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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

What kind of things are important to know about your fiance before getting married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: What kind of things are important to know about your fiance before getting married? I'm not looking for the obvious things here...Wondering what other engaged/married couples come to discover is important to know be...

Should my girlfriend become a soldier like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - OP's own title. I'm an army soldier and my current girlfreind wants to join the army as well, but I'm not sure I want her to base on the job she wants to do. she really values the my opinion and I told her she should if she feels it will bring us c...

At 6 months, shouldn't he know if he loves my by now? Or am I rushing things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Ok i need help! A bit of history is that my childrens father was a serial cheat throughout our 10 year long relationship, this ended 2 years ago. I t took me a while but i am now over it and feel really ready to move on. I dated a couple of guys ...

Should I tell him I love him back? Or should I wait for him to tell me when he's not drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Last night my boyfriend and I got home late and pretty drunk after a party (though he'd had more than me). He tends to be a lot more free in expressing his feelings when he's had a few drinks and after talking emphatically for a while about how ...

It turns out I was in love with her... should I make a move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hey y'all. Sorry I haven't been giving advice too much lately, I just haven't been online too much this summer. Anyways, I'm having a little emotional dilemma. My best friend is a woman. Our relationship is closer than any relationship I'v...

Sweet things we do for each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - Sometimes, when I'm not there, my boyfriend writes messages saying he loves me in my notebooks or on word documents on my laptop or leaves them on the screen. Sometimes he sets alarms on my phone telling me he loves me or writes it in a text and ...

How do I get my friend to kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - how do i get my close friend to kiss me (he i a boy by the way) i have liked him for a while and my friends have told him but he still doesnt seem to like me in the way i want him to:|...

Question for ladies: Is this letter OK sounding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

21 July 2010 (M) - OK question for ladies..... I've loved this girl for soo long and im moving on. We were really close etc but i kno nothing is gonna happen. Long history which i wont go into but we met up recently and i just feel the need to send this... let me k...

How you you like your husband to approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Tip for first experience please. I think it's nice and romantic to brush my wife's hair (on her head--for those with perverted mind!). I'm basically looking for something sweet and romantic that I can do daily when we wind down (I have the mass...

My boyfriend worries too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - This past November my friend convinced me to join a dating website, knowing I didn't have enough time to find someone with so much to do for work and college. Soon after I got a message from a shy, quiet PhD student at a local Ivy League school. We ...

How can I help my friend find someone who will love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - i have a frend she is tall and blonde and she wears glasses she is allways upset coz she thinks that noone will ever like her i love her very much and i want her to find someone that will love her for all her goods and bads i wish i could just find ...

Will you remember your first kiss forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - is your first kiss an important moment in your life ? will u remember it forever ? is it ok 2 kiss and date at 11or12or13 or is it 2 young?...

How can I find my Prince Charming?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - do fairy tales come true in real life? will the prince sweep the princess of her feet and will they life happily ever after ?and all the romance movies can it happen in reall life? and if so i want one of these stories 2 come true in my life.. how ...

Unprovoked insecurity and anxiety in my relationship...any advice on how I can help myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Hello, I’m going to say sorry ahead of time for the super long post. (Err.. essay.) Hopefully it’s bearable for someone. A little background information for you. I'm 22, and I've been dating my 19 year old girlfriend for 9 months ...

How do you cope with being apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have it really easy. We see each other every day. Sometimes it's all day, sometimes it's all night, sometimes it's just for half an hour. But still every day. I've gotten really used to this. And now tomorrow, we have to spend a ...

Coped without love so far, but what about the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I'm 16 years old and feel like im missing out on a unique, somewhat important experience. I've tried to avoid ranting about love, but i feel i've exhausted most other things i find interesting over years, and i've finally reached my breaking ...

I can't have the girl I want without feeling like a dog for leaving

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Here is a tough one for you guys. I grew up with a girl who became my foster sister when I was 15 . I have always been in love with her.I told her I loved her when we 16 then again 19 and the last time when we were 24 when she told me she didnt lo...

