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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

We're back together but he seems preoccupied with his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Is my boyfriend strange? The ex-bf and I got together during the summer then in July he wanted to get back together to which I resisted for a couple of months as I was pretty happy being alone. He didn't try to impress me by recognizing my birthday ...

I don't like how I'm behaving with these guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3281 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I'm 18. I am introvert. I have insecurities about my social standards, my looks, my family. I keep recollecting my bitter childhood. I am in a long distant relationship for almost a year. We never dated 'til now. And we fight a lot. I really love ...

LDR. Did he think, since I am so far away, that he could just do his thing and get away with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hello. Please help! I have been seeing a guy for nearly a year. LDR. Seeing each other regularly though. He lied to me at the beginning of our relationship about a relationship he had with someone who tried to break us up. He said they never we...

Now that I've been intimate with my ex I'm worried he'll lose interest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - I rekindled with my ex boyfriend and we have since become intimate. He was beautiful and very passionate. I was really surprised as I did not think he felt like that about me after all this time. Its been nearly three weeks since we last me...

I don't entirely trust their friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks. I really like him but I am not sure about his best friend who is female. She is bipolar and seems to rely on him a lot as her husband is not a great communicator. They have known each other 20 years and he ...

How dare my husband ask for a threesome after he had an affair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, earlier this year I found out my husband had an affair. We are working it out, however, my husband has asked me to have a threesome. I feel like it's a common fantasy for men but at this time of working things out, I don't know what to ...

A friend has a crush on my BF. What needs to be done to discourage her unwelcome attention ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I need some help here regarding a female Friend who has been asking my Boyfriend out. My Boyfriend and I discuss about boundaries with opposite gender friends and we both agree hanging out one on one with the opposite gender ...

How can I convince him to not break up with me, without me becoming a doormat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - Today I had a serious talk with my boyfriend of two years. He wants to break up. I don't. He's not sure himself. I want to try to make this work, win him over. The situation is a little bit weird. Our relationship was nothing short of a fairy...

Feeling shattered that my Bf has been talking to his ex for 4 weeks. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - I am really disappointed with what I found out yesterday im not really the jealous type but this lie has me broken!i Found out that my boyfriend has been talking to his ex for about 4 weeks now and no I did not snoop into his phone to find that out...

Has he lied to me again about what he really said to this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - I posted here last week about my boyfriend allowing this girl to pick off off his plate, take the cherry from his drink etc. Both myself and boyfriend's sister in law spoke to him telling him it's wrong, that he shouldn't have allowed it. He said ...

His new girlfriend is making trouble for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3294 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - When I broke up with my ex boyfriend in the summer, totally unintentionally I ended up having a short of fling with a guy who I had known for a while. I hadn't wanted a relationship but we went out with a group of friends and it went from there. We ...

Issues with boyfriend's family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - Hello. I am having problems in my relationship but I believe it has something to do with myself. My boyfriend's mother allows me to come over at their home and my boyfriend took the invitation as a daily thing. I have told him before how it made...

How to tell my Mum by Boyfriend is Bi?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - There's a guy I've known for a year from Glasgow who I got introduced to at a mate's birthday party... I'd like to think we're good mates, but we do have a friends with benefits relationship... Only problem is, it was one of his mate's birthday'...

My boyfriend wants a threesome after watching my friend and I drunkenly make out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3299 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - Earlier this year I got pregnant. I didnt know I was pregnant at the time and had a surgery. Because of this, the doctors said there was a 50/50 chance something would be wrong with the baby cos of all the drugs, morphine etc but they could not be ...

Is there any hope for us, despite how badly he's treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3298 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - My name is Kate,I'm 42 and my husband,Stuart is 31 .We've been married for 8 years now but we've been a couple for 13. We don't have kids because he never wanted any.Our relationship has always been difficult due to our age gap as well as our ...

He called to say he'd been cheating. Do people usually tell the truth while drunk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I am with my current boyfriend for 4 years, we have our ups and downs and i love him and he says the same though some times i do feel he doesn't love me as much as i love him. Long story short, yesterday he had few drinks too ...

What changes can I make to improve this relationship? How can I become more relaxed and take it slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

7 November 2015 (M) - Hi there, smart people. I'm looking for some help with a few questions that are bothering me to the point of giving me physical symptoms. I've had a very unhealthy relationship roughly 4 years ago that I have spent a long time recovering fro...

Is it OK to get back in contact with my ex - and offer to just be friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3298 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - I'm happy in my relationship now but miss my ex, as a person, not who I want to get back with. Is it OK to get back in contact to be friends or not? He's the only other person I've been in love with and after 3 years I still can't get him out of m...

3 year limbo: close but not together and now there's a new guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

6 November 2015 (F) - Here's the thing. I met this guy three years ago and we got into a relationship pretty quickly. Longo story short, we broke up after 3 months (he gave me no explanation). Since then we have still stayed close and have been in a limbo stage w...

Do I confront him, even though I've been snooping?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

5 November 2015 (F) - I snooped when using my boyfriends ipad and saw that he had been messaging a girl who has already caused a massive issue in our relationship, what should i do? So been with my boyfriend 2 and a half years almost no issues. In the beginning i was ...

Marriage problems and cheating and now I am torn between two options. How can this be resolved?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - I had an affair starting July 2014 got caught Feb 2015 Admitted affair to my husband of 26yrs. We talked and I decided I would move in with other man. But he made me wait until Mar 2015 so it was awful for my husband with me in the home until th...

Can you suggest for me a good way to go forward, so that this situation here gets little easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

3 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I am in a middle of a triangle love which is a deep one. I can't decide what should I do now. I love a girl, who is of my age. Some unfortunate things happened with her 5 years ago. When she was 15, she was committed to a relationship wit...

Considering our strong connection why she doesn't break up with him? Is this girl worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

3 November 2015 (M) - So i met this girl at school through one of my ex girlfriend's friends. We ended up exhanching numbers at one point, we would text often and have lunch as a group at school. We got to know each other over the course of a month and came to learn we...

The white lies boy friend and the online guy: is two better than one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

2 November 2015 (M) - fHello everyone, as it been about 4 years since I have not been on this site. If I had any followers who had been watching my question of help, I had left my ex with a mutual breakup. we are now friends with no regrets. I remain to be single t...

Does my girlfriend still want her ex boyfriend? She chats to him on whatsapp every day

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

1 November 2015 (M) - Hi everyone, I have been dating someone for 6 months now and it's generally going well. My main concern is she has an ex-boyfriend (ex) and they message each other on whatsapp literally everyday. They were friends for a few years before t...