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writes:hmmmph... here's to start my story, we've been best friends for 7 years... and in that 7 years i knew i love her... she knows about it already... well, here's the unlucky part, she has this boyfriend, they've been together for 3 years already... her boyfriend is also a close friend of mine... someone i am with during drinking sessions... well we're not that totally close, but a lot of his friends are also my friends...so here's this thing right? Im in love with her, yes... she knows everything, she gives time for me, but can't break up with his bf which always hurts me like hell... we kiss... we do hugs, we give love... but the question... Am I doing the right thing??? Or am I just a third party? Or am I a relationship destroyer? I'm so depressed... She always tells me to never leave her... even if she won't ask, i still can't leave her, coz i'm so damn in love with her... i want to move on but it seems so impossible... I love her so much, and i've been a martyr for quite a long time... they say i should wait... but i've waited too much... now its killing me... i think im numb already... its alright... hahaha!Guys, im not telling you to not wait for someone you love... its up to you really... they say follow your heart... some say, if you are really meant for each other, time will always come... its just luck... its not your decision really, its the girl's... wait if you want to find out, risk your happiness and fight for your love... or you could find someone else, go to your ex, try to forget a girl you love and find your own way of happiness... its also up to you... just choose what is the best for you... coz me, im here terribly hurt, luck seems to hate me... i have some other affairs with girls but it's still impossible to forget my best friend... because she is what my heart longs for... =( bad luck for me...GO GUYS... GO GET YOUR SOULMATES!!!
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reader, Thegirlwiththepurplescarf  +, writes (19 July 2010):
Hey 3
7 years is a long time eh ? You really do love her and i think thats amazing but you sound like such a lovely person and you deserve to be happy to have someone that you dont have to share with anyone else :) good luck love !
The girl in the green scarf. xx
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reader, blackice10 +, writes (11 July 2010):
 they're right and you know that... I know how hard it can be for you to move on, but you can't let her mess with your head... You are obviously too good for her to put up with it so long, and even if you did get her, she's a cheat, man she'd do the same to you ... She wants to have her cake and eat it .... Give your slice to a gal that deserves it xx
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reader, Falling_Star  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Yeah, dude, move on. She got to make a choice, either let you go so you can move on or break up with her bf so she can be with you. She's cheating on her bf then right? =/ Bad girl. She don't deserve you really.
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reader, KingOfThron  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 user Smile(: is 100% right man, she wants the best of bouth worlds, a guys we wants to show off and a guy that maybe too good for her, if she was any kind of friend then she would treat you better, and if she knows how you feel find out how she feels, and try to make the bg choice if she is going to try for you or just keep you on the side likes like her pet, i would say move on
Wish you the best of luck!
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reader, smile(: +, writes (5 July 2010):
It sounds like she is using you and you deserve better. If she knows you love her, she should not double play (insert derogatory comment here), either she should break up with her bf, or not let you touch her.
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