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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

Too much in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I have been married a little over a year after a divorce from a 35 year marriage. We are both madly in love with each other and spend every minute we can together, we just can't seem to get enough of each other. I moved to a new city to enable ...

Her LDR is going bad, and I really want her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - My best friend is a girl and we've known each other for way too long (about eleven years to be exact). We're now in the same university (we planned that considering we only knew each other was going to this school) and we've actually decided to room ...

My gf is moving away to uni, I'm afraid that she's not as committed to the relationship as I am

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 18. We've been together for 13 months now, and i thought everything was going great. I love her so much and she says she does too. I run my own business with my brother, and my girl has just finished her A levels and is m...

My girlfriend talks about her other guy friends who love her dearly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Well this is the Issue. I have recently met a girl at work. She is just amazing, she is 20 but really has a good head on her shoulders. I am 28. We became very good friends pretty fast and then She came to know that I liked her more than a friend ...

How can I make our time together even more romantic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Hai, My girlfriend is coming round my place very soon, Last time when I was with her we relaxed in this hammock in the forest near by, This then gave me the brilliant idea of having the same sort of thing near my place, Seeing as school starts back ...

How do I make sure I never lose my boyfriend and show him how crazy I am about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - i am in involved in a serious relationship with a guy who is so crazy about me for a year and i want this relationship to last for ever. so far i have not seen him doing something that really hurt me but he always does good to me. i need some ...

In love with my best male friend. Should I wait or just give up on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hi. Im in a bit of a situation. I am in love with a very old friend of mine. I have known him since we were at school, and we are very good friends, who can talk to each other about anything. We chat nearly every day, even tho he has a girlfriend...

I fell in love in Thailand and desperately want to keep in touch with him, but he hasn't replied to my text!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - This is a long story but I'll try to be as succinct as possible. I hope you can bear with me. I recently went on a 2 month trip to Thailand, my main purpose being to teach English to the local schoolchildren there. I was staying at a resort for ...

My best friend and I had our first arguement in five years.. but I'm in love with him and don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I'm young I will admit, I have been best friends with this guy as long as I can remember, I never really focused on it as anything other than a great friendship. One of my friends said " you 2 will be married one day". At the time I just smirked ...

Am I losing out on who might be the only one for me or will I meet someone like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Hi, im having quite a bit of love life trouble. 4 months ago i split up with my girlfriend (who we'll call EMMA) of 2 and a half years. she was my first love and we loved each other very much. the main trouble in the relationship was that she has a ...

We're ready to get married but his parents won't consent - is there a way around this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I am an 18 year old mother of 2 beautiful boys and their father is only 17..we are trying to get married so he can go of to the army but its becoming impossible because his mother does not approve..we have been together for 4 years now and were ...

Should I follow my heart and see her despite my mother's insistance I stay focused on studies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid.... I have met this girl in high school, and also in junior high, but I only had a small crush on her back then. But now, 10 years later, I typed her name on facebook..and she is there. Well, testing my courage, I typed her that I like ...

Do I tell her how I feel, or do I just wait for her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 August 2009 (M) - I'm a 20 year old guy, and i think i am in love with a 17 year old girl, I have known her all my life but just realised how beautiful and how nice her personality is. I sent her a message the other day telling her how i felt but the next day i sent ...

Are looks really that important?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - To sum the whole problem up, everyone thinks and says my boyfriend is ugly. We're in a long distance relationship, therefore most of my friends haven't even seen him closely, but when they see his pics they all start screaming at me about how ugly ...

Did you ever tell your bestfriend you were in love with him/her, and what reaction did you get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

18 August 2009 (?) - hi this is a question going out to the guys out there (and girls) Was just wondering what sort of reaction you got after you told your g/f or freind that u were "in love" with them, (not just love them) im in love with this girl that i have ...

She doesn't love me back .. will she ever..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - The prettiest girl I've ever seen... the girl of my dreams, a year ago she broke up with my cousin who used to be very close to me, a few months ago me and her started talking and we became inseparable. There literally isn't a moment in the day when ...

Not just a metaphor...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Two weeks ago I was in Germany. The Rhine Valley, to be precise. I went there on a trip with my Wind Band. I wont say what I play, for fear of discorvery, lol. Any one of the 66 people with me could be on this site! One of the other 66 people ...

