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*heerwhore23
writes:I need some help on how to get my ex boyfriend back. Him and his girlfriend just broke up and he's heartbroken. I'm trying to give him some space but I still wanna be there for him and spend time with him. How can I do this without being pushy? I just want him back so bad and I'm willing to wait for however long it takes.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (30 May 2011):
 Be his friend, and be a really good listener. Don't assert your romantic feelings until his grieving period for his girlfriend is over, or it could get messy and ultimately weaken his relationship with you due to unresolved feelings for this girlfriend he broke up with.
Give it time, be there for him, let him cry on your shoulder, and do what lots of us girls do for our girlfriends who are heartbroken - take him out for a good time and some non-serious fun to let him blow off steam. Believe me, it will help, whether it's a night out at the club, or a good round of tennis, or a good movie or getting out of town just to change the surroundings.
Good luck!
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reader, supermum  +, writes (30 May 2011):
 You split for a reason, and it is time to move on. Sorry, I know that sounds harsh, but why would things be different now?
The best thing you can do is be there for him as a friend, but be sure not to puh things. I suspect you may want to get in there as a rebound relationship and that is never worthwhile.
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