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Archived questions from: March, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I slept with my business partner. Have I lost him as a friend? now he does not even reply to texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2790 days ago

31 March 2017 (F) - I made the stupidest mistake in getting reluctantly involved with a married man. We made love and after sex after that fatal night he stopped talking to me then he said he was just wanted to be friends. I was okay with that being business p...

How do I let go of my long lost love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2790 days ago

31 March 2017 (F) - I don't know where to start, but writing (even though I suck at it) is my only escape from reality. I was in love with someone back in 2008-2011. He really was amazing, he did everything I wanted to do and made me feel like I was something sp...

An old Uncle muses

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30 March 2017 (M) - My style of posting has been going through some changes and I thought I should share what's going on and why these changes. I'm rapidly moving into empty nest. I have 2 Daughters still living at home and they are both looking for their on place. ...

My wife is still trying to contact the guy she had an affair with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

30 March 2017 (M) - What is going on with my wife? She had an affair with another guy that we both know, and I only found out about it after more than a year and a half..before the start of her affair we argued and fought alot ,but at one point for no apparent reason ...

Does my boyfriend have commitment issues? He won't change his address

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

29 March 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year, but he hasn't changed his address with the post office. He is still picking up mail at his parents house. We moved in together June 2016. Last weekend I mentioned it and he said, "t...

Was I being used, by her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2677 days ago

28 March 2017 (M) - I was dating a girl for 5 weeks – I felt there was something special there and every time we met there was always at least one point where we both laughed so hard we were crying. We even had cute pet names for each other (I called her peach). ...

I love her, I like her personality, and we've dated for 4 years in a LDR, but I have mixed feelings. Can I come to terms with the fact that she is hairy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

27 March 2017 (M) - I have been with this girl for almost 4 years by now, and according to how everything has proceeded (education/financial etc) it's time for making the advance for marriage, as has always been our plan. We have not had sex (saving for marriage...

Should I ask him how he feels now? Or wait a while before I ask?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Hi, I have a relationship issue and would love some advice! For the past nine months I have been in an ambiguous relationship with my housemate. We started sleeping together last summer. I knew he had fancied me for a while and he even starte...

I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2677 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ...

Was he lying about his reasons for blocking me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - I was dating a guy and he was leaving on duty for a couple weeks. He lied to me about deleting social media, he actually ended up blocking me. When I caught him in his lie, he said anxiety and paranoia made him delete me, he thought I would stalk ...

How can I stop living in the past and stop worrying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Hello everyone, how does someone stop living in the past , it seems like my life is a contact worry, I can't escape my own "prison" I always worry about what other people think of me , constant non stop, whether it's a work, at home , with friends...

How can I believe there is a good guy out there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2800 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - I feel like I have given up on love- my whole life I'm in my early thirties now but I used to believe that there was a nice guy out there and that if ur a genuine person that will be rewarded. I'm 32 and I have completely lost faith in love - I...

How do I avoid blowing what could have been my best chance to date him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - I am a very shy person when it comes to dating usually I meet people through friends so its not so bad. Recently I got chatting with a bloke and we arranged a date. We had our 2nd date this weekend. This date we had at his place and had a few drinks...

Will men I date care about my living situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2767 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - I'm single. I haven't dated in the dating market because My self esteem is so low and I always have ran to men that have been self centered and have taken me for granted - anyways I always have this issue of living at home- at the moment I am ...

Group holiday planned. How can I enjoy the holiday when he will be present ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - I'm going on a group holiday next week(which has been arranged for a while) with someone who I really like and have feelings for, but who I have come to realise just enjoys flirting and does not actually have feelings for me at all. The thing is...

What should I do? I want my parents to allow me to hang out with this boy and stop being so strict

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2801 days ago

25 March 2017 (F) - hello, i'm a 13 year old girl that comes from a muslim family and I really need help when it comes down to boys and dating. my parents are extremely strict when it comes down to these things and don't allow me to hang out with boys or have bo...

I was treated unfairly and want to quit but want to write a note to the manager

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

25 March 2017 (F) - So I got this support work job and the staff there are so horrible to me. They are in the 50-60 and I'm 27. They are extremely rude and seem to pick or find fault in everything I do. Even the way I speak they have a problem with it. They are ...

Does it sound like my boyfriend wants to get me pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

25 March 2017 (F) - So I think my boyfriend wants me to get pregnant , without actually saying it . This is more of a question for the guys since they may know more about how they think. First of all we haven't been dating for long but he's already talked about get...

