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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Would it be cruel to leave him. Or could it do him some good? I'm terrified of what'll happen if he continues like this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place and I really need some advice. My boyfriend has always smoked weed. At first it was just once or twice a month when he would hang out with a particular friend. I didn't like it but he never did it in front of m...

We had a casual thing between us about 4 years ago. Why would she ignore me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - Ok, so me and this girl used to have a casual thing going about 4 years ago. We were both single then. Since then i've married someone else. We've stayed in touch and met up a few times. On a couple of occasions we have slept together which s...

What do I need to say to my boyfriend? Because I really had never had sexual relations before I had sex for the first time, recently, with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I had sex for the first time, but my boyfriend thinks now thar I was not virgin since I was loose and didn't have pain and he saw no blood .? but I really didn't have sex before please help ...

How do I tell my boss that I can't come to work as I'm already booked to attend a convention? Not sure how to break the news.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Modnote: poster clarified that she holds 2 jobs. One weekdays Mon-Fri and one part time at weekends. .............................................................. I work as a Nanny full-time 9-5 Monday through Friday. A week or so ago, she told me ...

What can I do legally to get her to stop with all the crap shes doing so we can live our lives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Good day all... Here is the time for all you that give great advice to read my situation and give me advice on what I should do about it. I have been with my fiancé for almost 3 years now. Within a couple months of our relationship he ...

Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

If I really am the woman he is in love with and plans to be with for the rest of his life why has he made getting married so difficult?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years going on 3. We have two babies and are pretty serious about eachother. The only problem is that we seem to have completely different views about marriage. I want to get married desperately. Every inch of my ...

How do I cope with this breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years finished with me and is now in a relationship with another woman just 2 weeks later. I am in pieces. I cant eat I cant sleep I cant even go to work. We had a row and split but I thought we would work things out. But this time ...

I just don't want to feel like I'm living with a lazy roommate any longer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3485 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - Please tell me if I am overreacting. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. I am in the army, and we have no children. The entire time we have been married, because we have moved around a little I have been the main bread winner which I am ...

A close friend told me that my boyfriend isn't a good guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - A close friend of mine recently told me that my bf isn't a good guy!he said he s very mean and took his friendship for granted and took advantage of his friendship. he is telling me not to have a relationship with him as he might cheat on me or take ...

How can I calm my anxiety at the thought of losing him? Plus I need a guide on dating an introvert, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

29 April 2015 (?) - I think i need a guide for dating an introvert... I am a very social, loving and very caring person. When in a relationship i always put the other person first, and always like to keep in contact, and do lots of thinga with them. Yet my boyfr...

He's been selective, about what he says, when he's communicates with me. Should I just end my relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating website and chatted online for about 4 months before meeting. We then, or so I thought, had a good relationship seeing each other every weekend, chatting during the week. In ot...

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her ...

She calls me her daughter but charges me $US 500 per month to live with her. Is that too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Im 19 year old, I live with my ex guardian. I have been living with Her since I was 16 year old when I dad passed. She increased my monthly payment to $500 a month for staying there. I used to pay $300 before. She calls me her daughter but why do I...

I'm not sure if he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I don't trust my bf Everything seemed to be perfect in the beginning but one night has changed him ! I told him 2 weeks ago that you are careless! I meant that he should take care of his job and health because he goes out every night and...

I agreed he can come back only if he promised to make a doctors appointment for some help, am I making the right decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months has finally admitted he has a drinking problem and needs help. He's changed a little since he met me he use to drink everyday but now it's weekend benders. At first it wasn't a problem as we were just having fun but as time ...

Is this verbal abuse? Are we just not right for each other?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I am on the fence about the man I have been in a relationship with for 2 years. I don’t know whether I am wanting to get out of the relationship too soon or if am avoiding the warning signs of what could be verbal abuse. Background Sto...

He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" b...

