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Archived questions from: March, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My b/f and I are so close to having sex, but I don't know why I stop him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7175 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are very happy with each other. I live in Maidstone and he lives in Essex so we only get to see each other about once a month but despite the distance our relationship is very strong. We both think ...

His penis is not hard enough! It's like squeezing toothpaste back into the tube...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I am an eighteen year old girl in the early stages of a relationship, all is well in all areas, including foreplay... However, when it comes to penetrative sex, my boyfriend can't enter me! It seems as though his penis is not hard enough! ...

Our problem is a lack of orgasms... His!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7182 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - My bf and I have been having sex for about 3 months now and the past month or so he hasn't been able to climax. We both love each other and understand each other very much and don't know why we have this problem. I have a feeling that its because ...

I feel like I'll never find anyone like the boyfriend that dumped me. Do I try to get over him, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7182 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I've had a few boyfriends and none of them have worked. About 3 weeks ago my boyfriend finished me for one of his other mates. He told me he loved me and we had sex a few times. I really thought he was the one for me. We was so happy together...

I want to leave him breathless with my oral-sex skills...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7168 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - How do you give an amazing blow job that will leave him breathless?...

I'm interested in sex and so is he, but we just can't seem to make it work...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7176 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Myself and my boyfriend have been together for 6 weeks now. Everything is going great except for the sexual side. We dont have sex often and when we do it may not last for very long. Either I become too dry or he becomes limp. This is affecting ...

I can't talk to my mum about what to expect when I have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - I can't talk to my mum about sex. I'm pretty sure I am going to bleed first time as I have from being fingered. If I did bleed, would it be a lot? What would I do if my mum found the blood in my bed? Please reply as soon as possible. many thanks x...

He's so insecure because he can't make me climax every single time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7183 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - I don't orgasm every single time I have sex. This has never been a problem with other lovers, but has become a major problem with my current boyfriend. He is very insecure and when it comes to not pleasuring me he gets really upset. What I c...

The sexual fantasy we both dreamt about almost happened, but my wife changed her mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7184 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - Well this is a long story and I am so confused about it I thought I would get some advise out there before I go get some counselling. My wife and I have been married for over 10 years now. She and I have always had a very intense sexual relation...

Sex is always on my time and my terms... and not very often. Have I fallen out of love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7185 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I was just wondering if you could give me some advice. I have been with my partner for nearly 10 years and we don't have sex very often. The thought of him coming near me turns me off. If I do have sex it's on my time and my terms. Do you thin...

It was my first time trying to have sex, but we couldn't get anything inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7185 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but it wouldn't go in. My vagina seems to stop about 3 centimetres in and then nothing else can go up. Even when he tried fingering me he couldn't get his fingers in there. What is wrong?...

As much as I love my partner, I've begun to feel physically ill during sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7186 days ago

26 March 2005 (?) - Hi, for a while now I have been losing my sexual urges, but don't want to make my partner of 10 yrs think it's anything to do with him. Sometimes during intercourse Ii actually feel physically sick or as if I'm having a panic attack - and have to ...

How do I stop being a "minute man" in the sack?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7184 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - I'm 16 and have been wondering how to stop being a minute man. Like you know when you're in the middle of sex and like 10 minutes goes by and you wanna bust. How do you stop that?...

I think I've put too much pressure on him for sex. Now he feels like he's performing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7186 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - I am in a loving relationship with a wonderful man! We used to have a fantastic sex life and all of a sudden it seems to have slowed way down! I'm not too sure of the reason, just normal for a relationship I guess... The question is how do I get ...

My boyfriend comes too quickly... and he's embarrassed talking about it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7182 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend doesn't like talking about sex, let alone performing. I don't know what to do. I have tried all kinds of techniques and nothing is working. What can I do to make him wild? There is one other problem: he cums too quickly. It feels as...

Since the kids came, our whole lives revolve around them and I miss romance...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7180 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - I think I have fallen out of love with my husband. He is so wonderful in almost every way. He is my best friend and the greatest father. We don't fight or argue about anything. But I don't feel any thing romantic for him. I love our life together...

I can't get an erection...Tried everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7188 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - No erection. I tried all tablets ( viagra, cilas , etc. ) With no effect. What shall I do ?...

