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writes:Hi, I live in Europe and I come to NYC 2-3 times a year for holidays, Christmas etc. My whole family lives here (parents and sisters). My friend came here once with me, and now he says that he doesn't feel like it because he feels like there is no point of seeing NYC for the second time. I explained and basically beg him to come and spent time with me and my family because the rest of the time we spent together. And he just said that there is no point we can 'Skype with webcam'So I came here by myself so sad, and I decided to go on a date have fun for once in my life (never hooked up before). And I met this guy we went for dinner and stuff like that and basically fell in love - he even said:-Sorry we can not hook up because I like you too much and it will make us more bonded and you're leaving soon.And to be honest, I felt the same one... so I stayed here for a month and basically told him I want to move back to NYC - and we kept seeing everyday for the whole month.It feels good - he makes me feel safe, we fight, have amazing sex, and when I'm around him I don't care about anything - no worries etc. It feels so good and I don't know what to do now. I'm leaving on saturday. I never feelt so good with anyone... is he the one? It feels like it. Should I give up my 3 year long relationship for a month of craziness? I really miss my family too, my parents and sisters... so that's the second factor which is pushing me for such crazy decision. I lived away for 5 years now and I really want to reunite with my family we are really bonded... I never realized how much before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2013): Hi, you made the decision to leave your 3 year boyfriend when you opted to stay in NYC for a month and have sex with this new guy. You have basically kissed your 3 year relationship goodbye.
So have the decency to break up with your boyfriend as he does not deserve to be with someone like you. Let him be with someone that can be faithful.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (9 January 2013):
You're new relationship sounds just like an exciting fling. If you pursued it, the things you speak of would wear off significantly.
You also just cheated on your bf, so the one deciding who should be dumped is him, not you. You need to tell him what you did and allow him to see if he still wants to be with you.
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