He hasn't kissed me in a year. But he finds time to watch porn. what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't kissed me romantically in years. We barely have sex, and it is boring, always the same position. He watches very x rated lesbian porn and knows it bothers me and he obviously doesn't care. He is obsessed with woman and is c...

He's ''not sure about our relationship''?? Is this a temporary natural phase in a relationship? Or is it likely to be permanent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship for over two and a half years now, and I thought everything was alright until last year. My partner said he wasn't sure about this relationship, so I gave him some space, and he eventually decided that he want...

Should I walk away? Should I send the note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - After 4.5 years of friendship, J and I began a relationship over Xmas which has largely been conducted online, because of her employment. I'm 32 and am plenty experienced, but this is the first time I feel I could be falling in love. Just recen...

I'm having sexual feelings for him but I'm not yet ready to have sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24plus and my guy is 29plus. He has been my childhood friend but as of last year he asked me out. We both love each other and as of this having been having sexual dreams which both of are involved. Now have been having sexual feeling towards ...

What can I do about my suspicions that my husband is having an affair? He's not reacted well when I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and we have a 9 yr old child. Recently I feel that my hubby is not being truthful to me..... I feel he is having a extra marital.....if not an affair......maybe a friendship......stage of relationship with his sch...

Why is it that everything in my life seems to become complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Is it in My life that everything seems to be complicated? I either i have bad luck or i am doing something is wrong some where. Ever since my mother passed away when i was 16 years old..it has been a bumpy ride. Okay i have good intentions fo...

My partner has IBS and is afraid of having an attack in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - My partner has IBS and says that she did not tell me as she thought i would not understand and finish with her when I found out and she says that she is so afraid that she will have a attack when we are in bed and i have tried to talk to her but so ...

!When I ask him why he doesn't give me any sex he answers that he just got lazy...Does that make any sense to anybody?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Ive got a confusing situation that boggles my mind. But maybe there is someone out there with answers to help me understand things. Ive been with my guy for about a year now. I take our relationship VERY serious. Even when I have outside temptati...

Did I do the right thing by canceling this trip to see my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I just reunited with a friend of mine from years ago.He wanted me to come and visit him in a another state I felt ok about it but this morning I heard a voice telling me this trip I won't be taking my first thought was to run like hell ...

Is the spark going from our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now, and it is definately the best relationship i've ever been in. We started off as friends and it grew into more. My boyfriend has always seemed a bit shy in bed - he has a condition called ...

Is it normal to distance yourself from somebody who is causing you pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I am wondering. Is it normal to distance yourself from a person who is hurting you too much? Causing you pain or stress? Almost like you need the pain and stress to stop so you emotionally withdraw from them? Does this happen all of a sudden or o...

My boyfriend wants "space" for a month and I am scared he wont come back!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend requested time apart. He said we're arguing too much. He doesn't want to end things, he wants to re-evaluate everything and he wants to be with me. I asked him not to string me along if he knows it's over, but he said he doesn't know. ...

Was my BF jealous that I gave these guys a dance lesson?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I am a dancer. Recently I was asked to demonstrate some dance moves to some kick boxing students (most of them male) who take classes at the same dance studio. They were curious about the dance program. I was fine with it. I do not see anything...

I got sick and missed the calls, now he wont talk.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two months and we talk everyday. We work similar jobs and sometimes, overnight so we try to keep each other up. Friday I told him I had plans to go out but I ended up getting sick and fell into deep sleep, I ...

Should his voyeurism concern me? How can I believe that I am the woman for him when all his thousands of saved images of women all look nothing like me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - i am currently engaged to my partner of just over 2years. I have since constantly found images he has taken of women in public, on screens or saved of women. Also the usual porn etc... On his phone, email, playstation, in our new home (dvd's, ...

How can I determine if he still loves me? Or confirm it's over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

25 April 2015 (M) - My boyfriend is not talking to me any more ! we started this relationship 2 months ago, we loved each other ! i am sure about my feelings and i was sure about his feelings , but since last week everything has changed ! i don't know why, for no r...

