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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have recently split with my partner and there is this other guy i like i have been seeing him for about a month now but i still have strong feelings for my ex and i dont know what to do? My ex wants to give it another go and i dont want to hurt anyone, my ex doesn't know i have been seeing someone else either and there is also my 2 year old son to think about who got close to my ex and calls him dad.
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reader, deepandmeaningful +, writes (26 November 2007):
Hiya anon... im really sorry you have found yourself in such a predicament. What you need to do is to think about all the reasons why you and your ex split up in the first place. if it helps even write a pro and con sheet, mind you do get rid of it because i would hate for your new guy to read this list. Maybe you and this new guy got together too soon for you to be truly over your ex, this is a question only you can answer. I hope all works out for you and good luck.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 That is a bit of a shitty situation.
I guess it'd depend on the terms you can your ex left with, if he was cheating or if he was a shitty boyfriend I'd say go with the new guy and give him a shot.
Also as far as the whole situation with your child goes, if you're looking into a long term relationship going with the new guy probably won't have too big of an effect, I mean your son is only 2, a new fatherly figure would have plenty of time to grow on him.
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