2009: thanks so much guys. i think ya are right. ever since talking to this guy, hes constantly put me down. always made lil smart comments, that at tha time, i laffed at to hide the pain. but then it started to get to, "your dumb because you dnt like to ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's okay to send your ex a Happy Birthday message? Or should you just leave it?
Q. Do U think its ok to send your ex happy birthday message or just leave it?...
A. 8 November 2009: im wondering the same thing. because me and this guy have just stopped talking about three weeks ago and we have been seeing each other for over a year. his bday is in two weeks, and i did see him the other day. after he sent me a very rude message ... (read in full...)
Can you go from sexually active to abstinent to make sure he's the right guy?
Q. Hey, umm, I have been sexually active for about two years now and I have had three partners, two in which i have been serious with, and one, was just a one night stand. after that one time, i kinda felt guilty about it because i did it out of spite. ...
A. 8 November 2009: yeah, i do masterbate sometimes. it works for the most part because its been about a month since i last seen this guy. so if thats gunna be the only way ill be able to qwench this urge, ill try it more often..and trying a toy or two doesnt sound bad ... (read in full...)
I'm depressed after my abortion.
Q. im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...
A. 6 November 2009: well im 18, and had an abortion in march. i was almost four months. i really didnt wanna get rid of it but i did what my bf told me to do. he told me i needed to finish skool before havin a baby. but afterwards i was soo mad i listened to him, ... (read in full...)
Can you go from sexually active to abstinent to make sure he's the right guy?
Q. Hey, umm, I have been sexually active for about two years now and I have had three partners, two in which i have been serious with, and one, was just a one night stand. after that one time, i kinda felt guilty about it because i did it out of spite. ...
A. 4 November 2009: no, i dnt want to become abstinent with the guy i was recently seeing because as i meantioned, we stopped talking about two weeks ago. but i want to try it with new guys i meet. my problem is that im soo addicted to the way this old guy use to do ... (read in full...)
He's 31..I am almost 17! Could he get in trouble for dating me?
Q. im 16 and ive been dating this guy for about two years i love him with all my heart and so does he, we have been through so much together but theres one problem he's 15 years older than me which makes him 31(im turing 17 in a few days though.) is ...
A. 2 November 2009: yeah he definitely Culd get in trouble. i was in that same position this time last year. i was talkin to this guy who was 31 and i was only 17. we were Gunna wait til i turned 18 to go any further but ended up sleeping together two months before my ... (read in full...)
Should I let my guard down and give it a try?
Q. My best friend, who is a male, is soo great. we have been friends for about two and a half years. hes easy to talk and has always been there for me when im with "the other guy". when im hurt by somebody else, i run to him and he comforts me. he has ...
A. 30 October 2009: Yeah, you guys are right. Im going to talk to him tonight and tell him how I feel. I guess I'll never know if I dont try. Thanx soo much !!... (read in full...)
Would a baby be good for our relationship?
Q. I'm 19, and my boyfriend's 45, and he wants a baby now. I've told him no, but he's insistent again and again that I have one with him. He says he doesn't want a baby to "trap" me, but because he feels it will be good for our relationship. I'v...
A. 28 October 2009: well seeing as how hes 45, he probably doesnt have much more time to have kids. lol. he probably wants to jump on the opportunity now that its there. but thats not fair for you, because having a kid makes you grow up faster. not that your already ... (read in full...)
He says he does not need a girlfriend. Why the mixed signals?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, and it is great for the most part. He just still does not want to say we are boyfriend and girlfriend. He says that he has his kids and he does not need a girlfriend. He is sending me mixed ...
A. 13 October 2009: im in almost the same situation. i have been seeing this guy for over a year now. and one of the first things he said was he wanted to settle down. he also said i mite not be ready for that bcuz im 18 and hes 31. but i assured him, that i wanted a ... (read in full...)
Any advice to make things less painful while I wait for this 17yr old to turn 18?
Q. I'm 26 and falling fast in love with a 17 year old. We both know how each other feels and have agreed to wait until she is 18 to have a relationship. This is pretty complicated as I know and almost dated this girls older sister. Not to mention i ...
A. 10 October 2009: i know how you feel. i was 17 when i first started talkin to this guy. hes 31. and we had both wanted to wait until i turned 18 before going onto the next level. but it was really hard seeing as how we were talkin in the summer and i didnt turn 18 ... (read in full...)
Will a puppy heal my loneliness?
