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My Bf talks nicely to me only when he needs money from me. What should I do?

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Question - (9 January 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2013)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid

I feel that my bf of 3 years talks nicely to me only when he needs money from me, other times he never calls, ignores me and bullies me.

I have already given him a lot of money for this student loan. I don't have any proof for this though. What should I do

Please help me.

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (9 January 2013):

Read what Honeypie wrote. If you are still confused, please re-read it.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (9 January 2013):

Honeygirl agony auntBoth Honeypie and CMMP have given excellent advice. Follow it!!

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (9 January 2013):

Sorry, but isn't it obvious that you need to break up with him? He won't pay you back so asking is a waste of time.

You have two options:

1.) Break up with him and free yourself.

2.) Stay "together" and pay him to treat you like shit.

Both are temping but I'm leaning towards #1.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 January 2013):

Honeypie agony aunt1. Stop giving him money.

2. Sit him down and make a payment plan for him to pay you back. If he refuses. End it and well, then that is YOUR loss.

3. End it - what exactly are you getting out of that relationship?

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