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writes:Ok.. so I started camp a week ago and made friends with this girl I like. She left the first week, and might be coming back the third week, which is next week, and my gut keeps telling me things will be awkward and I don`t know what to do. Should I tell her I like her? One of her friends says she doesn`t like me.. Or, should I just act like my feelings for her don`t exist and just bury them and continue going on with our friendship. I understand I`m young and have my whole life ahead of me to meet other girls and stuff but she`s the first girl I felt some sort of connection with. I will happily bow out if she wants to be with someone else, but I don`t want to miss out if we might have something special. Reply to this Question
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reader, xtruestory3 +, writes (8 July 2010):
 Tell her. Be cool about it. But if you do not tell her, you will always regret it and always wonder what if. It is better to take the risk and express how you feel because it opens the possibility of you getting what you want. but if you keep it to yourself it will eat at you and there is almost no chance of it happening because you didnt act on your feelings. Youa re absolutley right, you are young. So am I. But I have learned to take the chances while your still young, while you have room to take risks and make mistakes. I know you probably feel like its easier to just save yourself embarrasment or hurt and just not tell her, but the easy way will always have the smaller outcome. Goodluck kidd. I hope you make the right decision.
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