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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He always told me he never wanted to try anal sex but now he's desperate to do it! What has changed him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - a little confused. need some help. me and my husband have been together for three years. he has always said he would never try anal sex and has never even thought about wanting to, but all of the sudden he wanted to do it. He didnt come out and ask ...

Why do I regret NOT sleeping with this guy after knowing him and his friends for 10 seconds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Well I know this might seem daft but I went out on Sunday with a friend, call her *T* and we went out as we do, met up with some other people, walked into town, hung out for a bit and stuff, had a good night, and then we walked back up to T's and I ...

I am in a gay relationship but I cum after a couple of minutes, how can I last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I am gay and I have had a boyfriend for about 3 years now. We have sex quite a lot, but at the moment I have been cumming really quickly. I mean without being so graphic, I tend to do it to him, but I have been cumming really quickly, I mean like ...

Why am I cumming so quickly???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Ok I need an honest answer from the ladies and guys if you have been in my situation.. Basically I'm cumming pretty fast lately, like 2-3 minutes, and it's becoming a habit. Which is weird because I used to be able to last longer. But now I cant. ...

How can I stop my wife from being so controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I am married since 1976, my age was 16 and my wife 9 months older than me. We have matured daughters 28 and 24 aging one is married second is likely to be married in a few months and one son 21. My wife does not allow me to talk my parents, ...

I got drunk and ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend, I don't recall this, have I been taken advantage of?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, a week ago i got very drunk and ended up going back to stay at his. The next morning my boyfriend told me we had had sex. i do not remember this at all and i felt he had took advantage of me as ...

How does the contraceptive pill work exactly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Hii just a quick one really. Not really sure if this has been answered before so any help would be greatly appreciated. Basically, the contraceptive pill..i know that there are about 20 different kinds, but exactly how do they work? I mean of cours...

I need some advice, I'm 15 and might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Ok im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant... i havent gottin my period for this month and lately me and my bf have been having unprotected sex =/ i know i cant tell my family or friend because they'll all be very upset...and im not ready to...

How different does orgasm feel in comparison to ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has endured a back muscle injury and for the last while has not been able to ejaculate during sex. He said that he is able to orgasm. I am wondering if this is true because according to online information, orgasms without ejaculation ...

I like the idea of a threesome but I'm worried I would be made to feel like the "second wheel"...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this dude for about 7 months and he and I are both great at exploring new things sexually. Lately, he has been asking me to have a threesome which i am okay with. I love trying new things and I want to have the threesome too....

I don't know if it's right for me to always ask my boyfriend for sex, as I am always in the mood, could he lose interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have a sexual problem: i dont know if its right to always ask my boyfriend to have sex with me and i want him to do it everyday how can i stop this before he loses intrest in me?...

What if he caught an STD from his previos partners? How should I express my worry without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Hello I need an advice, I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is 29, we have been together for 8 months, we started to have sex after the third month ( yes I know, I made to poor guy waited too much) but we always have sex using condom, he is my second ...

We broke up because he had some really strange fetishes, are there others out there who enjoy these?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - My exboyfriend of 1 yr and I just broke up. He was into some really strange fetishes and over time I agreed to participate in them...things like spanking him, using a strap on with him, peeing in his mouth while he performed oral sex on me, and then ...

We have a sexual history and now I want to be just friends. Is that possible or will he always see me as a sex object?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I've decided that I just want to be friends with someone where the only other 2 times we've met we've hooked up. I don't know why I made it so easy for this person, I'm usually not that type of girl. We didn't actually have sex, just performed oral ...

Will the first time hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex for the first time, since im a virgin im scared to know whether i will bleed or it will hurt as ive heard from my friends, im totally ready for sex just have my worries that it will hurt, does your ...

I love my husband but I'm not "in love" with him. How can I get the passion back in time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - hi i wonder if anyone can give me some advice, ive been with my fiance for 4 years and we have a beautiful baby boy together, i was happy until about a year ago when i started feeling differently about him, he is the most kind caring man in the ...

Should I stay over my boyfriend's house while his parents are away? I'm worried he might pressure me to have sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's family is going out of town for a month. And my boyfreind wants me to sleep over atleast once. We both have kissed each other but didnt have sex yet. I am a virgin and plan to be so till I get married. He has promised that if I come ...

I'm sexually frustrated, how can I help my boyfriend to get in the mood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Im always in the mood to have sex with my boyfriend, he is never in the mood. What can I do? It only happens 1 time a week. I am sexually frustrated. I need him to want me more! When I talk to him about it he gets angry, so now I just satisfy mys...

I don't know if I am pregnant or not, should I take a test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity last month, on Sept. 13th, but a week before that I had my period. So I should be expecting it soon, but for some reason it hasn't come yet, and now i am worried that I might be pregnant. However, i just began university, and i ...

We're each others 'first love' and things are great, but he sometimes wonders if we should see what dating others is like - is he right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5894 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. We are both 20 years old, and really do feel comfortable with each other. We moved in with each other just last month, and everything is going great. We are both each others first relation...

Is economic security more important than being treated 'right'? Should I go back to the ex or stay with the BF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5895 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I wonder if it is worth it to dump my bf of 8 months to go back to my ex, who threw me out of his house, after leaving together for 2 years and being engaged for 4, and after all that he tells me he asked me to marry him because his aunt recommend ...

His fantasies about other girls bug me, but also kind of turm me on too....is this abnormal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 25 years old. Have been with my bf for over 5 years and we live together. We have a good sex lfe and he is so much into sex. He has strong sexual feelings about other girls too tho. He loves looking at photos of girls in the internet, not ...

I maturbate frequently and am worried because recently no sperm comes out when I orgasm. Has anyone else had this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Hey. I masturbate around 2 times a day. I used to be able to ejaculate, but recently my orgasms have been with no sperm. I think I have retrograde ejaculation since after I usualy have to pee when I didn't before and it's cloudy after masturbati...