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female
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41-50,
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writes:Hi guys, hope you are all well. I need advice on best way to cut ties from a guy. As I'm not liking the person I'm becoming. Ok, so I'm 30 and I met guy who's 27, about 3 months ago. We met in a bar. I'd just moved back to the big city and moved to flat and looking for a job. He is gorgeous, funny, sexy. His got amazing job and lives in amazing apartment. When we met he told me he "didn't do relationships" but we've become close. We were both looking for new jobs and new flats! Me, because i was fired and landlord selling flat...where as he, is doing this all out of choice... I found the flat, but still can't find a media job and as a result I am currently unemployed... This has lowered my self esteem massively! His managed to get stunning flat and even worse amazing job...anyway, back to the issues, yes he doesn't want a relationship and I've fallen for him, he says not me, just wants to be single. But I've since found out he did have one recently and that his slept with every girl at his office (old job) now I'm worried that in new job his going to meet girl and fall for her, ESP as his working with Pr/advertising department! So loads of pretty girls (300 people in his new company) I know I feel this because I one, know he doesn't want a relationship and two, I feel so low in myself! I have nothing to really offer a guy...no job, money etc... We (me and guy) had big talk recently and he said me and him can't ever be more and now since then his not really speaking to me, where as before we were speaking all the time everyday and seeing each other loads... But it's all changed. How can I now forget him as I really need to?
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 Hmmmmm... Doesn't sound so amazing to be honest. Sounds like an idiot (who is doing very well for himself but an idiot nonetheless).
My question to you is why do you waste your time with him?
Fair enough he has been honest from the outset and perhaps you've let yourself get carried away.
It probably won't be long before he's slept with all the pretty girls at this new work place before he has to change jobs again... Unless, of course, he has a magic awakening moment involving wearing ladies pantihose, nair varnish, hair thickening shampoo, a hairdryer and a bath like Mel Gibson in What Women Want.
You know what... It's not just about what you can offer a guy. I would say to you concentrate on yourself and finding the job you want and forget this loser. You'll meet someone soon enough - who would want to be with someone who thinks with his c*ck anyhow?
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