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writes: Hey guys, is this true?http://www.implantforum.com/men.htmlI always thought the MAJORITY of guys hated fake breasts. Is this true? I'm small and natural, and well, I've toyed with the idea of getting implants because frankly, I don't feel sexy in my skin, with all this "bigger is better" thing, it's all affected my self esteem and self image.
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reader, phaon77  +, writes (16 March 2010):
I think women spend too much time reading cosmo and watching all that reality crap on tv. Implants look gross and they feel gross, and to top it off it makes the girl look loose and slutty because they are sooo Fake! if you get fake boobs then you will attract men who think your easy and then they dump you because your so easy you can't be a good wife because you need everyone to see how big your stupid boobs are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009):
Before you read this, consider who's going to be more honest: (1) a man like me who wants the world to have as many beautiful women in it as possible, or (2) people who make big money when women have themselves sliced open and stuffed with implants (and the women who have made that mistake and want to convince themselves it was a good thing to do)?
Also consider this: people don't go around telling others if they find implants gross -- because so many have made this irreversible decision, people don't want to insult a friend or colleague, or their sister, or wife, etc.
I do NOT believe those statistics AT ALL, and I wish women wouldn't, either! I think my opinion matters, because physical attractiveness is very important to me -- I have spent more than 25 years staying fit and healthy, because I appreciate that women find me a good-looking man.
Women still hit on me. Airline stewardesses chat me up. In bars, nice-looking drunk women follow me to the bathroom. I am very lucky, and my opinion counts.
So, those "personal perspectives from the men" customer letters make snide hints that "lack of experience" is why a man will dislike implants -- it's a LIE. Whoever made those up is not speaking for me, or the majority of men I know.
I broke up with a beautiful woman after I discovered she had implants -- and hers were ONE OF VERY FEW that looked nice and "natural" FROM THE OUTSIDE. They felt fake, and she had incision marks. It was like the bride of Frankenstein. I made up an excuse to break up. It was just gross. I felt very bad for her.
And get a load of this text from the customer feedback: "I can tell that they are implants, but this doesn't bother me in the least. I am not squeamish about scars and do not get turned off by them, regardless of where they are."
Blah-blah-blah. They choose that mantra-like phrasing because MOST of the time, the OPPOSITE is true.
And I DO like when women make themselves look nice -- but carving yourself up and putting devices in your body is fine if you've been mauled by pit bulls or mutilated in a motorcycle accident. But it DOESN'T MAKE YOU PRETTY OR SEXY.
It is not only that I find the idea of breast implants off-putting, either: I simply know very few men who prefer -- or even tolerate -- implants. I know a very FEW men who SAY they like them -- whose wives have gotten implants.
If you want to be gorgeous, do the following, and you cannot fail. Don't get fat. Don't starve yourself into a skeleton, either. Get exercise, and don't make up excuses not to. Choose a hairstyle that matches your face, not the one on your role model. Stay clean and smell nice.
I will choose -- and have chosen many times -- a tiny-breasted woman with all of the above any day over women with implants, or chubby women who thinks the world is in their hands because she's got DDs. I've had many relationships with beautiful big-breasted women as well, but they were BORN with those breasts, and the breasts FIT the rest of their bodies.
And another thing, I wish women would stop carving up their noses!!!
There... I finally got all that "off my chest," so to speak...!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Well, as you can tell, the site that the info was from is terribly biased - it was a site promoting surgery.fake books are horrific. If i'm at at stripclub and a dancer has a facebook, i kinda zone out and think happy thoughts and refuse to get a lapdance.Serious, small and cute trump large fake anytime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): I'm a 32A and definately look it. My stomach is barely skinnier than my chest and my nipples are two different colours. I think this is totally awesome; I've never heard of anyone else having one brown nipple and one pink. I like my body because I have a fit, sleek, look... dispite being 5'2" with really short legs. There are lots of beautiful things about every person's body (big or small! I'm not saying my body is the only beautiful one out there!) and it's time that someone stand up to the media and let them know. In my opinion, it's totally weird to cut holes in one's chest and stuff plastic inside. This is why I think that breast implants are a silly and cowardly idea.
