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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Too much sex, I'm tired & my fiance doesn't understand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

31 December 2008 (?) - Me and my fiancé had sex three times a day for 6 months straight (with no breaks)!! Eventually she wore me out and I needed a little break from it. A week later I haven’t even touched her in that time. When we going to bed my fiancé went bathroom ...

Always horny but then feel guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - hi., ok well im always horny. i masterbate but its never enuf. touching myself anywhere else dusnt help, and it really bugs me. also, it helps when i look at porn but i always feel guilty after doing that. plz help me, thanks....

How to get my husband to loosen up and enjoy sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I will soon be getting married to a Ugandan man, and our relationship is wonderful. I sometimes worry that he will be very withheld during sex and will be very conservative. He was raised in Uganda, basically as one of those kids you'd hear about...

I love my g/f but I'm having phone sex! Do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - hi, i'm 17 years old and so is my girlfriend. i love her but i kept talking to other girls and saying they're my wife and girlfriend and another i was having phone sex with and my door wasn't closed and i was over the covers. and my mom walked in on ...

Problems with intimacy... has anyone else dealt with this and what did they do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hello All! Well i'm just looking for advice, but please don't suggest that I end it as that is not an option that I want. Well I have been with my boyfried for just over a year and it hasnt always been plain sailing, when we first m...

Any way to prevent discharge during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My question is a bit of an embarassing one but its something I don't really have the guts to discuss with anyone I know! lol Well..I dont really get much vaginal discharge in day-to-day life but when it comes to having sex, my boyfriends dick ...

He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...

I'm not sure if he likes me beyond sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my next door neighbour for nearly six months now. He stays at mine most nights, and we sometimes have sex however her never kisses me and he really isn't intimate at all outside of the bedroom. Its almost like he doesn't find me ...

My guy had incident 3 years ago now worried he's infertile but won't go to the doc!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I have a 24 year old Boyfriend who is forever worried that he is infertile because he was assaulted and hit in the testicles 3 years back. He somehow believes his balls got "crushed" during the whole thing, Apparently one guy took his balls in his ...

I don't know about oral sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Ok, I have been with this guy for a few months and he wants to go a bit further with oral stuff etc. the thing is I have never let a guy go down on me before and I don't know what to expect and what do you do once he has finished....

We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...

Is my penis size big enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I'm not quite a virgin and my penis is about 8 or 9 inches long and about 2 or 3 in girth. I'm just wondering if my penis size is big enough. the girl that I've last slept with was a virgin and when we first had intercourse it was a littlel painful ...

My boyfriend calls me derogatory names during sex. What does this mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am dating a wonderful, sweet, caring, thoughtful man and we are planning a future together. We have only been together for a few months. He absolutely adores me and I do him as well. We have an incredible sex life but one thing confuses me... ...

Bleeding after sex/masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi all! Okay so I know I ask this question almost every time it happens, maybe its because I still question exactly why it happens. Anyways it seems everytime I masturbate by stimulating my clit or have sex, after I orgasm, wait a few hours until I ...

How normal is it for a girl to want sex often?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I'd like to know how normal it is for a girl to want sex often. i usually want sex at the very least once a week. but i like to have it once a day or sometimes more. sometimes i feel like i am not normal because of that. so i guess my questio...

Considering going to a swingers club for my husband... is it a stupid idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Confused, been with my boyfriend for 3yrs off and on and he's been tryin to get me to meet a girl to have a 3 sum.he said it's his fantasy and that I should try it cuz maybe I will like it. I've never experienced it before and from me hearing it so ...

How old should I be before I have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - how old do yall think i should be before sex?...

I feel dirty and bad about myself just thinking about sex and oral - is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I feel really dirty and bad about myself at the thought of giving a guy head or even having sex. Is this normal and what can I do to stop feeling this way?......

When giving a hand job - do you like to tell the recipient what you are doing - describing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - When giving a hand job - do you like to tell the recipient what you are doing - describing?...

Dry humping..now pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i were dry humpping please i need a reply.am i pregnant but my period is delayed by 4 days im scared please help some one...

He just wants to be friends so why does he still want sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - ive been with boyfriend for 10 yrs have a child which shes 6 now and he recently broke up because ive made mistake and he can forgive but not forget hes made alot more mistakes than i have anyway he says he doesnt want anymore relationships just ...

Is it possible to stay in my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm sorry if this is really long but really need some advice. I have been with my husband for many years. He is very much a father figure and I do love him so much in the same kind of way I love my cat - with massive affection. The problem is t...

Could an STD affect my sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - dear cupid, i'm a 24 year old man and have always had a high sex drive but in recent months it has taking a bad turn for the worse, my penis hurts sometimes while having sex and my urine stings to sometimes and i think i might have an ...

14 and worried about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...

How do I save our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do from this point. My husband doesn't have any affection toward me, and he won't touch me. He has ED. For non- medical reason. I don't know what is the reason for his ED. He says he loves me. Should I believe him? He says he ...

3X a week handjob ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I am 20 years old guy i doing handjob three times in a week its good for health not ? ...