After 8 years I still can't get her out of my mind

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I left Hawaii in 6th grade and I seem to leave "the other half of me" back. For 8 yrs now, I've been thinking of the same girl that I liked when I was in 6th grade. Im in college now, (sophmore) and I still think of her. We talk no...

Should I be her hero?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - If you could, take a few mins and help me be creative :) normally, i have no problems with girls what so ever. But... this case is different. Ive tried to date her in the past. Once sophomore year. Nearly worked, except best friend was an a...

Did you ever love someone you couldn't have?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - This isn't really for advice, more for opinions. Is there anyone whose ever loved someone before or had feelings for someone, but there was sort of an obstacle to get to that person? Did you ever get to them? Was it worth it to risk the things y...

Am I setting a good example by staying for the kids, or am I setting myself up to be alone with a stranger when the kids leave the home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 28yrs old and have been married for 9 years. I am not sure exactly what answers I am seeking, but am compelled to tell my story in hopes of gaining some advice, or at least a different perspective from those in similar or different ...

I'm in an amazing online relationship, only she doesn't know this one thing about me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hi. I'm a 23 year old guy in a situation causing me lots of stress. I really hope you can help me. I'm in an online relationship with an amazing girlfriend. We love each other so much. We've had our ups and downs but we're still together, and ou...

Me and my boyfriend have so much in common that I am wonderingif it is a good or bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - So me and my bf are both really silly. We have the same taste on some stuffs, yesterday he even said, "I swear you're like my twin!" I don't know if this is a good thing or not. . Please tell me. We love each other a lot by the way. :D He's my whole ...

Found my faery tale but trying to live a dream

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - The Situation: I found my friend from about 5-7 years ago. We were talking but nothing serious just catching up but i somehow caught feelings for him.(When i found him i was in washington and he is in new mexico) I am now in new mexico and we hung ...

Questions about the honeymoon period, and what are other couples sleeping arrangements?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I have a couple of quick and easy questions: How long has the 'honeymoon period' typically lasted in your relationships? How do you normally sleep with your partners? Most of my relationships I'd go home to sleep but my current partner lik...

Nervous about seing an old friend that I have feelings for again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - Ok.. so I started camp a week ago and made friends with this girl I like. She left the first week, and might be coming back the third week, which is next week, and my gut keeps telling me things will be awkward and I don`t know what to do. Should I ...

Is this a good gift for a woman I care about but can't be with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - Very soon it will be the birthday of someone who is really special to my heart. The story is extremely complicated so I will cut it short and say that it is almost impossible we'd ever be together, and however we hang out sometimes and I have good ...

What do you find is the best way to make sex really romantic, passionate and emotional?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - I'm just really curious about people's experiences. I've heard loads of ways that sex has been really orgasmic and physically pleasureable for people, but I'm curious about the passion and romance of it. What made you feel the connection the most ...

How to get over the past in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

5 July 2010 (F) - This is a bit of a long story, so I'll try to make it short. I have an amazing boyfriend. He treats me like a queen and would do anything to make me happy. I see in him the man I want to marry and the man who I want to father my future children....

I love my best friend... she's my friend's girlfriend :(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

3 July 2010 (M) - hmmmph... here's to start my story, we've been best friends for 7 years... and in that 7 years i knew i love her... she knows about it already... well, here's the unlucky part, she has this boyfriend, they've been together for 3 years already... her ...

How am I supposed to move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend has been in this relationship for 4 years, 2 years together and two years apart since I have to go overseas to work. We were so inlove. He is 25 and im 27. He has been asking me to marry him two years ago, he doesn't want us to ...

Never got together, married now but still care, any hope for us??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

2 July 2010 (?) - Sorry this is so long but please bear with me. Some of the back story is very important for the question. Ok. My problem is I still have a thing for this guy after 7 years! I met him when we were both in the Army. We weren't close friends but we h...

I want to be able to go through a day without thinking of him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

2 July 2010 (F) - I have a huuge crush on my guy friend....he has nooo ideaa....I can't tell him and never will He has a gf or am not sure if she really is..it sux when I see a comment that he posts on her FB page...it becomes like my worst day ever when I see that...