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writes:I'm just really curious about people's experiences. I've heard loads of ways that sex has been really orgasmic and physically pleasureable for people, but I'm curious about the passion and romance of it. What made you feel the connection the most during sex? Is there a particular setting, speech, action that you find extra romantic or anything else at all that makes it even better? I'm purely asking out of curiosity =]
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (11 July 2010):
Now your thinking Girl! we don't need to tell you what to do you know!
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (8 July 2010):
EbonyBlossom is verified as being by the original poster of the question I totally agree with the spontanaeity of it =] I also personally, like being able to see what's going on down there! I think low lighting is better than pitch black, and then you can look down and see you pleasuring each other =p Obviously combined with eye contact of course!
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reader, Philosophyzer +, writes (6 July 2010):
 To me, the typical rose petals on the bed and Kenny G on the sax "romance" is far too cheesy. It feels too planned and thought out. I've always preferred when sex is very spontaneous. It feels so much more in the moment and alive. In those moments, intense eye contact makes me melt and being slightly rough (tugging hair, lightly biting) enhances it that much more. It also helps if you are just totally into your partner; drowning in their eyes and just completely smitten.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (6 July 2010):
You really wanna know? go to a dirty store they have all kinds of neat things! and it depends on what hes like? is he a layed back guy who would like candles and a good dinner by candle light and some soft music, or some like the bedroom thing! put on some dancing music get you a cute Lil outfit like some candles too! put him on the bed tie him up w/ some ties if he trust you? do a strip tease dance for him drip some honey or whip cream all the way down his chest in to his navel lic it off slowly kiss him wetly nibble on his ears stick you wet tongue in his ear kiss him all over and watch you will see you will get him so aroused! it will take off from there. they have some good licking jel at the dirty store or you can find your own!
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reader, c.lili  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 First I think I've had a couple of really good connections. First of course I was in the mood.
I wasn't that spontaneous crazy sex. It's like after a romantic dinner you have all the time in the world and we both know it, drinking a glass of something like red wine or moscate wine...
And slowly being seduced, he has to initiate it... Cary me to bed... Slowly taking of my clothes a little massage. Then I'll do the same to him and we just I don't know take all the time in the world. It's about us not sex, it's about pleasure not orgasm... Face to face sex is the best for most intimacy and of course lots of kissing and bodies as close as possible...
I think that's about it ;)
(I don't like candles, actually they put of my mood I'm scared I might burn something lol)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 I have never thought about it, I only reflect on what happened afterwards. The few times I felt the most romantic, passionate were when we really missed each other. I guess when two people are in sync. Every experience is different and I have to say it can't be planned. If it can be planned, then it's not spontaneous and exciting. It also helps if you have 5 hours just to yourselves and you were well rested before. Definitely a lot of eye contact and sensual touching. About the setting, pink roses, shiny pink bed sheets and a lover statue gives off a romantic vibe.
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reader, KingOfThron +, writes (6 July 2010):
 I would have to say the person you are having sex with, if it's some one you care about alot on an emotional level then i find it helps the lust, and the fact that of you have some one you really care for and are in an open relasonship, then you and your partner can exparament, and play little games (if you know what i mean ;])
For me i ether enjoy the act where the girl is playing shy and learning or if the girl is full of lust and likes to play with light-heavy bitting(depending on the mood) and how rough she wants it, to hear a girl beg to be plesered harder and faster is kind of kinky to hear :P
hope my little insight helped :P
again it all depends on the mood of the person i guess, some times slow and easy, fast and hard, shy and learning, naughty and rough. Just depends on the mood and what people like
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reader, KingOfThron +, writes (6 July 2010):
I would have to say the person you are having sex with, if it's some one you care about alot on an emotional level then i find it helps the lust, and the fact that of you have some one you really care for and are in an open relasonship, then you and your partner can exparament, and play little games (if you know what i mean ;])
For me i ether enjoy the act where the girl is playing shy and learning or if the girl is full of lust and likes to play with light-heavy bitting(depending on the mood) and how rough she wants it, to hear a girl beg to be plesered harder and faster is kind of kinky to hear :P
again it all depends on the mood of the person i guess, some times slow and easy, fast and hard, shy and learning, naughty and rough. Just depends on the mood and what people like
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