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writes:So theres this guy I was in love with for like 3 years we were never together but now we kind of went our seperate ways and i have a bf now. The problem is is im still not exactly over him and i still thinkg about him a lotttt. well, my best friend is friends with him and he happens to like her a lot...it sucks. whenever im with her shes always texting him and they hang out and stuff... she says she doesnt like him like that at all and that their just friends and i do believe her. but on new years i was with her and i saw that he texted her "happy new year, i wish it was you." that really hurt my feelings like a lot and i talked to her about it and she acted like it was nothing. but i mean why would she make him feel cofortable enough to say that to her? do u get what i mean? do you think somethings going on with them? I want to believe her and not care but its to the point where im thinking of not even being friends with her like at all... i talked to her about it already like how it hurts my feelings but she thinks thats really unfair that she cant be friends with him anymore... am I just being selfish or is that a truely messed up thing of her to do? should i stop being friends with her? i mean i loose sleep over this...
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reader, rinnnboo +, writes (5 January 2011):
rinnnboo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo my bf thinks thats fucked up of her he hates her now too
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (4 January 2011):
 great, so you've lost a friend, she's lost a friend, the object of your desire still isn't with you and after you falling out with your friend coz you couldn't accept their relationship, now never will be with you. i hope you have a convincing answer to tell your boyfriend when he asks why you don't see your best friend anymore or else you're gonna lose him too
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reader, rinnnboo +, writes (4 January 2011):
rinnnboo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u guys! well i found last night their together im no longer friends with that bitch! ahhhh it hurts so bad!!!!! ):
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reader, spnwinchester  +, writes (4 January 2011):
It seems a tiny bit selfish of you to want her to stop being friends with him. I mean HE doesn't seem to like you that way at all, and you have a boyfriend, and what happens between those two is between them, so just try to get over him and their friendship.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (4 January 2011):
hi
yeah it sounds like you are being selfish. you and this guy never even got together, did you try to get with him back then? maybe this is why its been hard to get over him because its that 'if' that never happened. there may be something going on more than friendship between those two and your friend doesn't want you to know coz you would be hurt or they really may just be friends. you need to realise that you loved him for three years and nothing happened between you, so its not very likely that anything ever will, and move on, with your current boyfriend. you know maybe if this other guy would have been with you he may not have made you as happy as you thought he would have, sometimes fantasy is better than reality! i think you could end up regretting it if you throw away a best friend because of this
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