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Archived questions from: April, 2018 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why does my ex married lover want to fix things?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I really don't know what to anymore about my situation. I left my married lover because it was the right thing to do and it was hurting me. We are both military (one outranks the other) so it complicates things in terms of actually having a ...

My ex boyfriend is now messaging my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2387 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - Dated my ex boyfriend for 6 months, and we admittedly rushed into things which was probably where we went wrong. We’ve been split up about a month now and he’s messaging my friend, but the girl herself hasn’t told me, one of our friends has. I’m...

How do I cope with insecurity while he's abroad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I've been in relationship almost 2 years with a man of 60 year old, we have 16 year of age difference. We used to work in the same work place. 2-month-ago he was relocated temporarily to a country where his ex lives permanently. He is a ...

If I make him feel better why did he inbox his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2385 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - Is my boyfriend being genuine about his feelings? The other day, my boyfriend was a little sick, not dying sick, but sick. I went to the hospital with him and he made a post on Facebook posting a picture of his hospital band and captioned it say...

We've broken up but why does my heart still hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED My head is in a spin . My ex broke up with me a few months ago. At first he sent nasty texts and then texts saying he loves me and then I heard nothing for over a week, the texts dwindled to odd 1 or 2 and then not...

Is it fair to let past experiences influence tis relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

27 April 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and we started to talk about the future and what the relationship is and he tells me that last summer he was accused of raping his ex. At the time he was telling me with I had just had consensual sex w...

Should I gave up or wait more time to approach my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

27 April 2018 (M) - I broke up with my boyfriend one month ago, the reason of the break up was an accumulation of many reasons and things he did. He is 25 and I am 35 years, we had up and down relationship , with great moments and bad moments. I give him a lot, I r...

Should I trust her on birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

26 April 2018 (M) - I'm 32 years old, dating my 22 old girlfriend for 3 months and days ago we had sex without condom and it was amazing, I almost forgot how good it feels lol, last time I had unprotected sex was with my ex wife who I divorced three years ago. Since ...

We've split up,he wants me to move out.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2386 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid. I have been in a relationship for three and a half years and my partner split up with me once more and said we are done and that we can still be friends....does friends work? We still live together, are sleeping separately and ...

My confidence is shot, I know I'm better off but I want him to realise it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2388 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - My ex of 8 years dumped me 4 months ago, he was and still is an alcoholic and takes heroin and crack and blues and pregabs plus antidepressants ( bought of the streets) I tried helping him and loved him so much , in the past year before the break up ...

I cant get the "cloud 9" feeling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - hello dear aunts! Don't want to go too long or detailed about this. I'm going to cut it short. I 'm seeing someone who is great. He is known to be an honest and decent guy. I've known him as a friend for a long time but we started seeing e...

Why did my ex give his friend my number?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2391 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, i broke up in July last year (2017) with my boyfriend (I’ll call him M) i loved very much because i felt he had fallen out of love with me and two weeks later, he got a new girlfriend (I know because i came back to him so we could ...

Why do I feel I have to supress my emotions when in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - I don't know how to be in a relationship. When I get excited about someone, I drive them away. The pattern is always I show too much interest (in a happy, excited way, from my perspective), they pull away, and then because they pull away, I start to ...

I have feelings for my ex but he just wants to be friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2391 days ago

23 April 2018 (M) - dear cupid i have recently got back in to touch with an ex boyfriend we Broke up on bad term yrs ago but as i said we got back in touch and we are friends but i have realised i still have feeling for him and he said he just wants to be friends ...

What is going on with me? How do I end this weird relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2389 days ago

23 April 2018 (F) - I don’t understand what happened. I am in my 30s, I fell in love once when I was a teen 14 yeas old. It was so intense and somewhat had a feel of overwhelmingness and it didn’t end up too well even though we had a crazy run of about 5 years tog...

Did I do the right thing, I think he is still involved with his children's mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2394 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - I was seeing a man who lives with his 18 year month twin boys and he still lives with his kids mother.He told me they have broken up but staying together for financial reasons for now. Well he wouldn't see me outside working hours so I calle...

