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writes:Okay, well. I am a girl, and I am attracted to another girl who we'll call "Zoe". She's my best friend Kris's other best friend, and we didn't really know each other for the first two years of high school. Just a few months ago, she started talking to me, and we've gotten quite a bit closer (Not really close, but we're friends now.) She knows I'm gay, (and she's more than okay with that) but I'm not sure if she likes me in the way I like her. Kris told me recently that Zoe went through a phase where she thought she might like girls, but I didn't ask anymore about it because I didn't want to be offensive. He told me even more recently that she's dating a guy, though. The point is, even if she's dating someone, I still feel like we have this certain chemistry. We have many of the same interests, and I always catch her looking at me with this smile on her face she doesn't give anyone else. We joke around about each other a lot, so it's hard for me to tell if she's seriously into me. How can I be sure? I don't want to risk looking like an idiot, but I really care for this girl, and I've had my share of missed chances. What do I do?
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (22 November 2007):
 When you're alone, ask her straight out, "would you ever do anything with a girl" or something to that effect. It's the quickest way to find out and go from there than the possibility of going for a kiss or something and being knocked back.
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