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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm fifteen and I plan on having sex with my friend on Friday, for the first time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm fifteen and I plan on having sex with my friend on Friday, for the first time. Will a condom be enough to prevent pregnancy? What else can I do besides take birth control? and what is the morning after pill?...

How many women out there enjoy sex as much as their mates do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Last week my girlfriend was told by her doctor that she needed to wait at least a week before having sex again. This was the first time since we started dating that we've gone more than a three days without it. The funny thing is, I think she had ...

Should I just shut up and put up, mind my own business or should I go out on my own and discover what pleasures me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I've been married for 15 years, child-free by choice and am in great shape for my age. My husband and I get along pretty well, share same interests, have good discussions and laugh a lot. From the outside, it looks like we have the perfect ...

Do women have less sexual desire than men on an average???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Do women have less sexual desire than men on an average. Women I feel are more romantically and emotionally oriented while men are into doing the thing. One prof of it is the women rarely initiate sex. Since man has such a high libido that ...

I'm not pressurised into sex but I'm worried he will cheat on me if I'm not good in bed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and we are both over 16 + virgins. we done nearly everything, like hand jobs and blowjobs ect, but im scared to have sex.. i feel im ready to and im not being pressurised into it, but im ...

Has anyone had their 1st orgasm whilst having sex outside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Has anyone had their 1st orgasm whilst having sex outside? Me and my boyfriend have regular intercourse but last weekend we found a quiet spot and had it outside for the 1st time. We were both nearly fully clothed so found the sensations "down ...

What to do when you're on the verge of a breakdown?? I feel my husband is not interested in intimacy with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I don't really know where to begin other than the fact that I am seeking advice,...help. I am married to man who is 23 years older than me, we have 1 child together. The reason I am writing is to get an outside look and maybe some good advice as to ...

What can I say to make her feel comfortable enough to send me some sexy pictures?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, we don't live together and we are like two peas in a pod. We are greatly in love and have everything in common. Now the problem... Recently I was forced to go on a business trip in ...

He's a great guy and very very good to me.. but I need someone who wants to be close to me physically. I feel so unsatisfied. Should I give up on this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am in a relationship with a guy who's got a pantyhose (tights) fetish. I'm totally fine with it and wear tights regularly to turn him on. In fact it really turns me on knowing what gets him going. I've got my own fetishy aspects that I am open ...

I so want to have sex with my boyfriend but am frightened in case I've caught anything from previous boyfriends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Recently I went through a real slutty stage and had 4 one night stands for the fun of it. The trouble was each of these times I had unprotected sex. My dilemma is that I want to have sex with my now boyfriend but im putting it off (even sex with a c...

I performed oral sex on a man early Saturday evening and now have a real sore throat, could I have caught an STD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I briefly performed oral sex on a man early Saturday evening. He didn't cum and there was no precum. Early the next morning I woke up with a sore throat and it has been a bit sore ever since, well not in the day but each night. Could I have caught ...

How can I regain my confidence and get out there to meet people again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I'm a 22 year-old guy who previously enjoyed going out and found the ability to have sexual relationships a relatively easy one. Unfortunately, I hit a bad patch regarding that matter about two years ago, one that I have not been able to recover ...

She only ever gives me oral, and has stopped penetrative sex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have an issue with my girl, as the title says she will give me oral all the time but we will not have sex. She will let me give her oral as well but nothing else. She just says she is not in the mood, and has been like this for over 8 month...

If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia, what could happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia what could happen?...

Should I just give up and accept the fact that him 'going down' on me just isn't going to happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now, but I have known him since we were in Junior High. We were high school sweethearts that just barely realized it. We started having sex about 1 week into the relationship but only because we ...

My best friend's involved with the married women, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (?) - My best friend involved emotionaly with the married women, who is working in his own office. they were having a gud relationship from last 4 years and he was protecting her from every bad thing just like her husband do. from last eight months they...

What he said... it made me feel a bit like a blow up doll. Do you think I am overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (?) - Me and my boyfriend were fooling around yesterday. We've been together for 2 years and the sex is great. Contrary to what I first thought, as time has passed, he seems to be more and more turned on by me, which I think is fantastic. We were talkin...

I'm confused about my sexuality - do these feelings make me gay, bi or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm a 15 years old girl who's a little scared and confused about her sexuality! I'm attracted to guys by their appearance and personality. But, I'm attracted to girls sexually, appearance, and personality! Does this make me gay/bi or what?!...

Why didn't I feel myself cum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - is it bad that as a male i didnt feel myself cum.? i felt it a little bit, but the sensation isnt like it usually is? why couldnt i feel it?...

Is it wrong to lose your virginity to someone you're not going out with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I wonder - im still a virgin and this one guy wants to have sex with me but we are not going out , do you think its wrong to lose your virginity to someone you don't go out with ? and yeah im jst 16 years old ...

His desire for a threesome has made me really insecure sexually, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months. We had an unusual start and were practically living together right after we started dating. it has been fine and we have not had any big problems but recently he has been saying he wants to ...

Will finally having intercourse effect our married life negatively?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 31 and will get married to my longtime boyfriend in a couple of months. Despite the fact that we have been together for so many years, we have never had intercourse. We both haven't slept with anyone else before aswell. Reason was we both ...

Is he being sincere or does he think he can get "benefits" again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, There is this guy I lost my virginity to. he's 23 and we were friends with benefits for months but i felt like I was being used so I said I couldnt do it anymore. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and intoduced me to his friends as his ...