He phased me out but got angry when I moved on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Hey :-) im sorry that this is such a long one guys. About 6 months ago I started casually dating this guy who I had known for a while. It started because he pursued and chased me and I started to like him back. He told me how he thought of me 24...

My boyfriend, I and his so called lesbian friend who's slept with him, fancies him and doesn't like me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

19 April 2018 (F) - Been seeing a guy for 7months now. Started off casually, us both not looking for a relationship, but it naturally progressed into one that we both are enjoying. We have had to redefine and communicate a lot about what our needs and expectations are ...

I have an ex that wont let go.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

18 April 2018 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend split up 4, maybe even closer to 5 years ago. In the end, she got quite nasty and I ended up blocking her on Facebook. Fast forward a few years and I get a message request from a previously deactivated account of hers,...

I'm back with my ex but sometimes he is not enthusiastic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - My ex and I were together for 2.5 years. I ended the relationship about a year ago due to his immature habits (gambling and binge drinking on weekends). After the break up we tried working on things but ultimately not enough time had passed and ...

Is it possible that his feelings toward her changed to a sister-like situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

17 April 2018 (F) - I am now in the 2nd year of long-distance-relationship with my 60-year-old partner with the same experience of having relationship or marriage in the past before we met each other in office. Certainly we adore each other and always try our best to ...

How do I handle my girlfriends past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

16 April 2018 (M) - I would like to start out by saying that I consider myself very open minded. I am divorced from a 6 year marriage and am on good terms with. I have even made good friends with my ex-wife’s boyfriend and we hang out occasionally. My current ...

I'm still sexually attached to the guy that my ex pretended to be. How can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - Thank you for reading this. About 10 years ago, I broke up with this guy after a few months when I realized he was abusive. I felt betrayed because we had supposedly been childhood friends. I broke all ties with him. Like most abusers, at first he ...

Should I sue my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

15 April 2018 (M) - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago, It was not a nice relationship at all . We have been together for 2 years, he cheated on me twice, he stole money from me, he used my bank card several times without telling me, and the list goes on and on, ...

We're having sex, he has another girl and I have feelings and a third girl is spreading nasty rumours.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

13 April 2018 (F) - This is a little bit long winded so i do apologise in advance. I went to the pub one with my friend and she introduced me to one of her guy friends and kept teasing us both that we are both single. That night i plucked up the courage to messa...

My husband is in touch with his ex girlfriend again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

11 April 2018 (F) - Hi.... Big issue here is trust... I recently saw ( I was standing behind him while he was at the computer) that my husband has his old girlfriend on his bill payer.. we’ve only been married 2 years and we are not on each other’s accounts... He says ...

My boyfriend is going to be sleeping at his ex's house this weekend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

10 April 2018 (F) - My older bf (46), told me(29) that this upcoming weekend we were not going to see each other because he was going to go back to the city where he lived before with his ex wife, and that he was going to do some things, like look for a ...

My ex has said he would never marry me, but I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

8 April 2018 (F) - Does my ex still have feelings for me or not?. I dated him for a year and a half from 2015 until 2017. Then I left him for another man that we both know, who I was in a relationship with for nearly a year ( he broke up with me three months ago). My ...

I am worried my boyfriend will assume the worst ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - So I had posted about this issue previously, and everything has been fine since. However, I noticed a light pink bruise on my chest (above my breasts not on them) and now my thoughts are racing, I feel sick. The anxiety this brings is overwhelming. ...

How do I move forward with my new boyfriend after cheating on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - Hi, I previously asked a question relating to the situation I found myself in. To be honest I had some rather rude and insensitive answers from one particular user but each to their own opinion. Basically I was in an violent abusive relation...

He lied about an ex. Should I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

3 April 2018 (F) - Last night I caught my bf of only 3 weeks in a lie. We started dating in January but only became an official couple in March. When I first started dating him, I asked him when did his last relationship end. He told me he had a gf in the summer of ...

How to get over your first love? It’s been 10 years...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

3 April 2018 (F) - I fell in love for the first time of my life when I was 23. This was 11 years ago and it was of course magical and exhilarating. A transitional time, where texting still consisted of pressing a button 3 times to get your letter. I loved him so much. ...