My boyfriend won't go down on me; he says it's "horrible"...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

24 March 2005 (?) - Help! my boyfriend will not go down on me, he says the taste is too horrible, and that it's not just me but other past girlfriends, also. Any suggestions?...

Had sex with my boyfriend's best friend and I don't even know why...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7178 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - I need like a lot of help. I don't understand why but I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend. I feel so terrible and I have no idea what to do or how to tell. Can you please help me?...

Sex is painful for me but I hate messing my b/f around & telling him to stop...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7189 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for a while now. We are both ready to have sex and are both over the legal age, but every time we have tried I find it painful and we have to stop. Is there anything we could do to make it less painful? I feel like I'm...

We don't sleep together lately and it's putting pressure on our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7188 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I'm 25, he is 30. We get on really well, never have arguments and love each other very much. The only thing is, for 3 weeks we haven't wanted to sleep with each other. We have spoken about this problem....

It's like I don't care if I have sex or not. What's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7190 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - I don't seem to want to have sex as much as when me and my husband first got married. I'm 35 years old this 4th of July. We will be married 4 years. I'm told I should be in my prime. It's like I don't care if I have sex or not. I'm a very attracti...

Do I have sex with the boy I like, even though he might also be having sex with someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7179 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - I really need help. There is this boy. I really like him but he asked me to have sex with him and I said yes. But I found out the same night he was planning on having sex with another girl as well. Then when I asked him he says it is not true. P...

My new boyfriend is so good in every other way... why can't he satisfy me in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7183 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - I met my guy and fell madly in love with him. It was love at first sight, something I never had before. Didn't believe in love at first sight. I'm a sensible 35 yr old. We phone each other every night and can't bear to be apart now. He says suc...

Is he worth the trouble of sleeping with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7189 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - My problem is that I have been sleeping with this boy for about a year, but every time I ask him out he lies to me. He also has dated many of my friends behind my back. Is he worth all this trouble?...

Need advice on how to last longer in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7171 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - Hi! Every time I have sex I seem to cum pretty quick where I don't really get to pleasure my partner that much. Is there anything I can do to prevent this from happening and last as long as I want in bed all the time?...

Changed my mind about sex-before-marriage. If I tell him, will we just be about sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7191 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - The guy I have been dating for a month, who I really like broke up with me because I said I didn't want sex til I was engaged. Now I have changed my mind and do want sex in a relationship. Should I approach him and let him know my feelings are...

He says he loves me, but he's just too tired for sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7183 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now and we have an overall good relationship. Since the first few weeks of going out though, when there was plenty of passion in the relationship, our sex life has all but died on its feet. He says ...

Wish that my husband wanted me more, the way I want him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7187 days ago

20 March 2005 (?) - My husband seems non-interested in sex anymore. I don't think I turn him off, but he just will not put out like he used to since his mom died, which has been 7 months ago. When we go out I have all kinds of guys checking me out. I don't want to ...

My b/f and I want to try "the back door", but I keep chickening out. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7145 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - Hello again, for the last few months my b/f keeps trying to get me to have anal intercourse. The thought of it really turns me on but every time I say OK I chicken out because I can't handle even a finger. I was told in the past that spit is the b...

I've found my fiance's gay and bi magazines. Do we get married anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7010 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - I think my boyfriend may be gay or bisexual. I have found male pornography magazines. I am six months pregnant and due to marry this summer. Should I confront him? I love him so much....

When we try to have sex our 2-year-old bursts into the room to see what's happening!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7195 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - We have no privacy. My husband and I have been married almost 6 years and we still have a very active sex life. We want to have sex every day but we have a two year old that is very active. And if we try to go in our bedroom to be alone for a fe...

Another girl offered my boyfriend sex, down the alley near our house...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7197 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - A girl offered my boyfriend sex down some alley by our house. We had had a falling out that weekend so he started to walk with her to this alley, then stopped and said that I came into his head. Why did he even start to walk with her, because ...

When I went down on him, he seemed interested, then he asked me to stop. I'm confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7196 days ago

15 March 2005 (?) - I went down on a guy I'm dating for the first time. He wasn't aroused at first but then he started to get hard. Then he wanted me to stop. Believe me, this has never happened to me before! Why do you think he wanted me to stop?...

