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writes:Is it normal to still feel pain even thoug i've lost my virginity?I my virginity in feb, but broke up with the guy soon after,we only had sex twice, and now me and my new boyfriend have got to the stage of wanting to have sex, but it is still really quite painful for me. I am relaxed and we spend a long time on foreplay, but it is still painful. Could it be that he is too big? He has to use extra large condoms or else he has trouble getting them off and cause pain for him.I'm worried sex is always going to be painful! Anyone else has the same problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): Are you lubed (wet) enough before he enters? If your not then try KY Gel and don't think about how painful it maybe. I had the same problem but realised that I was not relaxed enough and tensed throughout the whole time. I knew that if I relaxed it might not be as painful as my bf was also quite big in the lower department. But thinking I was relaxed didn't mean that I was actually relaxed. I told my bf to take it slower and not to penetrate too far in and slowly worked him in until I felt comfortable and ready to let him continue his rhythym. The pain is not forever...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): There's some cases that the hymen is not fully "opened", according to your age and the times you had sex it's likely the case.
don't fear sex, don't think of it as a painfull thing it will only make things worse, try it for a couple of times and if the problem persist you should check a doctor.
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