I'm falling for him again, but he's still with the baby mother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) - Need some advice. About 10 years ago right after high school I was seeing this guy...we will call him John. Everything was great between us until right after John's high school graduation. See I bought him a present which happened to be a gold ring ...

I love her but our circumstances prevent us from being together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

14 August 2009 (M) - This one is long so I will try and be brief. I am a male, 50 years old. I have been married 21 years. My marriage was wonderful the first two years and then suddenly my wife had terrible brain seizures. She was diagnosed initially with schizophren...

I just want a chance to tell him how I feel...what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Hey there, about two years ago I met the love of my life, my true love and at the time I didn’t realize how I felt until I let him go. Long story short I had a boyfriend for fours that treated me like crap. I broke up with my BF of 4 years to be ...

We're in love...is it possible at our age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

12 August 2009 (F) - Basically before this guy, i didnt believe in serious relationships in your adolescence. i met him freshmen year and now we're going into junior year and still together, even though i switched schools. our relationship has been nearly perfect with ...

How can I tell if these feelings I'm having are real love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 August 2009 (M) - Well i dont know where to start a friend hooked us up and it led to me the first kiss and i cant quit thinking about her. I love the feeling when were together but when were away i get tears to my eyes when i think about her and how much i love her. ...

Need advice on how to go on with life..

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11 August 2009 (M) - I have been in love with a women for 15 years ,and for 15 years living a life full of lies,She was a friends girlfriend at the time,He introduced her to me and for some reason we had this connection from the first time we set eyes on eachother.We ...

How do you know he is "the one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I think I am currently with the love of my life, but due to my young age I am wanting to hold off on marriage until I am atleast 20. I think he is "the one" but because of my young age, I do not want to jump into things too quickly and regret it ...

We're great friends..but how do I tell her I have fallen in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - i hae been seeing this woman for about 2 years and i do not know how to tell her that i have fallen in love with her.all this time we have been great friends we share the good and bad times together. we have had small dates like going to the movi...

Two cultures...one wedding! How do we do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for six years and five months today. We're actually getting married in exactly seven months but we STILL have not compromised on a theme to the wedding. He's Mexican-American and I'm Irish-American and we want to ...

Have you ever found lost love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Has anyone out there ever recovered lost love? How did you do it? Please share your experience because I am hoping to recover mine, in time... thanks...

We know we made a mistake, but it can't be changed now but she doesn't want me to meet their child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend now for 2 years... yes he was still married when we started dating we were not intimate right away because he was married but once he decided that he would divorce we did become intimate. Yes I know that this is ...

The love I feel for her is overwhelming...but she loves someone from Australia and wants to move there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - This problem can be blamed on many things. I am the one that is to blame the most though. I have known this girl for over 10 years now and I can honestly say I love her. Don't look at my age and discriminate. I'm not naive, I know what this is. I've ...

I've dated, inpregnated, in love with, and proposing marriage to a possible half sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

4 August 2009 (M) - hi. i'm 23, male, and looking for some advice for a situation that could be really great, or really awkward. i was adopted and raised an only child. i had a vague recollection of my birth mother having another child before me, by a different bio ...

I'm worried that if I tell her I love her she may reject me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - My relationship has finally backed me into a corner...I realized that I'm falling in love with my girlfriend. I've tried so hard not, because I doubted she could ever feel the same way about me, but I can't fight it anymore...she's the greatest girl ...

I am SO in love with her I feel like crying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

2 August 2009 (M) - There's this girl, who is very important to me. Every time I think of her I want to cry. I've known this girl since kindergarten. In the 3rd grade, she told me she liked me for a friend, because that's the same year she found out I've had a crush on ...

Should I wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - hi all ..... got a question for you or rather in need of help .. here it goes... I met a guy recently in a club abroad who used to be my childhood sweet heart at school i havnt seen him in ages... when i saw him i was gob smacked still scho...

I've tried to be rational on my one, but I can't eat, I can't sleep I've got it so bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - I recently met this guy. He is a huge deal, because I used to run away from guys who approached me. I never saw myself getting married, never saw myself be with anyone before. But when I met him, there was like this instant rush of images. I could ...

Lost love and found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

1 August 2009 (F) - Hi I have never done this before, but am in turmoil. I was reading some other chats on here and decided to tell my story. I am totally in love with my childhood sweetheart. He has been married about 15 years now. I am so ashamed about it...