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Sex: Help and advice

First Time....Viginal Problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I had sex for the first time on a Sunday evening. the sex was rough and painful(used protection by the way) since i was with a more experienced person. As what most female would expected, i bled. But now for two days (Tuesday) i continue to bled ...

I miss them sexy moments with her, I'm desparate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - hi im mitesh n im 19years old i had sex withmy gf many times....but now i had a break off...im missing those sexy moments of my life...n problem is its making me more desperate...as any women passes by i jus check her out 4rm top 2 bottom n it feels ...

Is G-spot stimulation the only way to get a real orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I've always wondered when girls say they've never orgasmed through masturbation or sex. Does it mean they haven't orgasmed through clitoral stimulation? Or G-spot? I'm just confused 'cause I can easily orgasm through clitoral stimulation by m...

I'm married but I can't stop thinking about my ex! How can I get him out of my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Okay well here's my dilemma. I can't get an old lover out of my head. It's been years since we've seen eachother and the majority of our relationship was sexual, but I always find myself thinking back and feeling what I felt years ago. I co...

How can I make our night alone romantic?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Me and My boyfriend have the house to ourselves for a night. I want to make to romantic but im not really sure what I could do to 'set the mood'. any ideas? any music suggestions would be great to x...

Since moving in with him it feels like sex is a chore! How can I spice things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year and im beggining to think that were just having sex because its routine now. It seems to be when we go to bed and because we sleep naked we just have sex. Its lost its excitment of ...

How do I tell her I think about her when I masterbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - ok well i don't know how to say this but my gf just resently asked if i masterbated and i said yes and i have been wanting to tell her that when i masterbat i think of her but idk how to tell her i mean i want to tell her bcuz we tell each other ...

What the most embarrasing makeout or intercourse session you have ever had?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Have you ever done something embarrasing during a makeout session or during intercourse (sex)? ok this is suppose to be fun so share with other people the most embarrasing or funny thing that happened ill go first and feel free to add your stories. ...

I'm so scared of giving a blow job!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I'm 20 and I've NEVER given a blow job! I don'tknow how to, I was always scared of doign it wrong. All my life I've been scared of almost EVERYTHING. I was 17 when I had my FIRST boyfriend after bing scared of relationships. And 19 when I FIRST ha...

4 Problems! What my sexuality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I'm so confused and emotional. I have a lot of compliacted situations and I really need help and someone to turn to. I've known I was different since I was 13. I was friends with a boy lets call him Tom I was kinda attracted to him, and sa...

When I came down to it, he couldn't get it in. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Background info im 16 and still a virgin ive been with my bf for quite a while and we both felt that it was right. but when it came to it. it wouldnt fit we used lube aswell but still no change, i tried to relax as best as i could but it didnt wo...

Sneaky Sex: How to avoid awkward situations with the kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Those Viagra ads are totally misleading! Any idiot can get "in the mood" when two adults are alone in a room (Or in a bathtub!) But with fussy infants, noisy 4 year olds, or prying 13 year olds around, how on earth can ANYONE have the freedom to ...

My wife has lost all sex drive. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I am a happily married husband of 24 years with 2 gorgeous children and a beautiful wife. We have been married for 8 years, I am nearly 32, she is 31. I used to vists my family weekly since my job is away from family. After ourlast child ws born, my ...

How to tell her I want to have intercourse?

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30 June 2009 (M) - How can I convince my spouse to have intercourse for the first time? Whether she will accept or show any temporar because I am getting married next month. I was too shy a guy, please advise how to bring this up with her?...

How can I make my vagina less tight for my unusually large boyfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Err, how do I put this? Long story short: my boyfriend has a long, thick penis and I have an unusually small, tight vagina. Sex doesn't last very long because these two factors combined mean everything is finished before it even starts. Our sex life ...

