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age
26-29,
*ahmida
writes:I'm 18. I am introvert. I have insecurities about my social standards, my looks, my family. I keep recollecting my bitter childhood. I am in a long distant relationship for almost a year. We never dated 'til now. And we fight a lot. I really love him. This is my first love. Whenever I met someone whom I get attracted to, I try to hide the fact that I have a boyfriend. And somehow, I feel less attracted to my boyfriend, don't miss him that much and stop feeling the urge to constantly keep contacting him, which I usually do. This same thing is happening to me right now. I am confusing both of my boyfriend and the other guy whom I feel I'm infatuated to. Boyfriend thinks I don't love him at all 'cause I keep ignoring him. And the other guy thinks I'm playing him while he already showed interests in me. I don't wanna leave my boyfriend and also want to keep that guy. I know he has a strong personality and he won't get himself friendzoned but I still don't wanna lose him. I simply don't know what's wrong with me. Sometimes I want to lead a life being totally single,no pressure at all. But I'm also afraid of breaking others' heart. I am tired of pulling others towards me and then keep pushing them away. Please tell me how can I change myself. Reply to this Question
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (27 November 2015):
 So if I understand you, you have a long-distance boyfriend and also various other guys who you feel attracted to. It might be best to gently let down your long-distance boyfriend so that you can concentrate on a person you like who is near to hand.
I am assuming there is no family influence involved in your long-distance friendship. If there is,then that is a whole new can of worms to deal with, and you need to follow up with a second post.
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