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I'm scared of shouting out my demands in bed.

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Question - (26 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

This may seem stupid, but I'm afraid of shouting out any demands in bed. Sometimes I feel like saying this or that, but I hold back cause I'm afraid he'll look at me like I'm stupid and suddenly stop. I do this in all situations to begin with (normal life situations)but is this real bad of me to do, or not do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

I would not suggest you shout it out,but I do think it is good if you tell your partner what you like and what you don't like. Open conversation is always good. Your partner cannot read your mind.

It reminds me of the qoute by Samuel Johnson:

" The applause of a single human being is of great consequence".

Talk to your partner, his applause might surprise you!

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A male reader, Cowboy United Kingdom +, writes (26 October 2008):

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It depends on him really, but I (and I suspect most men) would probably be delighted if you did this.

Most guys think it's very sexy when girls talk dirty, and it will also take the guesswork out of it for him.

He'll feel good because he'll know he's satisfying you, and you'll feel good because you'll be getting exactly what you want!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008):

maybe not shout! but you should definitely let your wishes known, not only will you have a better time, but your partner will know you are having a good time and then so will he! it is hot when a girl says what she wants in bed, and nothing is worse than a girl that jus lies there quietly and doesnt give anything away!

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