Boyfriend didn't contact me and I'm angry

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

25 March 2017 (F) - My bf was at a lunch at a client today and then they went to a hotel bar with the guys for drinks. He hardly contacted me during the lunch nor told me they were going to a bar afterwards. I had to contact him and ask him what he was up to because he ...

LD friend. Should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

24 March 2017 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for longer than a month and we get along well. We have both admitted to each other that we really like each other, however we both live in different states, 9-10 hours away from each other. We have spoken about a l...

Please confirm my doubts

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

24 March 2017 (F) - I've been with my bf for 2.5yrs (living with him 1.7yrs).I've noticed that on his Facebook, he has lots of females "friends" (as he calls). I haven't used FB and had shut it down years ago as I prefer Linkedin. His account has been open to me but ...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2802 days ago

24 March 2017 (F) - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

Just had a baby, but now I am scared about returning home, due to his abusive actions while I was pregnant. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

23 March 2017 (F) - Dear aunties and uncles. I am a first time mom to a month old baby and my husband and I have had a fair share of ups and downs but we love each other a lot and wouldn't dream of spending my life with anyone else. Last year, while in my first trim...

Is this man using my sister, and did she move him into her house too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

22 March 2017 (F) - This is really a question about my sister. She is the sweetest kindest girl, aged 45, divorced with two teenage sons. She tends to fall in love very easily, and rushes into relationships, and those relationships rarely last, so she ends up hear...

Does this help a man with ED to feel better? What could possibly have allowed me to continue to enjoy knowing my wife was having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

22 March 2017 (M) - I am a 50 year old married man who has had erectile dysfunction problems since before i married my wife.. She was very beautifull when she was younger but that doesnt make a difference when you have ED.. When she was still in her twenties I f...

Is it really worth it to file for child support? I got pregnant 3 months into dating him, then he disappeared

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

22 March 2017 (F) - The baby's father isn't in the picture. I have tried to reach out to him during this pregnancy, but nothing. I kind of am considering to file for child support, since I'm living with my mom and don't make as much at the moment. The only thi...

I'm hesitant about calling her. Is it good idea to call her when she is with her bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

22 March 2017 (M) - Helo my beloved dearcupid aunts and uncles, i am a guy and i have a female friend. When she come back from vacation, she came with her bf and they are staying together for some days. I didn't call her since she is with her bf together because...

Should I wait another year until I am more sure of my feelings for him before I buy him an airline ticket to allow him to visit me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

22 March 2017 (M) - This issue is a bit tricky and I need an external view I met a guy online 6 months ago , he lives in Argentina, he is 5 years younger than me, I live in Europe, we talk constantly every day including video calls , although the time is differen...

Family conditioning has defined sex as inappropriate and dangerous. How can I stop feeling afraid pf physical sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

22 March 2017 (F) - Ever since I was young, sex was explained to me as something that was inappropriate, dangerous, and could generally be used against me. Both of my parents were always adamant that men couldn't be trusted, and that I needed to be cautious and awar...

What are the chances of success and happiness for women STARTING new relationships after the age of 50?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2798 days ago

22 March 2017 (F) - I've read horrible statistic that the odds of a woman marrying after 50 are something less than winning the lottery . What the hell ? Is this true . Are we really that unattractive and unwanted? What are women's experiences with STARTING new...

Do you think I have the right be upset since technically he is still married?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2796 days ago

20 March 2017 (F) - I moved to a new town and got a job as a server at a local restaurant. One of my co workers is very cute and a lot of the girls like him. They are always going out as groups and hanging out with each other outside of work. We became really ...

We broke up. I know I still care for him. should I talk to him about my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2796 days ago

20 March 2017 (F) - I was in a long term relationship with this guy for almost two years and we just kept bickering, small petty arguments and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. It turned out he was messaging one of my friends and it turned out she wasn't very nic...

Personal cleanliness? There has got to be a nice way to approach this! What would you do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2796 days ago

20 March 2017 (F) - I started seeing this guy about two months ago. We pretty much only hang out about two three nights a week when he'll come stay the night or weekend. We've known each other for a while now, we've taken our kids on play dates before etc. He's a...

Is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2807 days ago

19 March 2017 (F) - Dear aunts and Uncles, is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis? He was always athletic and eat well so I can't say that all of a sudden he changed his life style, but he seems more interested in these areas. He picked up a new hob...

He has not told his ex about me yet. Is is reasonable for me to feel so hurt? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

19 March 2017 (F) - I've been going out with my partner for one year. We both have kids from previous relationships. Being a mother and full time parent i have included him in my two kids lives. We both have teenage daughters. He spent christmas with his ex and stay...

