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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

In love with a meanie?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I went to homecoming last night, and it was amazing. We were dancing like crazy and the whole place was crowded. A guy in my geometry and bio class is when grade above me, and he's always been mean to me...but he's stopped since 4 weeks ago...He's ...

If I have my girlfriend finger me am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - If I have my girlfriend finger me am I still a virgin?...

Why would he turn against me? And what does "one-nill" mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I went out with this boy in April, i finished him after a week because he was really clingy. Then a few months later i got feelings for him again, my friend told him, that night on msn he asked me if i liked him ; i said yeah, because he said he ...

Does this mean it's a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - This started about a month ago. (It's a long story) I just see him in my art lecture I started my second year at college. There is a new lad that I like. Every girl in the college like him. They are all clingy to him and always around him. I am ...

Does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Last night, I went to my school's football game because the guy that I like--who's on the team--invited me to come and watch; when the game was over he met me over by the gate where everyone comes in and asked did I enjoy it amongst other things, ...

Does he have a crush on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) - well there this boy that i am really close too and we tell each other pretty much everything and he always wants to know who i have a crush on. he basically stalks me if i don't tell him and asks me over and over again. We always exchange so i tell ...

I don't know how to snog, so I keep making up excuses for not snogging!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - im 13 and yes i dont know how to snog, but theres this boy in my class who likes me and i like him an he always goes in to snog me but i have to make up excuses for not snogging him and its getting frustrating. Any advice? x...

I don't want his ex wife to be involved with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I am in love with this guy who also says that he loves me and I know he does through his actions and all however, he was married about 2 years ago and has a baby from his ex wife. The thing is that she is always around; calling him, coming to his ...

Should I feel guilty about watching porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - I watch a lot of porn and can't help myself everytime I try to stop. Should I feel guilty about this?...

She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...

How do I ask my sis for help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) - hi, my one year younger sister has boyfriend and she is not virgin...she enjoys sex with him. i have a girl friend now but I m virgin and now i want to learn how to carry out sex in order to get max. pleasure... I know that my sister can teach...

Why am I so depressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - Hey fellow aunts. Im going through rough times in my life..well my whole life. And it's really depressing and i dont know what to do. Nothing seems to ever come easy for me. Im always the one that always has to have the bad out of everything. I ...

Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) - im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...

I'm still in love with my ex and I don't know if I should try and move on or wait around for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - some of you lot have probably read my posts from before lol. but basically i have dumped my boyfriend now, and i know how much i love my ex. and now i have been talkin to one of his best mates for a while now, and she is quite new to the town, so...

I love him but whats going on in his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have dated a boy for nearly 2 years now.I truley thought that i loved him.But it seems all the wrong things i have done by him in the time that we have been dateing has taken its toll.I dont no what to think Due to the fact that he has started ...

Is it normal for a guy to like you but not text or compliment you anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - My friend has been showing signs that he likes me. He stares at me when I’m across the room, talks to me, remembers what I say. On the bus if I don’t say anything because I don’t want to talk he will just look at me then look away then look at me ...

He always flirts with girls, but I thought he found me special. He is so confusing, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Okay so there's been this guy I have liked for a few months now. We are extremely close, and always open up to each other. He has a reputation as a ladie's man, he always flirts with girls and then leads them on. All my friends thought he liked me, ...

B/f says he called ex for homework, that's all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I gave my ex boyfriend one chance after he cheated on me with one of my friends. When he cheated,we had been together for a year and three months . He lasted a whole year trying to get back with me; I was really hard to qet back and i thouqht it ...

Girlfriend wants to immediately end sex after an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - my gf wants to immediatley end sex after she orgasms. what should i do? ...

LDR: feeling neglected!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Lately, I feel my boyfriend doesn't make an effort to talk to me. LDR. Even though he calls, but sometimes I feel he does it 'cause he thinks he has to since I complained about it before. Just recently, he slept over his friends house out of the ...

Boy equals Stupid.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Theres this guy that I really like. He likes me back. But he wants to ask me out, but this guy in our class who is retarted and hated by everyone made fun of him for liking me. Im not ugly at all, normal weight, popular... (if that matters?) He a...

How do I tell my mother about my heavy metal, rocker boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Okay. Big issue here. In April of 2009, i was working in this teen job called clean and green. And i met this wonderful guy named _____. We got to go out to The Grand Canyon from working there. During that trip we got together. And its been 6months ...

Is he only with me because he likes my stuff?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I just got in a new relationship and my boyfriend doesnt act like a boyfriend at all. Whenever he comes to my house hes always on my laptop which i understand since he doesnt have a computer at his house, and he likes to check his email and so ...

Did she just kiss me to help me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - (I'm 14, female, and bi. My friend is 13, female, and she has once questioned her orientation.) Around 2:30 in the morning my friend and I were talking about how I've never kissed anyone in a game or anything. So she said "that's going to change, ...

Losing interest in an LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm in a LDR right now and i have been for about 3 months now. I love her, a lot, but i only get to see her about 2 times a month. I feel like im losing interest but i think it's just a feeling of not being able to be with her. I d...

How do I obtain a dildo?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I want a dildo, I am 17 and i want a dildo very badly. Every website i go to says 18.. and every store i have been to asks for I.D.. There is no way i am asking my mum to buy me one and i have tried other homemade objects and it's not doi...

Do you think the situation is unsolvable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have big crush on somebody, who is almost impossible to be or just to start conversation with. One year ago we ended on a sofa kissing in the house of his neightboor. But it was extreme situation, that can never happen again (because of a bit ...

Could this really work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - I recently discovered I'm bisexual and now I've got a crush. There's this guy at my school who is good looking and really friendly towards me, he's one of my favourite people in the world. I always felt some form of love for him, even before I ...

Girls: should I be worried about my small size?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - I myself have a smallish penis that's around 3 inches long and 4 inches around... Now I haven't had sex before, but I've read that the size makes a big difference to the girl. Should I be worried about my small size?...

Why would my ex tell me she is not happy with her new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - my ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend but i think she is not happy in the new relationship. because when i was talking to her on msn she said her boyfriend called me a rude name. so i knew her boyfriend doesnt like me for some reason and my ex said ...

I won't let anyone get close to me any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - for some reason i find my self incapable of letting anybody become to close to me now. after me and my ex broke up i just dont trust people getting that close to me. it seems girl after girl that i become involved with i mess it up intentionally or ...