My daughter is being so excluded in her class by her classmates. How can this ostracism be dealt with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, My daughter is being so excluded in her class. And the girls ignore her and don't really want to hangout with her. This of course has affected her and of course concerns me. She is almost 11, beautifull both inside and out., sweet but on the...

How mean is too mean? Who should pay for what in our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Who pays for what in our two year relationship? Ok here is my dilemma and one that has really upset me to the point I am considering walking away because it has affected my respects for him. I am sure there will be many comments as I have googl...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

What can I say or do? My libido is irksome for my Bf. Recently his persistence has led to doing things that made me uncomfortable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for almost 4 years now and for the most part everything is great. However, when I started on birth control my sex drive decreased dramatically and when I switched from the pill to the implant it didn't get much better....

I feel stuck. Is it reasonable that I feel so hurt at his lack of priority for me in his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I have just ended a relationship with my boyfriend due to his lack of time for me. He says he will come over and talk but says he is busy and has a lot on with work. He is self employed but spends a lot of time procrastinating and chatting to custo...

Three months. What can I do to forget him? why did he cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3489 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - How do I let go? Its been three months.. I still miss him. I mean he left, he cheated, and we go to the same college and live like across the road I can see when I am walking to school or leaving my apt if he's there. I get a sense of happine...

I love him so much. But when he's been drinking he says nasty things and is argumentative. Why is trying to ruin our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - My partner is for the most part a very loving kind man who says he adores me and I am his world. However he likes to drink on his nights off work (he works nights) and when he has had too much to drink sometimes he can lose his temper big time. I...

Will my fiance from another country be able to accept my culture? I think he's jealous

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Will my overseas born fiance be able to accept my American culture? He is so very loyal and romantic and attentive to me. I'm really in love with him. I think it's a miracle to find love halfway across the planet. I'm in the u.s. and he's from an...

Can a marriage last if only one side is in love with the other?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Ok so I've got in to a big mess and take full responsibility and need some advice. Please don't judge me as I hate myself enough right now..... 8 years ago I met a wonderful man whilst visiting some friends in another part of the UK. We hit it o...

How can I convince myself that this is my mind playing games? Or is my FWB interested in another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - My FWB and I have being seeing each other for a year now. I'm Starting to fall for him and I ADORE him. I don't know if he feels the same but I'm too scared to tell him how I feel. For a while I've always had issues with jealousy and recently he...

Discovered that my soon to be ex got drunk while he was supposed to be caring for our child. He'll deny it. How do I confront him with what I've discovered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for quite awhile now. Anyhow to make a long story short I have 4 kids, one of which is with him. Last week I was on vacation with my parents. He had our child and I had a friend babysit my other kids at my h...

He cheated and I really don't know if I can forgive him, or not. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I went into a relationship quickly; we've only been together for five months. However, we were close friends for ages before we got together and we both developed feeling for one another before we got together, so we didn't see ...

Should I report my sister to Social Services?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hi guys I just wanted some advice on a problem I am having. I I have a sister who is 29 years old and she has two small children. However she has started to drink alcohol around her children, to the point where she gets blind drunk, this has been...

I get no attention from him apart from when he wants sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now the problem is we have a 7 month old son my boyfriend has a dog he is constantly kissing and cuddling the dog it gets in between us on the settee to the point where I get that fed up I move onto the ...

Anyone else ever feel sick & tired of "trying"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

24 April 2015 (M) - Anyone else ever feel sick and tired of "trying"? First off, I wouldn't say I'm depressed or anything, and second, I'm not looking for sympathy, just, if anyone else can relate... I've been thinking about my life a lot lately and how less...

Am I in the wrong? Or was it just insensitive of her? She hasn’t been there for me once over the situation, did I just expect too much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Last year I found out my father wasn’t mine and my twin’s dad, but he was our elder sister’s father. Since this has come out we have had a strained relationship, mainly through her not understanding or being there for me. After months of struggle...