Could he have an infection..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7137 days ago

14 March 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend used this lubricant and he said the next day he got a burning sensation in his penis and it hurts when he goes to the toliet. But he also said when we are having sex he wants to cum and feels like he wants to come but it gets ...

Even sex toys don't help me reach orgasm with my partner! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7198 days ago

13 March 2005 (?) - Although I can orgasm through masturbation, this does not happen when I am with my partner. I have been in a lesbian relationship for 2 months and I cannot seem to climax. It comes naturally for my partner but not for me. I have heard that there are ...

No sex since the first time... and she can't tell me why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7200 days ago

12 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my girlfriend for about four months now. We slept together once about three months ago but have not since. I asked her more than once if there's a problem but she says she can't tell me because it's thi...

It went floppy once, now I can't stop thinking it'll go floppy again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7193 days ago

12 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I have a problem with my penis. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a month now and we have had PART sex, which means we was having sex but during it I went floppy. Now every time we try to do anything my mind just is never is the ...

Eight months of sex, but no orgasm. Why not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7196 days ago

12 March 2005 (?) - I have been having sex for 8 months now and have not once had an orgasm from sexual intercourse. Why is this and what can I do about it?...

Can masturbation be harmful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7200 days ago

11 March 2005 (?) - Hi I am 19 years-old boy. I have a sex related question. I want to know whether masturbation has a bad effect on the body. Does masturbation makes our body weak? How many time can we masturbate?...

What's this..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7198 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - At the end of my penis there is a little patch about 1cm long and 5mm wide and it is full of little dots. i am only 13 and am a virgin but do not know what it is. Any help would be great. Thanks....

I tried to have sex with my g/f, but I couldn't get hard...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7202 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - When me and my girlfriend tried to have sex for the first time I couldn't get hard. I want to have sex but when we try it goes soft. Also when we are "fooling around" it gets hard and cum comes out little by little. Is this the problem? How can I ...

Even though he dumped me twice & seems interested in my friend, I'd like to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7197 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - I have been in love with a boy since I was in year 4 and we are both in year 9 now, and it isn't just a crush. I have had butterflies when I think about him, since the first time I saw him. We went out in year 7 and 8 but he ended up dumping ...

My partner rejected my advances and I feel hurt and humiliated...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7034 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - Can anyone tell me if how I am feeling is wrong? I have been with my partner for about four months and now we live together. I love him very much but recognise I suffer from low self-esteem. Last night, I tried to entice my boyfriend to bed. We ...

He won't touch me "there". Is it me? Or him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7203 days ago

8 March 2005 (?) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year and a half and everything is going fine, although when it comes to foreplay he is reluctant to go anywhere down there, even a hand job. This has been like this from the start. Am I doing somthing wrong or ...

My boyfriend has shut off emotionally from me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7191 days ago

8 March 2005 (?) - I really do need some relationship advice. I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 and a half years and we have never had a easy ride of it. He has 2 children and a ex girlfriend that is a pain. I have been married befor and have 1 child. ...

There are times when I want sex & so does she... so why won't my penis cooperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7198 days ago

6 March 2005 (?) - I always find myself in a position (not sex position) where me and a girl are in bed. She wants sex, and so do I. I get horny and get an erection but it either goes down before anything's started or never goes up in the first place. This is not t...

What happens if we sleep together and then he loses interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7205 days ago

6 March 2005 (?) - I've just started a relationship with a new guy and I like him so much. We haven't been together very long, but get on so well! We have already slept together in the same bedroom and experimented with foreplay a little. I'm 20 and he's 18 and ...

I love and trust my husband but I don't feel sexual... at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7138 days ago

6 March 2005 (?) - Ive been with my husband for 4 years and married for about 2 years. I haven't wanted to have sex, it hasn't ever been my idea, I just don't feel sexual at all. I'm wondering how to fix this problem. My husband brings it up a lot and all I can say ...

I want to give excellent oral sex..!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

5 March 2005 (?) - Can anyone give me three top tips to give sensational oral sex to a man? ...