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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

My sister and I just don't get along!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ugh. So much stuff has been going on. And I don't think I can handle it anymore. All that therapy I was going to; stopped. And stuff just didn't get better. Even with the Therapy. So Jan 20th, I graduated. Very happy about that. And My Birthday ...

What is a minor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, i would like to know what you people out there consider a minor? i.e a lot of the questions that are asked on here are not answered but people because they say you are a minor. but what age is really conssidered a minor? i know 15...

What can I say to him via text to turn him on???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend just started sending dirty text messages and I don't know what to say to turn him on and I don't want to sound stupid. So Can you please help? ...

Does he or does he not... like me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i need some guy help! it's not so much a question, more just me asking for a general opinion on whether or not he might like me or if he's just nice? so i really like a guy at work. he's a bit older than me, but i'm sure it wouldn't be too ...

Does the army change people???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i have been in this relationship for over 2 years and my boyfriend is now in the army, we both talked about it and thought it would be a good thing to do. now that he is in the military, i feel neglected and he is not the same person he was before ...

WHY does he want anal???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, recently by BF has taken to asking me to have anal sex, but i really dont know what to do here? i dont really want to, but at the same time i am a bit curious. i want to know does it really hurt? does it feel better for him? is ...

My best friend stole the girl I love!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. ...

I'm getting tired of him always being busy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm getting tired of him always being busy. So I am 17 and me and my bf have been going out for a year tomorrow actually.... The thing is his number 1 passion is snowmobiles. So of course every chance he gets he is off snowmobiling. From fixing his ...

Aargh Boyfriend... or best friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - During the summer, my best friend made up a serious lie about my boyfriends best friend, so i stopped talking to her. a few months on and i'd started talking to her again. my boyfriend, of 1 year, felt like i was betraying him so gave me the choice ...

Tense kissing problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - There’s this guy I really like but when it comes to kissing him I just tense up. What should I do? I’m at a loss; I want to be intimate with him but cant. I’ve liked him for two years now; even though for part of that he was in a relationship I ...

Can you explain this lingo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Simple question (I think). Basically I'm used to the lingo, e.g. third-base, and I know what it all means except for one thing which really confuses me - 'pull' I've been in loads of parties and events and seen people 'pulling.' One of my friend...

Any ideas on how I could start speaking to him again?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I went out with this guy for a short while in the summer but then we broke up and said that we'll still be friends and stuff but now we're not even on speaking terms which pains me greatly seeing as we got really close i would just like some advice ...

Both virgins, on birth control pills.... do I REALLY need a condom?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but we are planning on having sex in a couple of weeks. She's started taking birth control pills so there is no chance of her getting pregnant. We havent had sex so STI's are also out of the equation so do i ...

Should I tell her I don't want to be her friend anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I know this Question seems dumb, but it makes me really curious, and and sometimes makes me feel be traded . This is this new kid in my pod, and he came from Toronto. and and Every girl in my pod is in love with him. I think he is attr...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend after we had anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had anal sex for the first time and the next day she was complaining that her butt-hole hurt and it bled when she tried going to the restroom. is this serious should I be worried?? Please help!!!! (Note this was our first time)...

Why doesn't my girlfriend make more time for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I really am not just another love stricken teenager but my problem will make it seem that way. Ok so my girlfriend of almost two years and I have been constantly arguing over the last 3 months. I really do love this girl and I try my hardest to do ...

Why is his love making quiet? is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Is it normal for a guy not to moan or make any sound at all when making love? It makes me think he is not enjoying it..or is it that guys moan when they cum only?i sound silly but i want to know!! thank you !!!!!!...

I feel like this girl is replacing me more and more each day....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for 6 months, I met through my friend and its been on and off as he moved over to Australia in November, but yet we are continuing to try stay together for him coming back this November. We argue quite a lot now ...

