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writes: The guy I have been dating for a month, who I really likebroke up with me because I said I didn't want sex til I was engaged. Now I have changed my mind and do want sex in a relationship.Should I approach him and let him know my feelings are different? Or is this doomed to failure, because I am doing the chasing, and he might just date me for the sex?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, jonny boy, writes (21 March 2005): He's not worth it sunshine, not even the slightest bit!! Anyone who wants you just for sex is no good for you!! My my, this guy sure doesnt waste any time here does he? Think about what you're saying here, you're saying he's leaving you ONLY after a MONTH just because you told him you don't want sex till you're engaged. Read it over and over and over again and now, tell me if he's still worth going back to, even after you've changed your mind about not having sex till getting engaged. If your answer's yes, then you both really deserve each other...a giver who doesn't ask and a taker who uses the giver!! But I shall take a bold step here and assume that you're much more intelligent than that. Bear this in mind as well: he's not the only one in town who has a dick! And besides, you haven't even got to know the real him yet (you can't within a month), so just take a breather from it all and start dating again, when you're ready and hopefully the next time you'll lose your virginity to someone who's more responsible and loves you for you, not just sex.
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