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Archived questions from: 30 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Am I addicted to sex? What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I feel like I need to have sex or i'm going to go crazy. with each passing day i get more urges (especially at school with the hot teachers, etc.) and it's very distracting. i'll be trying to do calculus work and suddenly envision a man's arm, whi...

I'm so scared for my friend, what can I do to help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I'm so scared for my friend. She's not the kind to open up or anything and when she does it's just cause she really needs to get something off her chest. She recently told me she started smoking and drinking more and now she's talking to me about ...

Do you think I've upset or offended her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Hey there, last week i asked my best friend out (we're both girls and bi). She's known how i feel about her for about 6 months now, and she said she loved me back, but when i asked her out, she said no. this sort of crushed me and the last week ive ...

Just come off the pill......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Just come off the pill, when I was on it I was not really interested in sex. Now that I'm off I want it more than usual! ;) Just wondered if anyone else has experienced this and if its a normal thing to have happened when coming off the pill....

Why do I always see my ex in my dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I always see my ex in my dreams and I do not know why. Apparently he was holding me tight close to him and then we started kissing. I really want to stop dreaming about him since it is always delaying me from moving on completely with my life.. do ...

Should I go the whole way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Me and my current bf have been going out now for about six months and are thinking about going the whole way, and having sex. He asked me to do it about two months in and I said no but now it's been playing on my mind and I feel like I really am not ...

Is it wrong to have a leather glove fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Recently whilst watching videos on the internet, i have found myself looking at leather glove fetish videos. Is it wrong to have a glove fetish? Is there something wrong with?...

What can I do to get my girlfriend to snog me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm 16 and me and my girlfriend have never snogged. We are both nervous and shy so... what do i do to get her to kiss/snog me?...

I'm fat with no boobs, will anyone ever love me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - hi. i am just curious about something.. im 17 years old, im quite short fo rmy age, about 5'3. im a size 14-16 in clothes, but i only come in at a B in bra size. is this weird? when i look in the mirror i get so depressed. i have the smallest boobs ...

I'm worried my lack of knowledge in the bedroom will end the relationship!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - help! ok iv been going out with this guy for a while and i really like him, we'v only ever kissed but i know things will soon be going further. he has slept with 2 other girls (both in long term relationships he isnt a get around) but i havent done ...

I get jealous when he meets new friends... am I in love with my gay friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a girl, 18 years old, I have a best friend and he is a gay.. we are so close to each other as if we treated each other as more than friends and as time goes by I felt something strange, maybe I'm already falling in love with him, he always ...

How can I get her to take the lead more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 years old and have been going out with a girl for 2 months which is lovely and i love spending time with her and i think shes great. BUT all we have ever done is kiss on the lips. She's a bit shy and a never takes the lead on anythiing. For ...

Help! How can I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - My fiance and I are extremely happy together and his family is really happy for us, and I get along great with them all except for his father. I am a full time college student and my fiance and I live an hour and a half apart. I see him only on ...

How can I show her I won't hurt her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - What does it mean when you went out with a girl for 2 years and broke up for 3 months and she has a new boyfriend and you try and talk to her but she acts like she doesnt wanna have anything to do with you and tells everyone that she doesnt care ...

How can I get her to come back to me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Me and my ex went out for 2 years, we broke up about 3 months ago and in that 2 years i hurt her bad but i told her it would never happen again and it didnt she hurt me also. about a month and a half ago she got another boyfriend i wanna get back ...

How do I convey to her I love her personality without being totally shot down in flames?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Recently, I came out of what I call a "loner phase" where I think I don't need affection, and don't look for it. Ironically enough, I fell in love immediatley after "waking up" so to speak, with a girl I had a crush on in middle school when I saw ...

He is always bringing up his former crush in front of me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - so... im 15. My boyfriend and I love each other a lot. but my problem is he had a huge crush on this girl before me - for about a year he was obsessed with her - she liked him too, but wasnt ready to date. so, my boyfriend claims hes over her, and ...

Apparently he went off me but it seems he is still leading me on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - i liked this guy and he liked me back but neither of us knew so we didnt make a move. he apparently went off me and i still like him, i'm not sure if he likes me still or not because he is being a bit weird at the moment. he puts his arm around me ...

Was I being led on or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I had met a girl at a club, she is rather crazy and wild and anyway, i started to talk to her heaps over the next weeks, and we were getting along real well. Eventually we decided to meet up in a club and it was good. She was rather smashed as she ...

I think I love her, but she just wants to be friends. Should I keep being her friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Please Help!!! Ok so i really like this girl like alot i think i love her. I have told her that i really like her. She had also told me that she really likes me,but the other day out of nowhere she changed her mind and told me that she only sees us ...

My 17 year old daughter hasn't had her period. Any advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I have a 17 year old daughter that has not started her period. I have taken her to several doctors. Does anyone have advice or information on this subject?...

I'm at a loss on how to approach her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm drawn to this girl, who I have dated in the past but it wasn't a real relationship it was more a junior high I have a girlfriend/boyfriend now relationship that was two years ago. And the other day I looked at her and my heart started racing I ...

Why is my vagina swollen shut?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - okay a few months ago i started having problems with my vag it was swollen shut an there was redness an some irritation so i went to the doctor an i was treated for a yeast infection after i was okay test results came out fine sometime after this ...

If he held my hand does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - hello everyone. So i am a freshman and i am in a play currently, and if anyone here has ever been involved in theatre, they know how close you get to EVERYONE! So there is this senior who is so nice and sweet. BUT he has a girlfriend currently. But ...

No guy will like me, they all just want sex. I just want to crawl into a black hole and not come out. Can someone help me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my well now ex have been dating for about a year and a half. I was 16 when I met him and we started dating when I turned 17. I'm 18 now and he's 21. We recently broke up for I don't even remember, but he "joked" that he wants to get ...

How can I tell my friend I'm bi-sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I'm Bisexual, but haven't come out to anyone yet apart from my friend who is now my girlfriend, we got together like 3 days ago after months and months of holding back and im soooooo happy i finally have her. One thing is this weekend we decid...

Should I go through with it or keep him as a friend and nothing more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - i was a teachers assistant my whole senior year for this art teacher and he was young looking i always tought he was cute since my sophmore year so i became his t.a because he insisted me to be his t.a. so we would spend allot of time together ...

Am I the right size?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - What is the right girth for a 16 year old?...