He's 22 but asked if I had a boyfriend, what is he looking for from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - ok so this guy just added me on facebook but hes like 22, and im 16 so its kind of an age gap, and we've talked and stuff , he seems nice but then he asked me if i had a bf.. i mean does it mean hes looking for anything? im not sure whether i should ...

I cant stand my dad's girlfriend! How do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i would like to say thank you in advance and im sorry that this is so long. my parents split up when i was in fourth grade and my dad got together with this woman and i can not stand her. like at first she put on an act and everything so me being a ...

What are the signs of a student-teacher affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I want to know what is the sign of an teacher-student affair. If a student get poor result, and she wrote a sorry letter at the back of her exercise worksheet to that teacher saying that she should work harder later, then that teacher didn't g...

I heard fried chicken gives a guy an erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Okay, my BF and I get really close when we hug, but he never gets a bonner, ever! I've always heard that even fried chicken gives a guy a bonner, why not me?...

What do I do when I see him again at school? How do I come across as perfectly fine in front of him?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I started talking to this guy about two months ago, that i saw in school and i thought was really cute. He added me on facebook one day, and then i IMed him on there, and we started talking and he asked for my number. We ended up texting everyday ...

I don't like the idea of being cheap to someone I love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have a friend who has been saying he loves me although i love him i refused to give him a reply unless i was sure i loved him. When i told him later that i loved him, he told me that he already has a girlfriend, that i was too late. He started ...

How do I get her to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - there is this girl i like and shes way out of my league, and i know one person she likes but i dont want to be like him. at the same time im afraid to ask her or her friend what i should do to get her to like me. i know the basics exercise etc but i ...

How do I ask out this girl without being rejected?

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30 January 2011 (M) - There's this girl I know who is a friend of mine who I've been wanting to ask out. She is very pretty very smart and very funny. All of my past gfs asked me out so i want to know the best way to ask her without getting rejected. I know there is no ...

I am scared I lost my chance with him, and scared to lose my best friend too! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I need advice about this guy i still really really like.We have gone out off and on 3 or 4 times. He has dated my friend first but i ask permission to date him him she said yes, so we went out and now he has went out with 5 of my most best friends ...

Maybe I've been too clingy but I really like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Basically I've liked this guy for nearly a year now. We've had a bit of flirting going on every now and then before, and he's admitted hes liked me before, then months later i admiteed that i liked him really badly, and he was shocked and didnt know ...

Should I just give it a go with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - dear agony aunts, theres this guy that really really likes me and has said stuff like hes never felt this way bout anyone before and hes exactly my type of guy and is looking for a lasting relationship and i am warming to him but i just aint getting ...

My boyfriend calls my best friend names when I am around. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and my best mate(boy) are also best mates. However, my best mate feels like my boyfriend doesn't like him because of the way he acts in front of me because my boy friend calls him names. What should I do?? ...

16, in love, and ready to have a baby. Need advice, opinions, and feedback!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 years old and want a baby. Ok so I'm 16, turn 17 in 10 months, I finish high school in just under 5 months and have already achieved good grades so far. My boyfriend is the exact same except he is 2 months older then me. We have been tog...

Is there anyway I can ease the pain in my throat after I give my boyfriend oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been teaching me gradually how to deep throat. I really enjoy pleasuring him in that way, and I'm getting really good at pulling him in deep. The only problem? It hurts! The next day, my throat is very sore and inflamed. Unplea...

Does ejaculation volume influence the effectiveness of the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Maybe I'm thinking too much into this, but does ejaculation volume influence the effectiveness of the pill at all? My girlfriend and I did it the day after her period ended, and it was a longer, more intense session that had an abnormally large...

I like him, but I'm worried that he will never open up to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - This isn't a huge issue yet, but I am trying to decide if I should stick with this guy or just forget about him. So we've been hanging out for the last month, at least twice a week, and lunch a few times too. But sometimes when we talk I will bri...

Most of the girls in my year smoke and I want to try. Do boys find girls who smoke attractive.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Ok, I'm 14 and most of the girls in my year have smoked. I really want to take a few drags and see what it's like, but one of my friends is TOO overly protective and will tell my guidance teacher! Also, do boys think it's cool if their girl smokes? ...