How can I get dates if I am not attractive enough for guys to ask me out or approach me in person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2807 days ago

19 March 2017 (F) - I just witnessed a girl right in front of me getting cold approached and hit on by guy while I am never hit on and/or approached by men. I am not intimidating because I notice guys cold approach women without sending signals to guys. In fact, ...

Do I tell him I may be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2798 days ago

18 March 2017 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months and have been having casual sex,he has ways been very clear that he never want to have children last time we had sex he came in me, now I'm 10 days late for my period and I think I'm pregnant, I'm not ...

Is he insecure, jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

18 March 2017 (F) - Hi, I've been seeing this man for 5 months. I'm 49, divorced twice, no kids. He is 51, divorced twice, two kids 18 and 20. His second wife cheated on him. He was adopted. His adoptive father died when he was young and the adoptive mother was ...

Is he scamming me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

17 March 2017 (F) - Hi and thank you for your advice I met a male online approximately two months ago. He is very charming. We've talked daily. He tells me his wife died in an accident and he doesn't communicate with his family and he has one son who stays wit...

Can a true relationship be achieved without the affection and the touchy part?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

17 March 2017 (F) - our sex life has slowly deteriorated. He blames it on my weight gain but many people including male friends and family have advised me that the weight is not the problem. He won't see a doctor cause he blames it on me, however he is 11 years olde...

Should stay or leave our relationship? I think we have different goals and different attitudes to handling our money.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

17 March 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, I don't know if I should stay or leave my relationship... myself (almost 24) and partner (almost 23) have been together two and a half years and I feel like we are going no where at the moment... We have been living with each other...

I think he is lying! Am I overreacting? How do I approach it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

17 March 2017 (F) - I've been dating a guy for the past couple of months and although we are not yet in relationship we are seeing each other exclusively and have had the conversation about not seeing anyone else. He has treated me amazingly so far and I honestly...

My Bf passed away a year ago. Is it wrong to start dating the second cousin of my late partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

16 March 2017 (F) - Okay my boyfriend passed away (father of my child) about 1 year ago. We were on and off for about 5 years, always fighting never really happy. I met someone who makes me really happy. Unfortunately it's his second cousin. (Even though the...

Does he still want to see me? He said that we would not be compatible long term, but he does like me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

16 March 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid I need some advice, I've been seeing this guy for about a month (I'm 19 and he's 25) and we were getting on really well, he takes me out and treats me really nice, we just clicked. We're very similar and we've both noticed this. We'v...

I love her but I am nervous about the pressure to marry her so soon after the start of our LDR relationship. How should I respond to this pressure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

16 March 2017 (M) - Dear all i've been with my girlfriend since June last year and we've not had any problems. I've had 3 girlfriends before her but nothing has even come close to this. I know that she is the right one for me. She is probably the only person...

What needs to change to improve this family situation? It has caused tension between my husband and I.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2808 days ago

16 March 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts please help me to solve this problem. I've been married for 3 years. My husband is a wonderful,kind,generous man. He is the youngest in his family with 3 elder sisters and 2 brothers. I always had a feeling that his eldest sister do...

It was his first time. But straight after we finished he called his best friend to tell him we'd had sex. Made me feel like an object. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

16 March 2017 (F) - Hello, I'm a 16 year old girl. When I was 14 I had a relationship with a boy which lasted about 1,5 year. At the time my parents were breaking up and everything was falling apart. I got sexual abused and that boy destroyed me and I felt like de...

I said "I love you" but he's not at that point and now I'm hurt/confused and wondering if I should break things off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

16 March 2017 (F) - About two weeks ago, I found myself (regrettably) drunk after a super fun night out with a group of friends and my boyfriend, who I have been seeing for nearly 6 moths. The BF very sweetly took care of getting me to my house, getting me into my ...

I've lost trust due to his texting other women yet he's talking about marriage. He's barely speaking to me, how do I sort this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2799 days ago

15 March 2017 (F) - Hi I've been with my partner now for nearly 4 years we have had trust issues down to him texting other women he has asked me about getting married I tried to explain to him that I need to be able to trust him 100 percent before I think about ...

Does he like me or just want sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

14 March 2017 (F) - Just when I'd totally shut my self off from dating then the world gave me this guy. I have known him since 2012 but I always ignored him and blocked his calls. Recently I haven't been going out much and he suddenly contacted me. I decided to hang ...