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I miss him and I really miss the sex...

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Question - (10 September 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2009)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi, I recently broke up with this guy (about a little more than a month now). I miss him and I really miss the sex.

I do feel horny at times but don't know what to do.

Any advice...

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A female reader, applebite8821 United States +, writes (11 September 2009):

applebite8821 agony auntWell, you are not alone. I feel the same way too even if I had been broken up with my ex since April 26, 2009.

I don't know about others opinion but I saw my ex on July 11 and he wanted us to sleep together right there and then. Yet I refused.

The thing is, I can't sleep with him as we are not together anymore. He has to be committed to me again before I give that.

That is how I decide for myself. So even if I miss it, I wont be used like that and then taken for granted.

What about you? Would you prefer to be FWB with him or prefer to just deal with it until it goes away? It's really up to you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):

You can make sex with the next guy just as good,get out there and find him i did

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A female reader, alwayznd4eva116 United States +, writes (10 September 2009):

alwayznd4eva116 agony auntlol omgg thats exactly why ii dnt wanna let go of tha guy im talkin to now. we have great sex..tha best i ever had. and were goin thru issues rite now. and he wants to stop talkin but i dnt. and i thynk tha sex has a lot to do with it. hes not goin for tha "we can werk out this relationship" buh im willing to make it a "sex only" thyng !!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):

If you kind of miss him and just really miss the sex you could either:

1. See if he would go for a "just sex" relationship.

2. Buy a vibrator.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009):

i kind of understand this i was seeing some1 i was really comtable with and whilst we didnt have sex we did other stuff and he was wel very very good

and i miss it i get how your feeling its fustrating when uve met someone and it was really good and ya think there wont be other people who are good in bed but iam sure ul meet plenty who are n some1 else soon

maybe you could try and get him back iv the break up wasnt over something serious or something that you two could work out?

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