My ex wants to try again, but take things slowly this time. Should I give a shot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I split with my ex around 7 months ago, as i didn't feel the same... like I didn't feel the love I did before. I've recently started talking to him again and he said he wants us to try again, but take it slowly. What do you think? Should I try ...

Does he miss me too? And should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Should I tell him how I feel? Ok, my ex decided that he wanted to be just friends. I agreed because something didn't feel right. I still love him, but decided that we both needed some space. It's been almost 2 weeks, and I had not heard from him...

I have days where I like both guys and girls. Then I have days where I like just girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Im only 17 and i dont know if im Straight, Bi or Gay. this can sound weird but i enjoy watching Gay porn, but i wouldnt want to do it in real life, i would only do it if something changes my mind, for years now I've loved this girl and i still li...

At what point in a relationship can one justify using the word 'love'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Hello, a very misleadingly simple question... at what point in a relationship can one justify using 'love' as opposed to the elements of infatuation to describe the mutual feelings between the two involved? As a mere teen-ager, I find the often-used ...

Guys, can you tell if this boy digs me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - hey! i really need help mainly from guys but anyone can answer, i need to know if this guy likes me or not. Signs he does: i find him staring at me a lot, usually when i catch him he looks away makes a face or smiles. whenever i come into a conv...

This girl likes me and my friend, but ended up dating my friend!

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30 January 2011 (M) - Well i am really confused on what to do because i really really like this girl and she likes me too the same way she likes her boyfriend who is my friend, they went out and i am really jelous and i still like her so much and i dont know what to do?? ...

He gave me a hug and a kiss, but I think he was wanting more!

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30 January 2011 (F) - heeeey Right i have known this lad for about 7 months now were like friends but you can see their is something more. Anyway he is 19 and i am 16 bit of an age gap but i think thats alright! I always see him out in town (clubs)as i go often and so ...

I want to please my boyfriend, but I don't like the taste of penis and cum! Any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we have a sexually active relationship. It's all good apart from one bit... he really likes head, but the problem is I really don't like the taste of penis and cum, and he keeps making R...

Not 100% happy in 2 year long distance relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Okay, well I am 17 (yeah kind of young, I know right...) and I am in a long-distance relationship. He lives in a place all the way across my country. I really want to be with him but it's hard. We have been together for 2 years. We are both too...

How do I know if these bisexual feelings are real or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So, this is one of those clichéd questions again. Sorry. I'm bisexual, or I think I am. I know that I have an attraction to some girls and I think I have fallen in love with one before. My question though is, how can I be sure? It's quite hard ...

Receiving a blowjob from my girlfriend does not feel good to me! Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been going out for three months. We have a history together and I love her with all of my heart. There's just one problem. To me, it doesn't feel good when she gives me head. She's gotten me off from her hand every ...

Do I go for the one who gives me butterflies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - i like a boy in my year and i like a boy below a year at my school aswell but the boy in my year seems realy shy when it comes to girls and i like that i dont like boys who are vein. the boy below me is the same but when i walk past him i always ...

Is it important that I move on first after our breakup?

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30 January 2011 (F) - So, I'm in a bit of a situation right now, my ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago, and he's been really flirty with one girl lately.. She's known for being a complete slut, so I wouldn't be surprised if something happened. I talked to him about it, ...

I don't know what to say and maybe I'm not good enough for him?

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30 January 2011 (F) - i really liked this boy weve all ways texted and talked and ive told him i liked him but he didnt feel the same way but then a few months later i kindaa felt he did and he would all ways talk to me and now hes just ignoring me and i dont know the ...

The eternal triangle strikes again. How can I solve it amicably guys?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 17 and for the past year I've become best friends with a group of guys.(I have girlfriends too but I prefer hanging with guys tbh). I love them to pieces. For the past month or so me and one of the guys, Z, have developed feel...