Although my wife and I are seperating, we still have sex. Is this wrong and will it hurt me in the long run?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I'm separating with my wife after 18 years together. We have two children, mortgage, but she cheated on me. I forgave her, but she continued with other men, and did some truly slutty things while drunk so it's over, and it's actually her who's ...

We still can't trust each other and at 22 he's already gone off sex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - This is quite a long one and I apologise but I feel like giving the history is really important in this case. I've been with Roger* for nearly four years. We met online and were friends for three months before we became a couple, I guess we were ...

Help! Sex for the first time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14, we are going to have sex for the first time soon, but am really nervous and scared. will it hurt? how does the pain feel like? will i bleed? will i faint? can i walk? thank you to the person who answers ! really ne...

I only orgasm during sex while on my period

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have sex quite often. It feels good, but I never orgasm and I feel discomfort. But when we have sex when I'm on my period. It feels much better, I don't feel no pain and I orgasm. Why is this?...

I've forgotten what dating was like before my ex, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Ok, first of all I'm not a virgin, and I have two kids. I recently ended the relationship with their father as it was not going well... at all. What I'm asking may sound stupid. I've completely forgotten what life and dating was like before him (as ...

Do certain foods affect how a guy tastes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - my friend told me that eating pineapple makes a guys cum taste good, but idk is that true?? is it true that drinking dairy products makes you have bad tasting cum??... is it really needed for a girl to have big boobs to be hot? MOD NOTE: These q...

Is there something you can eat to make your sperm taste sweet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I hope this isn't a dumb question -,- lol But I was reading a question on here and I was wondering if you could eat something to make your sperm sweet??? okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rare...

I have blisters on my vagina and it makes it too sore for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (?) - A few weeks ago i had some blisters and soreness on my vaginal lips so i went to the doctor and i got tested for herpes the test was negative, i have had this before a couple years ago and test results were negative then, so i know it's not herpes. ...

Any advice on sex and what to get him for our anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I Have been dating for 8 months now. I lost my virginity to him in March, and he's fingered me, we've done doggy style, regular sex(With condom and birth control pills, of course) but there's one problem. I've never given him or any ...

How can I get my girlfriend to go down on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - okay so I love eating out my girlfriend, I do it on almost a daily basis BUT she rarely ever goes down on me. i'd say i get oral once every 3-5 months. i've tried doing the whole "I go down on you, you go down on me" thing and it never works, ive ...

Any tips on how to look sexy for him on webcam?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I live 4 hours apart during the summer and we have recently started chatting with the webcam. Sometime we will talk dirty and he will masturbate and I think it is hot. he asked me if I wanted to masturbate in front for him to see ...

He kept groping me while I tried to sleep! Why didn't I stop him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hi Well I'm in two minds about this event and I hope someone can help me... I had a party the other night and was putting friends to bed in spare rooms at the end of the night when a guy friend of mine insisted he sleep on the floor in my room....

Does the amount of partners or sex change the vagina's appearance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I just have a question I have been curious about. I have been with one girl who has been with 5 other partners. I was wondering does a number of partners or amount of sex a girl has change the appearance of the vagina? Example... if you were to ...

Our sex life is nonexistent.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I've been going out with a girl for about five years now. Things are pretty good but our sex life is nonexistent. This year we've only been intimate 3 times and last year it about 10 times. I've tried to talk to her about this but I cant seem to ...

Can a guy tell if a girl is a virgin during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, Okay i was just wondering when having sex can guys tell if the girl is a virgin? Would they feel any different? Thanks :)...

Are we two freaks or do other couples act this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We do have kids. My wife has always been more on the conservative side. I have always hoped that she would try to open up more sexually with me. Try new things etc. but was afraid to ask. One night...

Do girls ejaculate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Do girls ejaculate? and how, does ejaculation fluid "squirt" ?...

My feelings don't match my thoughts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I'm in a year long relationship with a wonderful girl and we're about to move in together. She is gorgeous, brilliant, very loving and completely loyal; she is helpful and sweet to me. We like a lot of the same things. She is very sensual and ...