Obsessed with wife's ex-lover/experience

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - This sounds ridiculous but I need some perspective. I've been married 10 years. Good enough marriage. My wife isn't great in bed, and isn't enthusiastic about love-making, even though I sometimes make her howl with delight. However, I've been ...

He is not interested in me anymore, why is this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has no interest in sex anymore. It's been within the past year. He always had trouble keeping his hands off me, and now theres is nothing. We have sex about once every 1-2 months. I remember me telling him to cool it down cause i was ...

I feel like I'm not much of a woman....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am 42 yrs old and with a man that i dont seem to be able to turn on unless he is drinking .Then it is not good because as soon as he cums its all over the foreplay is gone and the holding is gone and I am very depressed because of the cituation ...

The more we have sex the tighter it gets...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I very much enjoy sex. But it becomes a problem that the more we have sex, the tighter, yes tighter my pussy gets. I don't know what to do, but it almost gets painful, which isnt a really big problem, considering he loves it ...

Don't want mom to catch me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - What do you think your mother would say if she found out you were masturbating? I don't want to tell her, and I know I won't, but in the chance that she catches me, how would I explain it to her. I am extremely embarrassed of it, and I do want to ...

Should I keep trying or should I just end this marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Should I keep trying to turn on my husband, or just give up, and end this marriage? He really don't care about fixing this, so why should I? You can't have a marriage without intimacy,or can you? What do you think how common is this, and what ...

He lied about wearing a condom and now wants me to forgive him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Ok this guy and I have been seeing each other for the past three months. We talk everday.. all day off and on. Things were really going good so I thought. This past weekend I went to his house after we had a few drinks. This would be the third time ...

Why am I so scared to sleep with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, my problem is short and sweet..... basically I am not a virgin by any means, and have had sex MORE than enough with previous long term boyfriends. I've never been nervous in the bedroom, have always been very experimental, and had a ...

Should I shave in preparation for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - So, me and my boyfriend are wanting to have sex sometime soon but I don't know if I should shave down there or not. Should I ask him or is it weird to ask your boyfriend something like that? Or do most guys like it shaved or just trimmed? Or leave ...

Should I be worried about her mother catching us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - hi Me and my girlfriend are both 15 and we were foreplaying in her bedroom, her mother stugled to get through the door however i though we were safe, until my girlfriend came back in after talking to her mother and her mother realised her bra...

Should we give it another go? We were almost caught!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Im 15 and me and my girlfriend had been together for four months and we had foreplayed with each other many times, not long ago we were in her front room with the front window open, we got down to skins and i got on top however i couldn't do it, we ...

Shall I find a hotel so we could be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi there, I'm 16 and I truly love this girl, she lives 3 hours away from were I live, however she lives close to my college. I sometimes go round hers now and then, we have made love many a times. I want to take the next step. What shall I do? ...

How can I be more confident sexually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this amazing guy for about six months, he has been great with me but says he wishes I was more forward in makin moves, I have always let him do the work, lack of confidence I suppose, he wants me to go on top, how can I become ...

Am I destined for permanent fuck buddy status?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 23 years old and I have had literally enough boyfriends to equal my age. Its really depressing because no matter who I date (older or yonger, race, religion, whatever)every guy I've ever dated only looks at me as a fuck buddy. I recently...

Lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - hey guys this may seem a really weird question or problem but recently my boyfriend and i seem alil off with each... in the sence that previously we would have sex like 3 or 4 times in one night and now it just seems that after one round he just ...

Have sex? Or wait?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hey Everyone, sorry for the lenqth in advance. But I'm a fifteen year old qirl and I've been datinq my boyfriend for three months. We are very much in love with eachother. For the past couple of days I've really been thinkinq about sex. ...

Playing with each other in school

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi I do alot with my girlfriend, im 15 and i finger my girlfriend under the desk at school, she has never said anything about it she just flows with it, sometimes she wanks me in class too, is this ok? should i be worried about being caught? O...

Bleed every time after sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - i have been in a relationship with the same lad for about 4 years now and just recently i start to bleed everytime we have sex! i dont bleed when he fingers me but only when we have sex and it doesnt hurt much ether. i have nether slept with no1 ...

Pain after losing virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Is it normal to still feel pain even thoug i've lost my virginity? I my virginity in feb, but broke up with the guy soon after,we only had sex twice, and now me and my new boyfriend have got to the stage of wanting to have sex, but it is still ...

I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in March. We recently switched to the withdrawal method of birth control (before that I was on the depo shot). I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is? Has ...

Is masturbation bad for your health?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - What is the average amount of ejaculation.. Is it bad for my health if I do this a lot?...

First timer... Does it really hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - So I'm meeting this guy next week and planning to have sex.. It's my first time but I think I'm ready.. I'm turning 18 so there's no problem.. The question is does it really hurt on first time?...

What can I do to make our sex life better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are together for 1 year and 6 months and we had great sex in the beginning but nowadays he tells me that I don't participate in the times when we have sex..... Can you please tell me what I can do before it's too late and before ...

My boyfriend says I just lay there during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend are together for 1year and 6months now. when we have sex i dont know how too participate with him, and he told me that the fact that i just lay there and dont do anything back makes him feel that he is having sex on his own. ...