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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why am I so scared to sleep with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, my problem is short and sweet..... basically I am not a virgin by any means, and have had sex MORE than enough with previous long term boyfriends. I've never been nervous in the bedroom, have always been very experimental, and had a ...

Should I shave in preparation for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - So, me and my boyfriend are wanting to have sex sometime soon but I don't know if I should shave down there or not. Should I ask him or is it weird to ask your boyfriend something like that? Or do most guys like it shaved or just trimmed? Or leave ...

Should I be worried about her mother catching us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - hi Me and my girlfriend are both 15 and we were foreplaying in her bedroom, her mother stugled to get through the door however i though we were safe, until my girlfriend came back in after talking to her mother and her mother realised her bra...

Should we give it another go? We were almost caught!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Im 15 and me and my girlfriend had been together for four months and we had foreplayed with each other many times, not long ago we were in her front room with the front window open, we got down to skins and i got on top however i couldn't do it, we ...

Shall I find a hotel so we could be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi there, I'm 16 and I truly love this girl, she lives 3 hours away from were I live, however she lives close to my college. I sometimes go round hers now and then, we have made love many a times. I want to take the next step. What shall I do? ...

How can I be more confident sexually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this amazing guy for about six months, he has been great with me but says he wishes I was more forward in makin moves, I have always let him do the work, lack of confidence I suppose, he wants me to go on top, how can I become ...

Am I destined for permanent fuck buddy status?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 23 years old and I have had literally enough boyfriends to equal my age. Its really depressing because no matter who I date (older or yonger, race, religion, whatever)every guy I've ever dated only looks at me as a fuck buddy. I recently...

Lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - hey guys this may seem a really weird question or problem but recently my boyfriend and i seem alil off with each... in the sence that previously we would have sex like 3 or 4 times in one night and now it just seems that after one round he just ...

Have sex? Or wait?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hey Everyone, sorry for the lenqth in advance. But I'm a fifteen year old qirl and I've been datinq my boyfriend for three months. We are very much in love with eachother. For the past couple of days I've really been thinkinq about sex. ...

Playing with each other in school

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi I do alot with my girlfriend, im 15 and i finger my girlfriend under the desk at school, she has never said anything about it she just flows with it, sometimes she wanks me in class too, is this ok? should i be worried about being caught? O...

Bleed every time after sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - i have been in a relationship with the same lad for about 4 years now and just recently i start to bleed everytime we have sex! i dont bleed when he fingers me but only when we have sex and it doesnt hurt much ether. i have nether slept with no1 ...

Pain after losing virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Is it normal to still feel pain even thoug i've lost my virginity? I my virginity in feb, but broke up with the guy soon after,we only had sex twice, and now me and my new boyfriend have got to the stage of wanting to have sex, but it is still ...

I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in March. We recently switched to the withdrawal method of birth control (before that I was on the depo shot). I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is? Has ...

Is masturbation bad for your health?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - What is the average amount of ejaculation.. Is it bad for my health if I do this a lot?...

First timer... Does it really hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - So I'm meeting this guy next week and planning to have sex.. It's my first time but I think I'm ready.. I'm turning 18 so there's no problem.. The question is does it really hurt on first time?...

What can I do to make our sex life better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are together for 1 year and 6 months and we had great sex in the beginning but nowadays he tells me that I don't participate in the times when we have sex..... Can you please tell me what I can do before it's too late and before ...

My boyfriend says I just lay there during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend are together for 1year and 6months now. when we have sex i dont know how too participate with him, and he told me that the fact that i just lay there and dont do anything back makes him feel that he is having sex on his own. ...

Recently I have not been able to have an orgasm during sex.

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29 December 2008 (F) - Recently I have not been able to have an orgasm during sex. The person I have been sleeping with has been the same for 2.5 years but about 2 months ago I stopped being able to have an orgasm during sex. Just recently I have not even be able to do it ...

Does masturbating effect your period and should I be getting sore after?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I enjoy masturbating. I am a 13 year old girl. I want to know if this is normal for girl my age. I have been doing this for about 3-4 years. I want to know if there is a way to stop. I have tried many times, but it is almost addicting. I am not a ...

Blood spots... should we be concerned about pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hey guys, So me and my girl friend had Safe sex but the condom broke.. Although i did not come inside her but i have her the MORNING EMERGENCY PILL within 24 hours.. She had a complete 5 day normal period this month. She had gone for track...

Was this attempted rape?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend knows I want to stay a virgin till im married....but last night we did a lot...and normally we do that dry humping thing..well this time I had no clothes on and he had his boxers on...well I felt his hands down there and I didnt kn...

Just how important is sex in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm a virgin. My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a year. Why on and off you ask, or maybe you don't, but I will briefly explain why. He had feelings for me for 9 months and I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship, but as soon as ...

Good oral sex instructions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - How do i give GOOD oral sex becouse im finding its taking a good while for him to come...so im wondering is there something im doing wrong or something im not doing?! be as discriptive as you like i just need to know how to make it good for him!?...

I don't know if I'm ready!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Well, I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14. We've been dating for about 2 months now and we had our first kiss about 2 weeks ago. I Love him and I think he's the perfect boyfriend. I just spent time with him yesterday and we made out for a couple hours. He ...

He keeps saying would you do me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - right.. i have some friends and they have a brother and he keeps flirting with me and when we talk he asks me things like "would you do me?" and i don't know what to do, because i am only 13 and he is 16. he keeps asking me the same question...

I give but he doesn't return the favor!

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29 December 2008 (F) - ok. so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year. i give oral to him almost every day. i enjoy it. although sometimes he asks too much because i dont want to, and he just guilt trips me into doing it. but i just want something in return. he ...

We don't want this kid!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 19, a freshman in college and I'm five weeks pregnant. I know who the father is because he's the only one I've ever had sex with (he's 18 and still in high school), but I honestly don't want this kid and I definitely know he wouldn't, either. He ...

Normal behavior for straight guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Is it normal to wank with your bestfriends, touchin each other penises but no suckin or fucking because were all straight guys... Do straight guys do this to?...

Would it work better if we didn't use a condom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi this is gonna sound so stupid but me and my boyfriend tried 2 have sex and couldn't.... it wouldn't go in and he was wearing a condom. Now he thinks there's something wrong with him and I don't know what to do.... Would it work better if we ...