Q. Hey.. umm I have a question. Im 18 years old, i just started college and im about to go away to school next semester. i met this boy in school, and we got together. i fell in love with him and as my first love, i lost my virginity to him. when i was ...
A. 26 September 2009: thnxx guys. and yeah, basschick, i definetly agree with you. a puppy is the closest thing ill get to a baby, and my urge to want a child isnt goin away..maybe if i had something other then a baby, to care for, i wont want a child as much. and yeah, ... (read in full...)
Should I hit him up or move on?
Q. im soo sad. this guy that i have been talking to for over a year, has decided that he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. we always argue and go through the same conversations about me not listening. he wants me to do everything he says and when i ...
A. 26 September 2009: easier said then done. but i kinda knew that, i guess i just didnt want to accept the fact that it was true. i deleted his number out ny phone, and its been two weeks since i hyt him up. its killing me because i really miss him, but i guess its for ... (read in full...)
He says its over for good this time
Q. my fiance has split up with me for the 3rd time in 8 years, he said the relationship wasnt going anywhere and we always argue over petty things. we have 2 kids together and we seemed ok till last week when we had a little argument which sent him to ...
A. 22 September 2009: yeah, this guy i talk to said tha same thing. we alwaysss argue ova petty thingsz nd wen he feels he cnt take it anymore, he goes, "Im done and i mean it this tyme" he even swore to his dead parents that he wuld never hit me up again. but two weeks ... (read in full...)
Women only: Oral sex or intercourse?
Q. This questions is for women only: This might sound like a weird question but just think about it for a minute. If you had to choose between really good oral sex or actual intercourse - Which would you prefer, a really good tongue licking you dry all ...
A. 13 September 2009: oral sex !!! ii loveee when my man eats me out. i have never had an orgasm thru intercourse..but ive had them through oral and its the bestt feeling !!... (read in full...)
I want to have sex whilst I'm spotting, how can I talk to him about it?
Q. I'm currently on birth control. Its my second month taking it, and now im starting to spot. I know its normal but I really was looking forward to seeing my boo today and having both oral sex and penetration. I know it may sound nasty, but I just ...
A. 13 September 2009: thnks guys. the nite was great. i didnt even have to worry about it bcuz by tha tyme i got to his house, it wasnt coming down anymore. and yeahh im taking that one..tha sprintec one.. but i thynk im still gunna bring up tha topic to him just in case ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be just a bed mate for him!
Q. Hello Everyone. Any advice or similar experiences would be most welcome! And if there are any guys out there - I would so love your take on everything as my male friends don't seem to be much help at the moment!! I met this guy a month ago - grea...
A. 12 September 2009: OMG I'm in a similar situation. This guy that I've been talkin to for over a year, it seems like he's only in it for the sex. He'll tell me that he's done with me and doesn't want to talk anymore.. but then two days later hes hitting me up talking ... (read in full...)
I miss him and I really miss the sex...
Q. Hi, I recently broke up with this guy (about a little more than a month now). I miss him and I really miss the sex. I do feel horny at times but don't know what to do. Any advice......
A. 10 September 2009: lol omgg thats exactly why ii dnt wanna let go of tha guy im talkin to now. we have great sex..tha best i ever had. and were goin thru issues rite now. and he wants to stop talkin but i dnt. and i thynk tha sex has a lot to do with it. hes not goin ... (read in full...)
Why can't I be around his daughter? Is he ashamed of me?
Q. Theresz disz guy that i have been talkin to for a year now. hes 31 and has a 4 year old daughter. im 18 years old, so thats not the problem..whenever i want to come ova, his daughter isnt there. he told me nobody comes ova wen his daughter is there, ...
A. 7 September 2009: i have seen her. we worked together at a daycare and hes brought her to the daycare a lot of times. i jus havent been around her alone or like the three of us. but i understand that yeah, he might not know how long ill be in his life, so hes holding ... (read in full...)
Am I falling in love with him?
Q. Hey guys. Omg, Im going crazy over this guy. ive been talkin to him for a little over a yr now. i think about him all the time. i go to bed thinkin of him and wake up thinkin of him.the only place i ever wanna be is with him. when im with him, im ...
A. 6 September 2009: well ii met this guy last summer at my job. hes my cuzins frend and they worked together. he told me frm the beginning that he really liked me and that he "wanted me"...we talk about bein in a relationship sumtymes, but we hvnt made it official yet. ... (read in full...)
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