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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I still view her as a threat and it winds me up that she still texts him, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6189 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - last year i broke up with my bf, after we went to my friends wedding as mates, but i still really liked him, one of my friends bridesmaids, her mate, kept tellin everyone how much she fancied my ex which drove me mad. recently and slowly me and my ...

He's married but it wont last...either somebody is going to get fed-up or killed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I know I'm probably not gonna like what I hear, but I need to know what you think anyway. Several months ago I started seeing someone, and please take into consideration that we have known each other since childhood, and have since been great ...

I want my husband back! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I am a 32 year old woman, a high school teacher of children with special educational needs, a mother of two beautiful girls (age 5 and 2) and a wife. I have recently lost 7 stones in weight, have changed jobs, lost my grandfather, my parents have ...

I can't forgive my husband. Should I contact the "other woman"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i discovered that my husband had an affair back in the summer, he said it was sex only once and meant nothing, but he took her out to lunch at an expensive restaurnat and contiued phone contact for about a month. he has beg to keep our marriage ...

Hi alcoholic ex is back on the scene, she's one week sober, now he thinks he wants her back, should I just dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - For the past month I've been dating a man who was once in a relationship w/an alcoholic. the past week she has contacted him, claiming to be sober for one ENTIRE week. I don't know what her intentions are, but he says that now he feels torn between ...

I thought this guy was different...but the ex txts and he goes running and he lives with another ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - So i have been dating this guy for one month but problem one: he has his ex girlfriend still living with him. problem two: he used to date a lass thats still after him and keeps texting him and wont leave him alone the other day he was with me ...

His ex is pregant with his child, he says he just wants to be in the babies life but what if he feels different when its born??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I fancied this lad from work for eight months but was too scared to ask him out but recently we have been texting and arranged to meet up and he told me he really liked me and has done for ages but was too scared to ask me out. Anyway we had sex ...

Two guys want me and I can't choose, help me!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I was goin out with my boyfriend for 5 years, I broke up wih him about 2months ago to go out with a guy who I have known for a gud few years who i have always been very good friends with and dated for a few months in school. my ex keeps ringing and ...

The last thing I want to do is leave her but I'm tierd of this drama.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hey, I'm 22 and i really like this girl. We have been seeing each other for about a month and half. I made the mistake of asking her to be my girlfriend after only 3 weeks when her heart is still broke over a lad. She's so the person i been lo...

How do I choose between two girls who are perfect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I’m in this kind dilemma’s. Recently, I gotta know these 2 great girls. both are extremely hot and pretty, both of them are from differents country. one is from China yet another was from neighbour country and both of them was falling in love with ...

Torn between two...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a problem that I have been married for 20 years and am in love with two woman. I got married at 19 and have 2 older children. I never thought that I would ever be a cheater. My wife is one that has never supported career...

His wife knows about his affair with me, in fact me and his wife go on trips together... is this relationship healthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, I am a 23 year old woman that needs help. My boyfriend is 44 and I love him very much. The only problem is that he is married and has been for about 15 years. I know now that he plans not to leave his wife and his wife and I both kno...

Dazed and Confused... wrapped in a web

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I have been with for the past four years. We have a daughter who's two. We were having problems and I drew close to my ex boyfriend who has been my ex for the past seven years. He has a girlfriend but we both drew away from ...

I don't know how to convince here I have changed and we can make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 20 and I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, the first year was awesome but the next few months weren't and it's all my fault. She is my best friend's ex girlfriend and she kinda left him for me but me and him are still friends ...

My boyfriend and I get along great... so why am I falling for this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we get along great, I love him to bits. We've been through at lot together and we have such a great connection. This is a long distance relationship though and although it can be annoying I ...

I like my best friend's boyfriend, and he likes me too! Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1813 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hi A few weeks ago my friend started to date this boy. I new him but i never spoke to him before. I thought i might aswell talk to him cause i would be seeing alot of him cause he was dating my best friend. I said hi and we started to tlk o...

My husband has cheated twice! I forgave him the first time, now he says it will not happen again. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hi cupid! this's my first time here. I dont know what to say and i still cant get rid of it. I'm married with military and move myself to live in Japan for 2 years before we move back to states. My husband is younger than me 7 years. We have 2 ...

