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writes:I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months and have been having casual sex,he has ways been very clear that he never want to have children last time we had sex he came in me, now I'm 10 days late for my period and I think I'm pregnant, I'm not sure if I should tell him or should just go for the option that is already on my mind which is terminating it, I feel I can't face him with that despite the fact I really need him to be by my side but I'm not sure how he would react to it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 March 2017):
 First you need to make sure you actually are pregnant then if you are he has a right to know. Why are you both having unprotected sex if you don't want to get pregnant? A termination is not the answer to unprotected sex. A termination is ending a babies life. You need to think before you have unprotected sex. Their are people out there who are desperate for a child and then their are the both off you who are careless and think sure it is okay you can just get rid of the baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2017): First you need to go to the doctors to have it confirmed then if you are , dont rush into things speak to your doctor about options you have ,then if you are then tell him .Explain to him you have been to the doctors and spoke about options and what does he want to do . Remember the final decision is down to you . If he kicks up a fuss you tell him you are both responsible for what has happened its not all on you .
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2017): Termination is not a form of birth control. I believe in choice but I also believe in education. If you want to have sex go on the pill get a iud get the shot. There are so many forms of birth control there is no excuse not to use it. Why is he not wearing a condom? Condoms help prevent STD. With STD out there now that can kill you you must use a condom each and every time.Also since you tend not to practice safe sex it is time to get tested for STDs. Someday you might want to have a baby when you are older. Some STD can prevent a healthy pregnancy. Talk to your doctor you may not even be pg. Have your doctor teach you about safe sex and get birth control. We do not need any more aids baby's in the world.What angers me is that all of that is preventable.Educate yourself before you have any more sex for the sake of your health and your life.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (18 March 2017):
 By the way, you never tell someone you "may" be pregnant - you get it confirmed first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2017): Why oh why on earth are you having UNPROTECTED sex with a man "casually"?! If he is stupid enough to do this then he needs to deal with the consequences and now so do you
Do you have any idea how many diseases you could have caught? How utterly stupid it is for you to do this?
You two have made an irresponsible decision and now a life hangs in the balance because if it.
People who say "I never want kids" and then don't use protection absolutely baffle me.
In my opinion he has a right to know. What are you going to do if he has no interest? Terminate it anyway? So the outcome is likely to be the same and there is a chance he'll hold your hand and Wear a condom next time. ,
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (18 March 2017):
If one or both of you don't want a baby, contraception should have been used and he never should have had sex without a condom.
Tell him and go through with the termination, if you want, but no more unprotected sex.
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