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writes: A girl offered my boyfriend sex down some alley by our house. We had had a falling out that weekend so he started to walk with her to this alley, then stopped and said that I came into his head. Why did he even start to walk with her, because if a bloke asked me that I wouldn't have taken a step towards the alley with him! Am I doing something wrong? He gets everything and more of me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2005): There is nothing wrong with you!!!We all get a fickle moment at times. We all like to have a boost - something different, from somewhere different! It doesn't mean we jump into bed with the first person who makes us feel good tho.This was a fickle moment with some tart or other who tried it on. Didn't get her anywhere tho. Mind you, she's won if you let this upset you anymore.Go get him and love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2005): I am sure he does, but are you sure that he isn't getting too greedy? Maybe it is time to get out of the relationship. If it was not this woman, it could be another !!!!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (15 March 2005):
 You say he gets everything and more from you. I wonder what you mean? Perhaps that you put everything into the relationship? The question is: does he?No, he shouldn't have even considered the notion of having sex with this girl. Okay, so it is lucky that he didn't go through with it but as you say, you wouldn't have done the same thing. You need to tell him that. Make him aware of what it may be like for him if the roles were reversed. How would he feel if someone propositioned you? Ask him also to explain to you what exactly came into his head when he stopped. Loyalty to you? That he didn't want to betray you? Ask him why he even considered going down the alley with this girl. Was it to get back at you because you had an argument? This is not the way to deal with issues and seems rather immature.You need to sit down with your boyfriend and talk and listen to him. Where do you stand in this relationship? Is he keen to be faithful to you? How does he see the future for you both? On the basis of his answers, you will then have to think what you want from the future too.I really hope this helps.
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