My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - My wife wants to sleep with another man and wants my consent. I have always been faithful to my wife, but we have on a few occasions attended swingers parties and through them hooked up and had sex with other couples. We have been married fou...

What can I do to alleviate this guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I have a girlfriend and I love her her very very very much. I have another friend who is kind of attractive, and she has had a crush on me for a while....I kissed her twice, but never really felt, or wanted it. I just couldn't stop it the first two ...

I've got such a great guy...so why do I want something more??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I'm a 20 year old female and mother of a 4year old. I'm not with my son's father as we split when he was about two years old. Shortly after that I started dating someone else who my son sees as a father, well things didn't work out either, he went ...

Torn between my ex and a new guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I have recently split with my partner and there is this other guy i like i have been seeing him for about a month now but i still have strong feelings for my ex and i dont know what to do? My ex wants to give it another go and i dont want to hurt ...

I admitted while we were broken up, his friend kissed me. He forgave me, but his friend is denying the whole thing! It's a mess! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6196 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - Recently my ex, as we got back together only today, found out that his best friend had kissed me one day at school when he wasn't around. I actually told him, because I didn't have the gut to lie about anything anymore. He instantly felt very sick, ...

I think my cousin was flirting with my boyfriend! What's going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i had plans for this weekend but my cousin came down and those plans were trashed...so i jus invited him over to watch a movie with me but little did i know my sis and my cousin was in there the whole time so we had no privacy what ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend believe my best friend is ONLY my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6195 days ago

25 November 2007 (?) - why doesnt my boyfriend believe that my best friend is only a best friend? my best friend is a boy and we have known each other since nursery. we were 3 years old. we have gone through school together and we are in our last year and are still best ...

How can I get him to respect me more?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - hey, I am 18 and like my flatmate. We get along fine and have lots of fun. However, I have another flatmate, who is female, from Cyprus, and she gets along with him better than me. I think that I can see them flirting. However, she displays this ...

The connection isn't there the way it was with my ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - I have been with a guy for 2 years and a lot of the time he can treat me quite badly and can be very selfish but the connection we have is unbeleivable. We click and understand each other so well but after the two years together the way he would ...

Is going out to dinner with her acceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - my husband became sexually obsessed by a younger work colleague. they still work together - there is no chance of that changing and I am finding it hard to deal with. We seem to be on different planets when the subject is discussed. He says that he ...

My boyfriend met another woman who began texting him constantly and telling everyone they are dating, I don't know who to believe

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I am having major trust issues right now. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. He met another woman this past september and she instantly began to text message him 10-20 times a day. He told her to stop and that he had a girlfriend. She ...

During a break in our relationship, my boyfriend got a girl pregnant. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - i just learnt that the man i am in love with, who has separated from me for 3 months during which we were still fostering a relationship, has made another girl pregnant during which time he would have been going out with me. i know this is not a ne...

I like this guy who flirts with me but he likes another girl too, how can I let him know I fancy him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I really like this guy , but ive only met him twice and i know he really likes another girl, he always flirts with me should i ask him out? or ask him waht he'd say , any suggestions on what to say to him so he knows that i like him...

I like two guys, one of whom I have a history with, the other makes me laugh. Which one do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - ok well... i really like these two guys!! problem is they both like me back and i dunno what to do!! its a long story but i've gone out with lad 1 twice alredy but broken up with him 4 reasons that arent important anymore as they have been sorted!! ...

I want to dump my girlfriend for a girl who lives in Texas who likes me, should I go for it and fly to see her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6189 days ago

24 November 2007 (M) - Hey I am that guy who asked for help and U gave it to me about the girl from Texas. Well just two days ago she was talking to me on da fone and she told me she liked me a lot!!! Now I am happy but I have a problem first I am going out with this gir...

My long-distance boyfriend has said he'd change because he doesn't treat me right and I have a male friend who fancies me, how should I handle all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I just started at college 3 months ago and I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of over a year. Lately he has not been treating me well and I know he is constantly flirting with other girls. I was ready to break up with him but ...

Am I justified in feeling like this or selfish??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I have known my current boyfriend 4 years, we have been together on and off for periods of time over that four years and have a lot of history. He has a child from a previous relationship, who he does not currently see regulary, but ha...