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reader, InterCntlCHmp  +, writes (27 October 2008):
They're awesome. If you want them get them done. Get a good doctor and spend extra to get exactly what you want. They're awesome though. Guys love them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Guys say it is a turn off but they lie! :)I have fake breasts and so does another girl I work with and the guys in the office seem to love them. My bf can't keep his hands off them either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Just adding my two-penn'orth - keep it real, baby. Nothing is more of a total turn-off than fake tits, I really mean that. Tits are one of Gods greatest inventions and are not to be messed with in this fashion - please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Breast implants CAN look good.
But people can, and often do, over-do them.
Pert, supple breasts are far mor sexually arousing then the humorously massive balloons of porn stars.
Like so many ahve said before now... it's not what you have, it's how you work what you have that counts.
Look at Keira Knightley... that woman has no tits and yet not a man alive would pass up the chance to bed her.
The simple truth is, no matter a man's preferences, he will literally have sex sex with ANY woman if she is working, fake breasts or no fake breasts.
And in the end, if you aren't enough WITHOUT implants, you'll NEVER be enough with them.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Keep 'em real, girl. Fake breasts are an instant bone-killer, regardless of size. Natural is always, always, always better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): ITs stupid
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Natural is soooo much better than implants, just stay the way you are, guys like girls who are real, not barbies. Trust me
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Er...Mr.Anon is that the current thesis paper you are working on?Girl if you can't love yourself the way you are,no one else will.How many things can be corrected??It starts out with breasts,nose and the list goes on.In the end you might look like a gross alien from Star Trek!!.Look into the mirror.you are beautiful with all your flaws.The prettiest girl is the one who believes in herself that she is pretty.Breast size has nothing to do with a nice guy loving you.Do you want a superficial guy to be attracted to you?I hope not.Take care!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Firstly that's a website about breast implants, those usually will attract men who love implants and thus the reason why there are so many implant lovers voting on it.
Big boobs are nice, but when we know they're fake it's a bit of a turn off. And a lot of the times we can tell its fake just by looking. If you have big boobs, awesome, but if it's fake I'd prefer the smaller natural looking one.
Big boobs are not the focus though of when we find a women attractive in general, it's actually the shape and proportions of a woman's body that we look at. We like it curvy and shapely.
It's all relative really, if you have small boobs but if it compliments your shape then it's better than looking at a woman with big boobs but it doesn't suit them at all.
In general a great shape is pretty much kept up by just keeping healthy and looking after your body.
Boobs do admittedly turn our heads, we do like 'em nice, but again it's just seen mainly as a complimentary to the general shape as a whole. If an overweight woman walks by with huge tits, I'm not gonna bother staring. If the right shape walks by I would wanna stare whether or not her assets are huge or not. The shape makes a woman's assets mesmerising.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Well, I will start this way. Bigger isn't synonymous with better. I don't think I can make a list of features to check, but, if I were to compare breasts, bigger wouldn't be all I would look at.
As to getting implants, some men like them, some don't. The survey you saw puts the majority of men as liking them. Maybe that's true; I wouldn't know. I can only speak for myself, and I already said bigger isn't the same as better.
Implants don't necessarily mean F cups. You can have implants and still have a small size. I guess that what can be a turn off, depending on the man, is that implants move in a way that's unnatural. Sometimes that looks great, because the breast looks great, and sometimes it looks odd.
You know, I've met women who were very ugly (frankly) but got many men because they felt sexy and they let it show. If you want to the operation because YOU want to change them, do. It's your body. It's generally a bad idea to do something just because someone else might like it.
Don't let that affect your self-esteem. Once I met a guy who said he preferred girls with smaller breasts. "They seem apples to me", he said. Apparently he was Adam's next of kin :-).
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