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I am in love with two guys but don't know how to resolve the situation

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Question - (3 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well my dilemma is, I think I'm in love with two people. I was going out with a a guy for two years and we were going through a really rough patch, but i was still really in love with him, but he dumped me.

I was so hurt I didn't talk to him again, even though I really wanted to, because I was crazy about him. Then time passed and I started to hang out with this guy who I got really close to, and we were best friends, except he wanted to be more, but I was still hung up over my ex, and not ready to move on.

I caved and got in touch with my ex, with some persuading he met up with me and we hit it off again. We got back together and I was so happy.

My bestfriend guy stopped all contact with me and got a gf. Now all I do is think of him and truly think I have fallen in love with him. I do think I loved him all along but didn't want to move on.

I now live away with my boyfriend and have too many commitments to leave for this guy.. What should I do?

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A female reader, mizz.butterflies United States +, writes (3 January 2011):

mizz.butterflies agony auntummmm.....meet with ur bestfriend guy and see what's up. Go for a simple coffee.he might be in love with his new girlfriend.also,are u sure ur in love with ur boyfriend?is he in love with u?

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