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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): ohkay. im 13 and i have two purity rings because im that comited to staying a virgin until im married, but its up to you, you have to be ready to take on a child if possible and you have to make sure that you love and trust him. And make sure that if you do have a child, that he wont run off. but its up to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): it's not about age ... it's about being ready to assume responsibility
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): I think it dosen't mater if you want it then just do it but if you think it isn't right well than think about it some more. but to answer your question i think you should be 14 or older to have sex
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reader, witch-fire  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 It all depends on you. Im 21 and still a virgin. My advise would be wait until you are ready. I know from experience that this can be frustrating and you just want to get it over with, but I'm just waiting for a nice guy who I feel comfortable enough with to be my first. I hope that helps.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 22 to 25 ...? You sure buddy..?
Anyways, After 18 years of age it is on YOU to decide when you want to have sex.. !! It's when you are READY.. !!
You might not be ready until you fall in love with someone. And thats normal.. !!!
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): You present as aged 22-25 (overage) and currently living in the USA.. If you have to ask when it's time to have sex, then you are not ready yet.
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reader, blackroses2989  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 I very much agree with the last post. You have sex when you feel its right to have sex and most of all when you are ready. The right guy will understand and I think thats its great that you havent given into pressure. I made that mistake when was seventeen with my first boyfriend. But now I'm with one of the best men in the world so I have no regrets. When you are ready to be intimate, you will feel it. Good luck honey!
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reader, alanna_HD +, writes (31 December 2008):
 I agree..only you know when your ready..and if your not sure, then your not ready!
Before i lost my virginity i had a lot of different people and different friends telling me when i should do it, and im glad i never listened to them! Some thought i should have waited till i was married, or until i was 'legal', others just told me to do it to get it over with!!
But the best advice i think anyone could ever give you is wait until your in love, or at least in a loving and long relationship, because your not going to forget your first time. Thats what i did and that felt right to me. And because i'd been 'sexually active' with them before our first time, having sex was just like the next step and so it wasn't awkward or wierd between us..plus you'll enjoy it more! But there's no set rules. Just never let someone pressure you into doing it and wait as long as you need. xXx
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reader, Racky +, writes (31 December 2008):
 only you know this answer. dont rush because other people have done it and dont feel pressured. if it feels right to you then thats fine whether that be now or on ur wedding night, no one knows except you. there is no certain age. take care xxx
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