A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Dear CupidI feel that my bf of 3 years talks nicely to me only when he needs money from me, other times he never calls, ignores me and bullies me.I have already given him a lot of money for this student loan. I don't have any proof for this though. What should I doPlease help me.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (9 January 2013):
Read what Honeypie wrote. If you are still confused, please re-read it.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (9 January 2013):
Both Honeypie and CMMP have given excellent advice. Follow it!!
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male
reader, CMMP +, writes (9 January 2013):
Sorry, but isn't it obvious that you need to break up with him? He won't pay you back so asking is a waste of time.
You have two options:
1.) Break up with him and free yourself.
2.) Stay "together" and pay him to treat you like shit.
Both are temping but I'm leaning towards #1.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 January 2013):
1. Stop giving him money.
2. Sit him down and make a payment plan for him to pay you back. If he refuses. End it and well, then that is YOUR loss.
3. End it - what exactly are you getting out of that relationship?
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