She's dating a guy but I still feel we have a certain chemistry.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - Okay, well. I am a girl, and I am attracted to another girl who we'll call "Zoe". She's my best friend Kris's other best friend, and we didn't really know each other for the first two years of high school. Just a few months ago, she started talking ...

I love my girl very much but because of my low self asteem I cant resist attention from other girls..help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

21 November 2007 (M) - Ive been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now after chasing her for the previous 2 years. She is my perfect partner, shes beautiful, smart, funny and we have an amazing relationship. My problem is that since we've been together Ive started ...

My lover is taking trips with her ex alone, is that right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I am a lesbian, I am dating a Bisexual woman of 9 months. She remains friends with an ex boyfrined from a relationship for a year. Now they are planning trips to Haiwai and Las vegas alone. She gets jeaulous if I hang out with friends. Do I have a ...

How do I stop a guy moving in on my girlfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

20 November 2007 (M) - I'm currently in a very happy relationship. My girlfriend and I are very much in love and I trust her completely. We live in the same dorm at college, and we have lots of mutual friends. Unfortunately, one of my friends from the dorm has recently ...

Should I wait for him to make up his mind or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my fiance for four years, we have two beautiful baby boys together, i thought things were coming together until about a month ago he started acting some type of way, hiding his phone, rushing me out of his house, arguments starting ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - i've ben with this guy for going on two years,the last few weeks ive noticed him being very obsessed with spending more time together; then i was playing around and found some girl's number, he totally lied and said it was his mom's friend, i looked ...

My ex husband won't leave me alone even though it has been 3 years since the divorce and he is living with another woman, what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - My ex husband and i am divorced. We have been apart for three years now. but he won't leave me alone. I did or probably dolove him so much that i have been unable to let him go. To be blunt he is living with another woman but sometimes sees me 3 ...

My friend cant decide which guy she wants. Any advice would be appreciated..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Here on behalf of a very very very close friend. She has a boyfriend who all in all, is a lovely bloke. theyve been together for about 9 months... problem is his family and friends really don't like my friend. lets call him Joe. She fell for...

Him keeping in touch with his ex makes me aggrivated! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 7 months now. We dated in high school for like 3 months and have been friends ever since. All together its been about 7 years. Everything is going good except for the fact that he still calls his ex ...

I think I'm losing my mind! Is it possible to love two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Hi, i have been in a relationship with my fiance for 4 years and have a beautiful child by him. I care about him, would do anything for him and dont know wot i would do if i lost him. We have a very close group of friends whom we spend alot of time ...

I woke up next to my bf's best friend, I cant remember anything, now he's blackmailing me for sex, what can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - Help me please! i am so lost i have been with my boyfriend now for 3 years and love him with all my heart but on friday night i had way too much too drink and my bf went to work the next morning i woke up in bed with his best friend but i dont rem...

The mixed signals are driving me crazy, how can she like me and someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

19 November 2007 (M) - Ok so I am just about 20, and so is this girl that I dated/dating for a year, and everything was going grate. We both go to the same university. And as the end of summer brake was coming to an end I noticed that she was pulling away from me. I ...

I love her...and am consumed with hatred for her ex and frustration she doesn't see me in that way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

18 November 2007 (M) - I have fallen in love with my housemate, who has split from her boyfriend who is 24, She is 30, and now living with me after they split and he threw her out of his house, i made the initial mistake of saying how i felt, and now, she has told me they ...

We have a child together but he doesn't want to leave his wife, how do I cope with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

18 November 2007 (F) - well this is going to be long. Nearly two years ago I started an affair with a married man ( i was married too). After 5 months or so I was pregnant. I knew it was his child and he never doubted that. He stood by me and our relationship grew. We ...

Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

18 November 2007 (F) - hi,i have known this guy for so long, and we have been freinds since( he loved me soo much).and i knew it, i didn't love him that way at the time, but we stayed freinds for years. about a 2 weeks ago i left my boyfreind, and was so unhappy, and my ...

My husband wants to forgive me for cheating but I'm not sure I will be able to change. What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

18 November 2007 (F) - I'm going to try to make this as short and sweet (ahem) as possible. I'm also going to ask for no slaughter type replies, as my self esteem is shot, and I obviously have many issues...(you will see why). I'm a 44 year old woman, married for 18 ...