Please help...guy problem, he's not sure he's big enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Ok so there's this guy that I really like and we haven't had sex yet...He has mentioned to me that he is afraid of himself not bein big enough...Which is important to me to be sadisfied in all ways...What should I do?......

What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - This question is mainly for women. Please be as honest as you can. Does a man's penis size really matter to you? What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man and is their penis size on of those things? So basically, is bigger really better? ...

Looking for tips on how to deep throat a man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - i am looking for information on blow jobs and how to deep thoat a man. it can be in form of books are an advise...

During sex, he says the names of my friends who he'd like to have watch us! Normal or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - hi , i 've been married for 6 months, last night my husband told me about his dream , he was making sex with me and one of my friend.. and everytime we do love he keeps repeating my friends names that he would like if they will watch us making ...

I'm shy but really turned on by them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Im a straight woman (I'm pretty sure, anyways). I have these two co-workers who openly declare themselves as bisexual. They are both into the punk/goth thing. I think they think I'm a really square Hmong girl but I've had a lot of sexual fantasies ...

He bought a flavoured condom, hoping I'd have sex with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wants to do sex with me but i am not ready. yesterday at school he asked me my favourite flavour and at night he came to my house and told he wanted to have sex with me.he had also brought my favourite flavour's condom.but i sent him ...

Hurting blow-job. tips please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend gave me first blow-job recently. It was not so nice. I was getting kinda pain. I don't know whether it was her teeth causing that problem. Can anyone gimme some tips to get a nice blow-job ? ...

How can I get my wife to have more sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - how can i get my wife to have more sex with me? I do stuff around the house i make dinner for her. I even take her out. I have createdn problems in my balls wich i was worried about and went do the doc. He sent me for xrays and they found 4 cysts in ...

Is sex all that really matters in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - is sex everything is relationship? i knew this man, we didn't go out but we were close. until he wanted to have sex. and i refused. i don't want to do it before i got married. call me old fashion but that's my belief. so he suddenly went away. and ...

Turned on by a video of women..what does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - yeaterday my boyfriend and i were getting into it when he suggested we had sex while watching porn...i figured why not try something new so he opens up a video of a man and a woman doing it but for some reson i cant explain i wasnt turned on ...

Drunked one night stand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I had a so called "One Night Stand" a week ago, we did not have sex, but it got really intimate. He was really drunk and I had drank three beers which was my limit. I was worried about this guy because he did not have a ride home so I gave him a ...

Is it normal for a guy to orgasm but not ejaculate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I see each other about 1-2 times a week. We've been dating since October 2008 and it's been nothing but wonderful. Well, we haven't had sex since early May because I haven't been "in the mood" since I started taking birth control ...

Does he really want a threesome, or is it just a fantasy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I am confused. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We had the "fantasy" discussion. He said he wants a threesome. I asked why and he said its a fantasy. I said well I wouldn't want you to have sex with the other woman. His response ...

Why does this sound happen? It's so embarrassing!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having sex, and we've recently tried doggy style and the most EMBARRASSING thing happened.. I had a vaginal fart?!?! It was so embarrassing, I didn't know what to do! I just laughed and he laughed too but he continued. It ...

Is it possible for a man to totally lose his sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - is it posible for a man to toally lose sexdrive? Never think about it,or wish for it? Or is it just connected to a bad realtionship? ...

I feel embarrased that I have been used again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Im 15 years old.. And i have been sexually active since i was 12 yes i know very young well i hanged around wrong crowd and got myself in lots of trouble... Well all of my sex partners played me as in had sex with me than walked away.. well just ...

I think it's rational for my wife to take extra effort to brighten up the sex life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 31 years old husband. Being married for the last 2 years and before that we were going out for 3 years. We have a good loving relationship. Hardly fight and financially also sound with less external stresses to deal. Intentio...