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writes: I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year and a half and everything is going fine, although when it comes to foreplay he is reluctant to go anywhere down there, even a hand job. This has been like this from the start. Am I doing somthing wrong or does he not fancy me?
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (10 March 2005):
 You aren't doing anything wrong; he is. He obviously has some kind of hang up that needs addressing. It isn't because he doesn't fancy you. For some unknown reason he can't seem to touch you in an area that most men do. Have you tried asking him about it? In a tactful way such as saying that you enjoy making love with him but have noticed that he hardly touches you there?There could be something locked in his past that is preventing him from caressing you. Seeing a sex therapist, if he would go, is one option. Trying to get him to talk about it is another. Asking him for reassurance that he does find you attractive is something else you could do.Good luck.
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