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Any way to prevent discharge during sex?

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Question - (31 December 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My question is a bit of an embarassing one but its something I don't really have the guts to discuss with anyone I know! lol

Well..I dont really get much vaginal discharge in day-to-day life but when it comes to having sex, my boyfriends dick gets covered in it and things tend to get quite messy!! I find it totally gross and really embarassing to say the least!

Does anyone else have this problem? And if so, is there any way around it or anything I can do to prevent there being so much?? As I said, I dont get much at all during the day (if any) and I know I dont have an infection or anything like that as this has always happened to me!

Thanks for your replies in advance! :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010):

it was the same as me and i had a bacterical infection :) maybee its that x

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A male reader, drSAM India +, writes (22 April 2010):

well as u didn't mention about its ordor or color and also as u didn't get it during other times it is most probably physiological due to autonomic over tone at the time of intercourse and don't be enbrassed ur boyfriend must be loving it .. and also as some people sweat more its quantity also varies likewise.. it is also a sign of more excitement during the act.. i hope u got me....

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A female reader, MommyOfOne United States +, writes (31 December 2008):

MommyOfOne agony auntI think you are talking about the white discharge, and not the clear, right?

I have this happen every now and then with my boyfriend. Its normal, and there is noting you can do to keep it from happening. I think its just our natural lubricant, mixing with his body fluids.

Its normal sweetheart. And yes, the first few times it happened to me, I was pretty embarrassed and a little grossed out. But, there is nothing us girls can do about what our vaginal does. LOL

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2008):

it should be fine and it sounds normal. unless of course you notice a smell or you have any pain. thats when you need to go to the doctor.

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (31 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntWell.. All of my knowledge, it's quite natural to have this discharge. It's different to your natural lubricant though..

If it smells like cheese then you need a check up.. Sometimes it can be an infection in the vagina. It does not leak out normally but when something like a penis or fingure is inserted, it comes out with it..

I'd again like to mention you need to worry ONLY IF it smells bad.. Otherwise you can just enjoy his moves.. Nothing really can be done about it..

G'day

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yes that's exactly what I'm talking about. But I didnt know it turned into small particals? lol you learn something new everyday!

Sorry, I should have been more specific in my original question!

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (31 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntHey uncle phil..

I think she is talking about the white thick discharge that often turns into small particles when rubbed..

Please throw light..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008):

You may see this as a problem, but I doubt very much if he does.

A nice wet fanny is a sure sign that he's doing a good job of turning you on, and any man lucky enough to find a woman like you will be very grateful for the experience. Make the most of it. In about 30 years' time it'll dry up and he'll have to reach for the K-Y jelly instead, which takes the edge off proceedings somewhat!

Prevent it? Good heavens. Trust me - you don't want to do that, as Harry Enfield might say!

Just keep a box of Kleenex by the side of the bed and steer clear of the sofa or you'll have to keep turning the cushions over.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008):

This is exactly what is supposed to happen when you are having sex. It is just natural lubrication and means to a certain degree that you are enjoying it. I bet you boyfriend is delighted so stop worrying.

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