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writes:Help! Im in a relationship with a man who has been engaged and he has a child. The engagement ended about a year ago (which is a short amount of time to start dating again) but when we met it was perfect.He opened up to me and i've never let him down. I've never met anyone that really understood me and his daughter and mother loves me. We had a good time together but now things have suddenly changed. He doesn't call or look for me but when we see eachother he doesn't allow me to pass him straight. He keeps telling me he has alot to explain but the day never seems to come. Im confused. I know that he's having problems with the mother of his child but he hides our relationship even tho she knows or has a hint of what is going on. From the start i've felt like something was still going on with them but i've tried not to stress myself over it. My question is... If she means nothing to him, whats with all the secrets? Why cant he just come out and show the world how much he cares? ...if he even cares at all
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 hi
how long have you been with him? how long has he been split from his ex? he cant be keeping you that much of a secret if his daughter and his mum have met you. are you sure that he is as serious about your relationship as you are? if he says he is then you have a right i think to ask him why he seems secretive in not letting his ex know. he may just not want to rub her nose in the fact that he has moved on, if so i think that is fair enough, it shows he is a caring person plus needs to remain on good terms with her for the sake of their child
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