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writes:hey! i really need help mainly from guys but anyone can answer, i need to know if this guy likes me or not. Signs he does: i find him staring at me a lot, usually when i catch him he looks away makes a face or smiles. whenever i come into a conversation he greets me by name and acts happy that i joined in. whenever i'm not feeling good (headache, tired, upset) he seems concerned and says sorry but doesn't ask too many questions. he say i smell good a lot!! but that's pretty much the only compliment he gives me. he hugs me over small things, or nothing at all, and hugs me when i leave or arrive (but we both hug everyone so i don't think it means much.) whenever another guy says or does something mean to me he'll hit them (say, with a rolled up piece or paper.) or say something that gets them to stop. he's very gentlemanly around me i.e getting out of a chair so i can sit down. whenever we're not with other people he talks more is kind of nervous and makes me laugh. whenever someone calls my name (to get my attention) he is usually like the second person to call me. his sister and sometimes he himself tell me they talk about me sometimes at home and with other friends. and he always smells good- i don't think that has anything to do with it.Signs he doesn't: He never texts me first (the only time he did was to wish me a Merry Christmas) and rarely responds when i text him. he rarely starts the conversation in public, in fact he ignores me. whenever i invite him somewhere or plan to go somewhere (like a movie) he can never come (maybe he's just busy, who knows) he doesn't seem to pay much attention to me in a group setting, and actually talks to other girls more (but still doesn't exclude me, he's just nice like that) and doesn't even look at me when he's with his guy friends, or friends i don't know. he'll be nice to me one week, then totally ignore me another. every time time i tell him i love him in a friendly way, he get quiet and acts nervous and uncomfortable. and i don't even know if he has a gf or not. plus, i only see him once a week so there's not much time to really know whats going on. so, i really really need your help, i'm totally confused thanks sooooooooo much!!-L
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): This guy likes you so much it's laughable. The signs are obvious from a guys point of view the signs you think he might not like u r ones that show he does like you. I'm 14 that's the same age range as you. Guys always act nervous around a girl when they are alone especially if he likes you. As for how he acts around friends that is common too. Guys are completely unlike girls in this way if a girl tells her friends she likes a guy then they try to hook her up guys will just tease each other so he doesn't want to show his feelings for the girl. I don't think he'll make the first move so if you aren't too shy you should ask him out. People ask these type Of questions all the time but don't follow the advice. I want to help out so listen up. HE LIKES YOU! All of the signs are there especially how he acts noble and sticks up for you guys do that when they try to impress you. Ask him out soon because he definitely wants to be with you.
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reader, morningstar9691 +, writes (31 January 2011):
It sounds to me like he is trying to figure out his feelings for you, but I'm not entirely sure. He could just be extra friendly, but I don't think so. Guys are funny like that, you never know if they like you or not...in your case I think he is not sure himself. Sorry if this wasn't much help. Good luck!!
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reader, Birdman21 +, writes (31 January 2011):
Sounds to me like either A, he doesn't and he is just an EXCEPTIONALLY nice kid, or B, he does and he's just too shy. At your age I refused to go on a date without bro support, I was just kinda whimpy like that. It wasn't until around 16ish that I really felt comfortable alone with a girl. Give him time and work around his fears. Finding out about his relationship status might be a good idea though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): Ok, don't hold me to this, but I believe he likes you, but is shy or knows his friends think of you as a nerd or geek (I know because I'm in the same situation) and is just afraid to lose his friends. Again, I don't know which one it is because I don't know you, but I hope this helps.
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