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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He wants me to ride him but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid My boyfriend and i been having sex and he is complaining that we dont do a new position and that he wants me to ride him only one problem i dont know how to ride lol what should i do ???...

How long does it take for birth control to be effective?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - how long does it take for birth control to be effective?...

Still scared that I could be pregnant...how to cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Okay . Me and my boyfriend had sex earlier for the first time. I haven't had sex since the end of may. We used a condom but a little after he said he had to ask me a question. And he asked me when my next period is and I really don't know. It shoul...

Guys, what do you really think about breast implants?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hey guys, is this true? http://www.implantforum.com/men.html I always thought the MAJORITY of guys hated fake breasts. Is this true? I'm small and natural, and well, I've toyed with the idea of getting implants because frankly, I don't feel se...

I had sex saturday night and the condom split.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I had sex saturday night and the condom split. I took the morning after pill on the sunday morning then sunday night had sex and the condom split again! what should i do ?...

Am I being selfish shen I make love to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I don't like being on top. I feel vulnerable and I'm very self concious. But my boyfriend always asks me to. I feel bad if I don't do it. Am I being selfish?...

I have bizarre sexual fantasies that disgust me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I have bizarre sexual fantasies that disgust me. I am very attracted to ideas of being harshly dominated by men or animals. I imagine working as a prostitute or being raped among other things. These ideas horrify me. I even allowed myself to ...

I'm scared of shouting out my demands in bed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - This may seem stupid, but I'm afraid of shouting out any demands in bed. Sometimes I feel like saying this or that, but I hold back cause I'm afraid he'll look at me like I'm stupid and suddenly stop. I do this in all situations to begin with ...

All about orgasms...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - What are the different orgasms for a girl? when I use a dildo I cum white stuff from my vagina. when I use a vibrator on my clit it just pulsates and nothing else except moaning and panting and when I manually play with my clit I squirt out of my...

Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting or is it just something few women are born with?...

Horrified to wake up to his best mate giving me oral

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - A few days ago, I woke up to my boyfriend giving me oral underneath the bed sheets (which we ocasionally do) but was horrified to find out after it was over that it was his best mate!! Since his best mate has told me I have to keep giving him what ...

Do women find penises attractive?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Do women find penises attractive? As a guy I know I'd get easily turned on by thinking of vaginas and boobs, but do women think the same way about a man's penis?...

Cervical orgasms, are they possible?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - I'm in an explorative state of a love affair, and I'm learning and improving my love making skills. The question I have is about cervical stimulation, or deep pelvic orgasm. How is this achieved? I'm already interested and practicing Karezza and ...

How can I "talk dirty" to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - How can I talk dirty to my boyfriend to turn him on more? Just to make our sex life better? ...

Why do guys think boobs are sexy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Why do guys think that boobs are so sexy? I've always wondered that. And stop with the whole mates-that-support-children-and-produce-better-milk crap. Do you honestly think that when a guy looks at a girl with big boobs he is thinking "Wow I bet ...

Did I do something wrong during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex, I'll get on top. But a few times when I was on top, out of nowhere, he said "owe". I immediately got off. Then he asks what is wrong and I don't answer him because I'm confused. Then he says that he thinks ...

What is the best form of contraceptive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - What is the best form of contraceptive?...

I'm 15 and still a virgin. My boyfriend is 17 and not a virgin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Okay this is really embarassing. I'm 15 and still a virgin. My boyfriend is 17 and not a virgin. I'm really nervous about having sex with him because I want him to enjoy himself. I want him to love me even more than he does now, and he really REALLY ...

Married and in love with two people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I know that this is ulimately my choice but feedback is always nice and its so hard to share the total truth with the people you know. I have been married for 12 years and overall its been great. If I look back when we first met I fell in love wit...

Is he going to be disgusted when he sees me naked?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and I'm ready to have sex with him. I'm a virgin and he's not. He loves me so much and i love him back, but I'm not comfortable with my body AT ALL. I find it ugly, but he says that I'm beautiful every ...

am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - I am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.I just can't like a girl without a nice big ass no matter how i try i just cannot get aroused. Sometimes, I can like a girl just because of her ass and it has nothing to do wit her or how she looks.Does ...

I want us to touch each other in a more intimate way. I want him, and I know he wants me too. How can I give him a "sign"? Am I rushing things ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hello everyone! I'm a girl, almost 20 and I'm really happy, i'm dating an amazing guy who really makes me laugh and I feel great when I'm around him. We started as friends, we already liked each other but decided to see if what we felt for each...

This is really embarrassing.. but my vagina smells gross!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - this is really embarrassing.. but my vagina smells gross! I produce a lot of discharge, clear and white. its gross. it smells nasty. I probably produce more than the normal amount. what can I use to clean it? I wash it everyday. should I douche? I'm ...

Is it normal to bleed between periods whilst on the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Ive been on the pill for a week now, I've finished my period and i keep bleeding, its dark and blotchy and has happened about three times now, is this normal? ...

How do I find that one-night-stand again ? I want to get to know him better.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a question on how far it is ok to go to find someone you met only once before but really would like to know better? The story is this: I met a guy in a club a few weeks ago and we spend the night together. I wasn’t thinking I wo...

I don't feel ready for sex, but still enjoy my boyfriend touching me. What does this mean, am I into it or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - ok, this is kinda awkward. my boyfriend and i have only been kissing for while and thats all im into. whenever i think of doing more i feel awkward and im just not into that stuff yet. but we were kissing and he put his hand under my shirt and ...

My first sexual experience turned out to be a big mistake and now I feel guilt and self-disgust, what can I do to stop feeling like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Im 19 and i first had sex when i was 18. I regret it so much. My bf at the time guilted me into it and pressured me. I wish I was stronger. Everyday I feel disgusted by myself because of what I did. I regret it because he turned out to not be wh...

I suspect my boyfriend could be bisexual, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I thought my boyfriend was gay when i first met him,he asked me out and we have had sex,but he wont come inside me,he sometimes has problems keeping an errection,could he be gay?...

How come men seem to have more sexual urge than women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Do they males have more sexual urge then females.generally males show much interest on ladies and sex. similar desire is not seen in females, Is it gender variation or indidual variation...

Nothing turns me on apart from my female foot fetish.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - hey, I sent a message earlier this month about my female foot fetish, I began to lose it but I am still worried because I can't get turned on by anything, any help or advice thanks for reading. later...

I had sex with my boyfriend and didn't feel anything.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Hey guys, Okay, so I'm going to get right to the point. I'm 14, and me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex with each other for 2 months. I know for a fact that I am not pregnant, and up until 3 days ago, the sex was normal but on ...